Human sex and love are sublime.
It should not be taken lightly.
01
When you hear the words "sex doll", what is the first thought in your heart?
Is it disgust?
Or shame?
Think of it as a hidden "toy."
Maybe there are, this is normal, at one time I also looked at "sex dolls".
Until I saw a special company, Lumidolls.
The following is the cover of Lumidolls' website, and their "products" are not exaggerated to say that they are "charming".
But this is not a real person, but a robot.
Surprisingly, the robot's touch is very realistic, not as cold and stiff as imagined.
The "robot brothel" gathered by these dolls, although the fee is not cheap, still can't stop the business boom.
The popularity of the heat made it once on the World Cup travel guide.
Lumidolls' dream is to expand robotic brothels around the world.
Of course, at the same time, the various doubts and controversies brought about by sex robots have never been less.
Some argue that this is an ethical challenge;
Some believe that this is the gospel of mankind.
In fact, you don't have to be too quick to make a conclusion, because next, your impression of this sex robot will be greatly improved.
02
In the past, we thought that sex dolls were "difficult to climb the elegant hall" and should be collected into the cabinet.
But a Japanese uncle named Senji Nakajima is very "bold", living with sex dolls and sleeping together.
Although he is married and a father of two children, it does not prevent him from getting along with sex dolls.
He said, "Compared with women, dolls will not betray themselves, and they will not let themselves down." ”
He would elaborately dress up the sex dolls;
Take the dolls to a picnic together;
Pose for dolls;
Along with the sex doll, Senji Nakajima gains both physical and psychological pleasure.
There is also a physical therapist named Masayuki Ozaki in Japan, who regards the doll as a confidant with a red face.
It turns out that although Ozaki Masayuki has married and had children, he still feels that he is not understood.
His wife did not have the patience to listen to him and often quarreled with him over trivial matters.
All of this pushed him towards the sex doll.
He once said, "It's too tiring to get along with people. ”
What's more, many times his feelings are often overlooked.
When he is with the doll, he will feel very at ease.
Liu Zhenyun said that loneliness is "one person looking for another person, one sentence looking for another sentence."
When such a tacit understanding is not found, the sex doll becomes another option.
From this perspective, I suddenly understood why they were so obsessed with sex dolls:
Sex dolls are not only sexual, but also can heal people's hearts.
03
I once saw a movie called "Sex Doll Love."
The protagonist, Russ, is a social phobia patient who dodges when he sees people, including his brother and sister-in-law.
There is even a burning sensation in contact with people.
One day, he appeared in front of everyone with his "girlfriend", a sex doll.
It caused a great deal of astonishment.
He introduced his "girlfriend" Bianca to himself:
"You won't believe it,
She drove me crazy.
Bianca comes from the tropics,
She's Brazilian,
Half Brazilian and half Danish. ”
His brother thought he was crazy and negotiated with his wife that he must be taken to the hospital.
At first, I thought Russ was going to be treated inhumanly.
But no.
Instead, doctors treat Russ like normal people.
Bianca is also diagnosed like a real person.
Take her blood pressure, check her body... It was as if Bianca had breathing and had its own feelings.
Just when I thought the doctor was crazy too, I saw her explanation:
Mental abnormalities are not always a disease.
The solution is to pretend that Bianca is a real person and get along with him in such a setting.
Although it was difficult to accept, the brother and sister-in-law still persuaded the people in the town to do the same.
One of the old women said:
"What's the big deal about that?
Sally, your cousin dressed his cat;
Hazel, your nephews all spend their money on UFO clubs;
Arnie, everyone knows that your first wife had a burglary fetish. ”
Indeed, there is something incomprehensible about everyone.
It takes understanding, not ruthless criticism, that you understand that there is something lovely about anyone.
So people started thinking of Bianca as Russ's girlfriend.
They are also invited to join the party.
In this way, Bianca became a part of the town.
I think Russ was lucky.
Once, his mother died because of his difficult childbirth, so he has always felt guilty.
He lacks love, and at the same time, he feels that he is not worthy of love.
So when people accept Bianca, they accept Russ.
It is also equivalent to telling him that everyone deserves to be loved and treated with tenderness.
In this understanding and tolerance, Russ received the best treatment.
04
Someone said, "You don't need to presuppose any way to see the world." ”
In particular, prejudice.
Don't stand in a self-righteous perspective and measure all people and things.
There's a documentary called "Before Tomorrow," which shows another possibility of sex robots:
After the combination of AI technology and dolls, you can have your own personality and ideas and become a "companion robot".
This, in turn, produces true love and companionship.
Even, users can "customize" the robot's personality at any time.
Gentle and considerate, enthusiastic, jealous... All kinds of personalities.
AI has a feature that cannot be ignored.
The more conversations a user has with the bot, the more the bot knows about each other.
This also means that if you want robots to understand themselves, you have to open your heart first.
This mode of interaction is so similar to how similar it is to people knowing each other!
Without spending time, without giving affection, without tolerance, it is difficult to truly establish feelings.
The difference is that people will be opinionated, but robots will not.
They will be accepted in its entirety.
And learn carefully to create a relationship model that works best for you.
05
Li Yinhe said that human sex and love are sublime.
And so are sex robots. Their existence only opens up another possibility.
You know, loneliness is not only psychological, but also physical.
Ignoring either will bring loss and dissatisfaction.
Therefore, different people, in the sex robot get a very different experience.
Some people once wondered, "Is going to a robot brothel a cheat?" ”
But what I think is that a person who lives in the world needs to be responded to. If people can't do it, then change it to a machine.
It has nothing to do with ethics, it has to do with understanding.
Wu Yanzu once laughed at himself, "After nearly ten years of marriage, my genitals may be the cleanest part of my body." ”
Asexuality in marriage does not mean that there is no sexual impulse.
It was nothing more than repression.
Pretend to be bored with sex, or substitute something else instead.
But it won't disappear out of thin air, and loneliness will grow day by day.
According to a psychological survey, sexless marriages account for more than 30% in China. The single population has reached more than 200 million.
The anxiety, loneliness, emptiness caused by sexless marriage and sexless life... It became a mountain.
When we stare at the five words of the sex robot, what we should see is not hunting,
Rather, it should be the loneliness behind asexuality.
Unsustainable frustration.
There is also psychological frustration.
These are far more important than hearing "sex robots" and associating with "obscene" and "disgusting".
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