Nowadays, the real lies in marriage and family are more and more dangerous

Listening to a friend to tell one thing, a beautiful girl who has been married for three or four years, in fact, is not very satisfied with her husband, the income of two people is not high, each person is more than three thousand per month, the child is still small, but also to pay the mortgage, the husband's head-to-head personality, satisfied with ease, do not think of making progress, they have lived without passion, only plain and boring that mode of day after day. The girl met a passionate man online, handsome, and career, income is also enviable that kind, so there is a spark, but also secretly went on a date, the girl wants to disintegrate the family, but reluctant to have children, contradictions, entanglements, wandering, uncertain, finally, thinking about it, or did not dare to end their marriage, because they are also afraid, the future is not reliable. But it is still a passionate handsome guy who knows, and the internet is broken and even worried about nostalgia.

At the same time, people familiar with their situation revealed that his husband was actually not willing to be silent, and he also exchanged heartfelt feelings with one of his female classmates, and the specific scale is unknown, but it must be the private affairs of his children and so on.

They still go home from work on time, continue the family, and continue the ordinary marriage.

The whole process, all of this, is in their own daily life, seemingly normal life, black box operation, both sides are not aware, because everything is under the cover of lies, naturally realized. In fact, they also have a possibility of not interfering with each other, and the factor of being too lazy to interfere is in it. Their future may continue to be envisioned and peaceful in the midst of all kinds of lies.

After knowing this, there is a feeling that its realization is now, with the development of society, the world of emotional marriage and family is no longer what it used to be. We are surrounded by all kinds of emotional marriages and conflicts, and any situation is no longer strange. After all, nowadays, lies, and the consequent transference of affection, have become more and more prevalent in marriage and family, which is one of the factors that contribute to the increasing divorce rate.

That is, as soon as a family begins to lie, it indicates that something is going wrong, and one or both parties may be emotionally stray, or obviously want to do the whole thing.

In the family, lies are nothing more than a few situations.

First, lie about income, leave private money, and make it convenient for yourself.

Second, all kinds of excuses, hanging out, free, unfettered, no responsibility.

Third, can not work, poor health, etc., lazy and slippery, do not do housework, do not take responsibility for the family.

Fourth, classmates party, company party, friend gathering as an excuse, Ming Xiu Boardwalk secretly crossed into a warehouse.

Fifth, go out on a date and cover up under all sorts of excuses.

Sixth, all kinds of excuses, private transfer of property, all kinds of preparations, early plans for family disintegration, and so on.

The first three are internal contradictions, peaceful and do not involve fatal problems in the family. The latter are more and more present in marriage and family, and they abound, not exaggerated at all, even shocking. In marriage and family, the real lies are right in front of us, exaggerated, and dangerous. In fact, no one is a fool, lies can be concealed for a while, sooner or later will be revealed. The liar is actually lying to himself. The increasing number of lies in the family actually indicates that a marriage, a family lights up a red light, or even the beginning of disintegration.

In the family, you lie, you want to understand, the result...