Text/Luo Xiaoke
In real life, people have a speculation and imagination about marrying into the giants, thinking that marrying into the giants can reduce decades of struggle and completely change their destiny.
In the TV "Ten Years of Love" played by Deng Chao and Dong Jie, Chen Qiming, played by actor Wang Daye, is a man who married into a rich family.
Chen Qiming graduated from a prestigious university, originally a small employee in the system, and came to Shenzhen to work hard because he was dissatisfied with the working environment of boiled frogs in warm water.
Chen Qiming was fascinated by stock speculation, met the local local village chief by chance, became the door-to-door son-in-law of the local tycoon village chief, successfully married into the rich, and became the envy of college classmates Xiao Ran and Liu Yuan.
However, Chen Qiming, who seems to have unlimited scenery and lives in a mansion and drives a luxury car, has unspeakable bitterness behind him.
Although he graduated from a prestigious university, he was looked down upon by his wife Huang Yunyun's brothers and was considered an incompetent man who ate soft rice.
His wife, Huang Yunyun, looks ordinary, not a beautiful goddess in his mind, and speaks a little stuttering.
Chen Qiming decided to use Huang Yunyun's resources to start a business, but reality made him hit a wall again and again. Later, Chen Qiming met Sun Yumei, the goddess of college crush, and then got married and cheated.
It is said that when marrying someone, do not marry a soft rice man, many times, the soft rice man will not only not be grateful, but also become a white-eyed wolf and a scumbag.
In the TV series "Do You Know It or Not", Sun Xiucai is also a soft rice man, he looks at the money of Sheng Shulan's family, not only abuses Sheng Shulan after marriage, but also spends days and nights outside, does not want to make progress, a large number of years are still a show talent, doing nothing.
In the end, Sheng Shulan couldn't bear it, and proposed and left, only to leave Sun Xiucai's scumbag who ate soft rice like this.
In fact, Chen Qiming and Sun Xiucai are essentially the same kind of people, and they are eager to change their fate through marriage and take shortcuts to get the wealth of the woman.
However, the soft rice and hard eating appearance is too ugly, that is, a veritable scumbag.
A good marriage, it is best to be in a state of equal strength between the door and the door, whether it is high climbing or low marriage, it is difficult to obtain happiness and happiness.
Both men and women who marry money pay for their choices. In fact, shortcuts are the hardest path in the world.
In "Ten Years of Love", Chen Qiming was finally more tragic, although the lover Sun Yumei left, but Huang Yunyun was mentally abnormal, and he did not give up at the most critical moment, which is the best ending given by the screenwriter to this role.
However, in real life, such a soft rice man will not only not treat his wife well and try to prove his value, but also produce an unbalanced psychology, and then spend the woman's money as he deserves, doing nothing.
Therefore, do not marry a soft rice man, otherwise it is you who regret it. The water in the brain before marriage is the tears in the eyes after marriage.
Marrying into the rich may be a kind of luck, but cold and warm self-knowledge, only by maintaining their dignity, can they truly break out of the world.
The idea of taking shortcuts through marriage will eventually be punched in the face by reality.
The Austrian writer Zweig once said: "The young she did not know that behind every gift that fate gave her was a price tag." ”
After all, marriage is a game, and what kind of choice there is, what kind of price.
At any time, maintaining economic independence and spiritual independence is the confidence of being a person, whether men or women, when you have your own value, marrying a rich man or not is just icing on the cake.
Fate is always secretly rewarding those who strive to become rich.
Author: Luo Xiaoke, a mother married to Taiwan, writes everything in Taiwan, obsessed with various film critics and drama reviews. Don't forget your original intention, you have to be consistent.