Why does someone not succeed in their lifetime?
Xiao Zhong is a friend he has known for many years. Xiao Zhong's life is not satisfactory, but his favorable conditions are many, such an ending many people do not understand?
The little clock, which is already 50 years old this year, should be called the old clock. He has two very anomalous phenomena.
Xiao Zhong's family is very well-off. The good side, usually quite spirited, quite knowledgeable, this is a good side. The bad side is that the career is not successful, and the cultivation of children is not particularly successful. Because his job has not been settled, he is in the stage of casual work. Occasionally speculate in stocks. His understanding of the stock market is the first to talk about. If you hear him talk about it for the first time, you will really be impressed by his stock market theory. Judging from his personal qualities and growth experience, it should be said that he is very good. But his career is not good, and his personal life is now relatively depressed, how to explain this phenomenon?
Some people have also asked me this question, and I have made an analysis of Xiao Zhong's growth experience.
Today, let's talk with you about what a person's growth process has to do with what it is.
The first point is to get a platform for studying.
A person's growth process has a lot to do with the beginning of schooling. We call this the platform for life choices.
If you study well, you can go to a prestigious school. In this way, when you step into society, you will have a very good starting point. In this way, the intelligence is effectively exerted. This also explains why Xiao Zhong has a high personal quality, but his career is not satisfactory, and he works odd jobs. He didn't have a good platform for life.
From this point of view, studying well is still the most important aspect of our children.
Second, family background provides resources.
The impact of family background on career. It is especially powerful if you have a very capable parent or a relative at home. Even if your personal abilities are not good, make arrangements for you. Arrange a good unit, you continue to work hard, after continuous learning, there will be a good development.
Around me, there are indeed such people, his children can't study, but he himself is the county party secretary, the county chief. Arrange your own children, send them out to study or teach themselves, and after having a certain foundation, slowly start to improve. In this way, there will be good career progress.
Therefore, the family background can make up for the lack of personal efforts and the lack of personal career.
The third point is extraordinary efforts to achieve life.
If you don't go to college, you don't have a good family background, if you have extraordinary perseverance and constant efforts to find opportunities in life, your development will be different.
This kind of example is also especially true of many people through the efforts of the day after tomorrow, constantly to find a new platform for their lives. Many people who are more successful now, like Shi Yuzhu, are also constantly working hard to change their fate and rise again.
Comrade Xiao Zhong does not have the advantage of studying and background. But he has insight, but his insight has not yet reached a very high level, and he lacks the courage to leave his hometown and is unwilling to go out and work hard. His own professional ability is not enough to form the foundation of his career. This is a very important reason why he is not happy in his career and life.
Therefore, Xiao Zhong's unsatisfactory career is not related to the favorable conditions in the above three aspects.
Therefore, the children of ordinary people may still have to take the usual path. Study well on your own, find a unit, keep working hard, and then lay a good foundation. Slowly find the platform and height of your own career.
If it is indeed a wizard, you can build your own platform, which is another matter. The other person who builds his own platform, the opportunity is the most important. An opportunity not to be missed. This is an opportunity for the big times.
This can explain why many people do not study much and succeed, which is the opportunity of the big times to achieve him.
This is the reason why today explained why the little bell around me has good personal qualities and is not very successful in his last life.
