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Author: The Healing Girl
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01
Today I continue to write the movie "Little Women", before I wrote an article to explore the choices and lives of the four girls in it. They are brave, fearless, and dare to break the prejudices of the world.
It is this quality that allows them to achieve love and freedom. In addition to this, I would like to ask what makes their lives so brilliant.
Everyone's life is inextricably linked to the original family.
These four girls have experienced many setbacks in their lives, but they are fortunate to have a good original family.
In fact, the March family does not fit into the secular sense of a good family. The March family was originally rich, but later for various reasons, the family fell in the middle of the road, and the family's life fell into difficulties.
Later, Mr. March went to the battlefield, leaving his wife and 4 daughters to live together.
In today's parlance, the March family is a widowed marriage. But Mrs. March, an amazing woman. She raised 4 daughters by herself, and each of them was raised well.
A woman's greatest blessing is not to be born into a wealthy family, but to have a good mother.
In those days, Mrs. March's wisdom and independence were particularly moving. She supported the whole family in her own strength.
Educating her children internally and supporting her husband externally, she has done a well-organized job. I wrote an article the other day about mothers' jealousy and exploitation of their daughters.
This is a Chinese mother, such as Fan Shengmei and Su Mingyu, whose tragedy is brewed by the mother. The mother was oppressed by her own generation and imposed this oppression on her daughter.
But in Mrs. March, you don't see the darkness and selfishness of women at all, you see only tolerance and gentleness.
02
One of the most valuable things about Mrs. March is that she never asked her child to become what she wanted. Four daughters and four personalities, she is silently guarded, gentle reminders.
The eldest daughter, Meg, is a theatrical genius, and at the same time full of contradictions in her heart. On the one hand, there is a poor life, and on the other hand, there is a desire for material things, so that she does not know where to go.
When Meg hesitates to marry a poor governess, Mrs. March firmly tells her that as long as you can get the love and satisfaction of your husband, even if you become a poor wife, it does not hurt.
Later, Meg, as Mrs. March had hoped, she got the happiness she wanted.
The second daughter, Joe, has a straightforward personality and is the most boy-like of all the girls.
She often sacrificed and compromised to protect the family. In general, children who sacrifice the most for their families will always complain.
But Joe didn't, not because she didn't do enough, but because everything she did was seen by Mrs. March.
That year, Joe cut off his long hair to make money for his family. Mrs. March was heartbroken and gave her hugs and thanks, and this kind of being seen and respected made Joe's inner strength grow stronger and stronger.
When Joe encounters setbacks and confusion in chasing his dreams, Mrs. March repeatedly encourages her.
Including when Joe is confused about her relationship with the guy next door, Mrs. March respects her inner thoughts and gives her direction.
The third daughter, Bass, is shy and loves the piano. Mrs. March didn't want her to be as lively as the other sisters, so she asked her to be a person who stood in the audience and applauded.
Once, she wanted to go to a neighbor's house to play the piano, but was embarrassed, and Mrs. March encouraged her to make a gift for the other party. This move not only gave bass a chance to play the piano, but the neighbor later gave her the piano.
The fourth daughter, Amy, is vain and strong, and when she is angry, she can burn all of Joe's manuscripts. Instead of covering up her mistakes because she was younger, Mrs. March asked her and Joe to apologize and ask for her forgiveness.
Mrs. March knows that Amy's heart is higher than the sky, and she does not suppress too much, but tries to satisfy her desires as much as possible, so that she can improve herself, become a celebrity, and get the capital to marry into the rich.
When Amy touched the giants, she realized that it wasn't what she really wanted. Later she was with Laurie, the boy who had once liked Joe.
Mrs. March didn't blame anything, just a blessing.
The four sisters all ended up loving and free because they had the template Mrs. March. A good mother, like a big tree, and like rain dew and ganlin, let the small tree thrive.
03
Mrs. March showed me the true greatness of a mother, whose greatness is not to sacrifice herself, not to give everything, but to be a leader and let the child become who they should be.
Whether the child is excellent or makes mistakes, she always opens her arms.
In addition, Mrs. March is also a very strong woman.
She experienced many setbacks in her life, such as falling in the middle of the family road, her husband working in a different place, and later becoming seriously ill, and the death of her third daughter Bass, which did not crush her.
Every time a storm hit, she carried it on her shoulders, bravely faced it, and tried to solve it. Even if there are moments of sadness and sadness, I am never immersed in sadness.
You don't see any resentment on her face, only calm and calm. That's because freedom and love filled her heart. She loves her children, fulfills her husband, and gives love to every stranger.
She remembered that at Christmas, she heard that there was a family with several children still hungry, and she persuaded a few girls to give them breakfast.
When she was volunteering, she heard about the tragic experience of a stranger, so she silently took off her scarf and put it into a package to give to the other party.
Rather than telling the story of a miracle of four girls, the film is the result of Mrs. March's education.
What is valuable is that she not only uses her own thoughts to follow the temptation, but also interprets the appearance of a woman with actions. In that era, women were kept in captivity and lived for their children and husbands all their lives.
But you'll see that Mrs. March still maintains her passions, such as doing charity.
In addition, the relationship with her husband is also very good, and later Mr. March returned home, and the couple is still as loving as ever.
With such a strong and powerful mother, which girl will not live her life well.
We have seen mothers who are too selfish, strong, and full of control, such as Song Qian in "Little Joy", such as Aunt Xue in "Deep Rain and Rain", such as Gu Mother in "Half Life", and the tragedy of their daughters has nothing to do with them?
Mrs. March explains another greatness of motherhood, first becoming oneself and also letting the child become themselves.
With such a mother, the four daughters of the March family lived with great determination and freedom.
We can't choose a mother, but hopefully we can be such a mother.
END.
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