< h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="1" > Miss Potter, follow your heart, life is there. </h1>
The movie "Miss Potter" begins by saying, "When you write the first word of the story, you have a special feeling: you can never guess what will happen next." ”
Miss Potter is indeed unclear about how her life would develop, for she was so different in society at the time, and as a lady of high society at the end of the nineteenth century, still unmarried in her 30s, concentrating only on painting her little animals, she lived two very different lives than most women of the same class who married early and never worked. The lives of others, from the day of their marriage, can probably see what this life looks like, and Miss Potter's life, not sure if anyone wants to publish her drawings, not sure whether the drawings have been published or not, and not sure what tomorrow will be.
Her love also does not know how to develop, the family is of course anxious, introduced her to a lot of blind dates, no matter ugly and greasy, as long as it is the same class, parents feel suitable, but Miss Potter is different, she fell in love with the bookseller, her parents disagree, because in their eyes, the bookseller is just a businessman. What surprised Miss Potter even more was that in the three months of separation, her boyfriend died of illness. Unmarried, she probably did not expect that she would get married at the age of 47.
Miss Potter's life is indeed unpredictable about what will unfold next, and the only certainty is that she has been following her heart:
She loves to draw, she always draws;
She does not marry if she does not love, and is not afraid of being suspected of being a "leftover woman";
Whoever she loves, she doesn't care about the world or class.
In that era, Miss Potter was rebellious, but also incomparably simple, her world only had animal friends, and in her paintings, small animals were naughty and cute, showing only warmth and love.
She has always followed her heart and bought the manor, because she loves it, and also to prevent the developer from using it for profit, she developed from the small love in her heart to the big love, and continued to let the peasants cultivate the land, and donated the manor to the country after her death.
Miss Potter deserves admiration, she is not only a famous children's book writer, but also a female pioneer of that era, but she said that she did not deliberately want to be different, and did not know how life would develop, she just followed the guidance of the heart, and life was there.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="57" > second, follow the heart, valuable. </h1>
There are always many standards in this world to tell us how to live, how to live better, most of us follow these standards, only a few people, they do not want to live like this, they pursue their favorite lifestyle, it seems very different, even "abnormal".
Wilde, one of Britain's greatest writers and artists of the 19th century, was a typical man who did not live according to universal standards, and he deeply resented the bourgeois philosophy and hypocritical morality of British society, and he wanted to use the "beauty" of art to confront the "ugliness" in vulgar reality. He believes that beauty is above everything, art is higher than life, the beauty and value of art do not exist in life and nature, and art should be detached from life.
He said this, and did the same, and his dress seemed very strange at the time, usually dog skin knee-length shorts plus black stockings and velvet jackets, often wearing a pompous hat, and his appearance was also an incomparable arrogant look.
Imprisoned for homosexuality and controversial throughout his life, he never compromised with reality, insisted on preaching what he believed to be elitism, and wrote plays, poems, fairy tales and novels, and his achievements made him a world-famous artist.
The British writer Maria Duenhas wrote in The Pin of Time: "The so-called normal is that my own will, commitment, words and deeds all follow the truest voice of my heart." So, my normal life will always be with me. ”
Yes, don't think that people who don't fit in with reality are not normal, they are just following their own hearts and living, which requires a lot of courage.
Why not harm the interests of others and live the life you want?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="59" > third, people who follow their hearts and don't play their cards according to common sense have changed the world. </h1>
There are many people in this world who do not live according to the world, they do not care about the eyes of others, insist on being themselves, and eventually change the views of others and even change the world by their own achievements.
Their original intention is to realize their personal ideals, find what they really want in their hearts, focus on one thing, and have the direction of their hearts, not only the worldly vision is not important to them, but even life can be sacrificed.
There are many people who have changed the world, Aristotle, Leonardo da Vinci, William Shakespeare, Galileo, Benjamin Franklin, Abraham Lincoln, and so on.
Conforming to the heart is not an innate trait, but a conscious choice.
Psychologist Robert Zachok's "pure contact effect" suggests that the more we come into contact with something, the more we like it.
Most people's choices are acceptable to everyone, and everyone habitually obeys them, but this is not the best choice for some people.
Speaking of choices, it seems that people make decisions after weighing, but in fact, people's hearts are very clear about what to do, do not fight it, try to follow its guidance, just like Miss Potter said, follow your heart, life is there.
People who follow their hearts are more likely to find their ideals in life and make the best choices in life.