The most wonderful thing in life is not the moment of realizing the dream, but the process of insisting on the dream.
—— Han Han
What should a woman look like?
Gentle and submissive, husband and son?
This is what most men want women to live, and thousands of years of feudal ritualism have influenced generations of women.
Even if you are not married at an older age now, you will be called a leftover woman, and those who have made up their minds to be single will also suffer from all kinds of doubts and even discrimination.
We live in the eyes of others, live in the values of others, and cover up the time when we should be looking for happiness with a long period of anxiety!
Those who are not married in their thirties will be pointed out today, let alone England in the 1920s.
Miss Potter is undoubtedly an outlier.
However, she was obsessed with creating, and she did not have the effort to take care of other people's opinions.
The lively Peter rabbit was born, wearing a blue shirt and able to stand and talk.
Until today, it not only grows up with many children, but also allows many adults to find their innocence.
Older leftover women, this word, in my eyes is always very harsh.
Whether it's in my twenties or I hear it now in my thirties.
There is always a feeling of discomfort.
There are not many successful lives, and the vast majority of older leftover women in reality are probably similar to me.
With a meager salary, coping with the urging of parents and relatives to marry, insisting on a hobby that he likes and cannot give up.
But there was no focus on Miss Peter. Always distracted by all sorts of trivialities in life.
Occasionally, I am depressed by other people's accusations.
People's unhappiness comes partly from comparison, and partly from caring too much about other people's opinions.
Fortunately, we have a good mentality, and a person can also live a happy and happy life.
People, in order to attain true happiness, need to accept their own shadow.
Now, when I see the four words of the elderly leftover woman, I will only smile slightly.
There will be no more discomfort or waves in my heart, and the reason is simple, because I admit that I am an older leftover woman.
I have limited talent and poor writing.
But still do not give up writing.
I am too blunt, easy to offend people, and sometimes I do not care much about the feelings of others.
But, in the end, there are more friends who stay with me than those who are all-round and exquisite.
My life is still on the road, and I am still one hundred and eighteen thousand miles away from success.
However, it can reap simple happiness.
After a man rides a roller coaster and screams wildly, he is happy and comfortable.
When a person is really depressed, go crazy to sing K until the voice is so dumb that he can't speak, and the depression disappears.
A person's movie is easier to immerse yourself in, follow the movie plot, cry, laugh, and fantasize.
A movie, a dream!
Accept all your shortcomings and see all your strengths.
Be fearless of others' words, and be ashamed of your own heart.
We are all ordinary and ordinary.
Love does not come, continue to enjoy life, the pursuit of dreams.
When love comes, it has no scruples and clings to it!
May every elderly leftover girl live to be Miss Potter, with dreams, love, and pursuits!
Oh, and the money!