#婚恋手册 #
If I met again, how would I feel about you? Is it red eyes or red face? Or is it that the breeze is gentle and the water waves are not happy?
To this day, you and I will be relieved.
There is a Hong Kong film called "Whenever Changes" in 2007, the heroine had to sell fish in a vegetable market because she had to pay off her father's debts, sell fish during the day, and sell fish porridge at night, so her wish is to walk out of the market before the age of thirty (at this time she is 27 years old) and live the life she wants.
The stall opposite her is also a fish seller.
The two fell in love for a long time, and the heroine had a little wavering. But after a drunken passion, she woke up in the morning to look at the male protagonist next to her, and she found that this was not the future she wanted. She left without hesitation, changed her mobile phone number, moved home, and completely disappeared from the world of the male protagonist.
Later she really lived the life she wanted, and through her own efforts, she became a well-known makeup artist.
They met again, she suddenly found that the male protagonist was also the life she wanted, however, in the world of love, more is too late, the male protagonist has been married and had children at this time, the female protagonist looks at the back of their family of three, helpless, but also very calm.
I have a similar love story around me, is the heroine really too realistic? I am noncommittal.
In this world, there are many couples who are defeated by reality, especially women as they get older, so that they can slowly transplant their sense of security from men to those who are not as good as they are on their own.
Perhaps many people will think that the heroine is too realistic, not so much that the heroine is realistic, but rather that she sticks to her heart, she has never complained, nor has she been hysterical, she is very clear from beginning to end what she wants, and work hard for it, even if she finally knows that the hero is married, there is only a momentary trance, and she can still turn around resolutely.
In fact, the male protagonist is not bad money, the debt has been paid off when the female protagonist leaves, she just wants to leave the vegetable market, she may want another broader sky.
What they actually lose to is love itself.
In this world, each has its own life that they want to pursue.
You yearn for steady happiness, and there will be people who want to go to the sea of stars.
Or which one you want to do first.
People who shout "Long live love", whether the sea you once longed for has become your epitaph.
And now that you are heading towards the stars, has love ever been the softest bay in your heart?
"Whenever changes" feminism does not hesitate to achieve the ideal she adheres to, and the male protagonist can only be second.
When the story progressed, she did not give up her dream and choose the male protagonist, but it was only a moment.
Leaving the vegetable market is her original intention, meeting the male protagonist is an accident, the original intention is her greatest motivation, and the accident can only be an accident.
When we face life, there are often a lot of things outside the situation, maybe this is every moment of change, how do you choose?
Is it to move on to the other side of the heart? Or is it just on this shore to land and stop moving forward?
Movies come from life, everyone has a difficult intention in their hearts, but adults know that missing is missing, time is not waiting for people, and no one will always be waiting for you in the same place.
There is a small detail in this drama that the final heroine's beauty shop is called "Miss"
The English word, as everyone knows, is "missed", "missed", or just "young unmarried woman".