What kind of picture book is "You Look Delicious" that a person will still like even if they live to be 80 years old?
The book is the work of Japan's most popular picture book master Tatsuya Miyasei, also known as "Dinosaur Daddy", and each episode of his dinosaur series has a gentle T-Rex. This book is not only loved by children, but also a book that will move and cry for adults, so some people comment that even if they live to the age of 80, they will still like it.
Synopsis: A long time ago, a newborn baby ankylosaur was spotted by a hungry Tyrannosaurus rex, and the Tyrannosaurus Rex drooled and said, "Hehehehe, you look delicious!" This sentence was mistaken by the baby ankylosaurus as his name "delicious" and identified the Tyrannosaurus rex as his father. Tyrannosaurus rex is a little overwhelmed, confused to play the role of father, trying to protect the "very tasty" from being eaten by other dinosaurs, and teach him some necessary survival skills, the little ankylosaurus will run a long way every morning to pick red fruit for the Tyrannosaurus rex, one day, the Tyrannosaurus rex feels that he has nothing to teach the baby ankylosaurus, so in a running race, when the "very tasty" efforts to compete, the Tyrannosaurus rex turned and left. The "delicious" that ran farther and farther away found an ankylosaur in front of him------
The Tyrannosaurus Rex looked at the picture of the little ankylosaurus gone with pity, and one day, we will also watch the grown-up children leave away, and this deep love in the distance is worth a thousand words.
This picture book also helps us to guide children to deal with the social problems of growing up, even at the top of the food chain, the cold and terrible Tyrannosaurus rex, there is a seed of love in the heart, as long as it is awakened can also coexist harmoniously, this story reveals a profound connotation - the key to human interaction, is love and trust.
When parents read "You Look Delicious" together, parents can effectively guide their children to deal with social conflicts from three aspects.
First of all, tell the child that you can divert the attention of the domineering child through a kind gesture.
In daily life, when children encounter a small partner similar to the "T-Rex", they either hit hard, or cring and cring, no matter what kind of situation they face, parents first tell their children: every child wants to have good friends, some people have domineering behavior, there must be some reason, you can use a toy or invite each other to play a new game project to divert the attention of small partners.
In the case of "You Look Delicious", in the moment when the little ankylosaurus is about to be eaten by the hungry Tyrannosaurus rex, it is witty enough to hug the Tyrannosaurus Rex and shout "Daddy", this kindness is something that the Tyrannosaurus rex has never met, so it finally does not have the heart to eat the baby ankylosaurus. In fact, the same is true for domineering and naughty children, who also crave the kindness and friendship of others.
Secondly, when children have friction with their friends, guiding children to slowly learn to understand and empathize with each other's emotions is also a good way to maintain a good social relationship.
In this story, "very tasty" does not quit and does not pick red fruits alone, the Tyrannosaurus rex frantically searches, angry, when he finds "very tasty" immediately "volcanic eruption", loudly reprimanded "very tasty" "very tasty" immediately understand that the Tyrannosaurus rex angry because of worry about himself, confess to the T-Rex. This calmed the Tyrannosaurus Rex, feeling guilty for the loss of emotional control he had just experienced, and immediately began to teach the baby ankylosaurus to protect itself with skills such as impact and tail flicking.
When reading this story, parents can ask their children in time: "Baby, you see, why is T-Rex angry?" How did the little ankylosaur feel at that time? Why did he have such emotions? "By guiding children to explore the reasons behind emotions, children begin to learn to understand the reasons why others have emotions, rather than just seeing the attacks brought by emotions, so as to better resolve social conflicts."
Finally, tell your child that the foundation of friendship is love and trust.
In this story, why did the carnivorous Tyrannosaurus rex live with the vegan ankylosaur? Children may have different answers, most will say that because the Tyrannosaurus rex loves the little ankylosaurus, parents can add "That's right, because the Tyrannosaurus rex loves the baby Apatosaurus, but the little Ankylosaurus believes in the Tyrannosaurus Rex unconditionally, loves the T-Rex, and also makes the Tyrannosaurus Rex very moved, it is this unconditional trust and love that makes him hold back his mouth and does not eat the little Ankylosaurus." If the baby also has a friend who looks fierce but is actually very kind, we also love him and trust him, okay? ”
"You Look Like You're Delicious" has a warm healing effect, makes people cry, and makes children feel that the world has more aspects of beauty. Guiding children to be kind and teaching children to use friendship to resolve setbacks are the skills that parents need to master when reading together.