In order to subsidize the family, 28-year-old Lu Yan worked hard to earn money outside, not only did not get her husband's approval and comfort, but received a divorce agreement from her husband, and she smashed her in-laws with her parents in a rage.
Why did Zhao Dongyu divorce Lü Yan, why did Lu Yan angrily smash her in-laws' family, and what happened between them? This has to start with Lu Yan going out to work.
Lü Yan and Zhao Dongyu gave birth to a daughter shortly after their marriage. Because the family's economic conditions are not very good, in order to subsidize the family, they go out to work together to earn money.
However, in April of this year, Lu Yan received a divorce agreement from Zhao Dongyu. Lu Yan didn't know what she had done wrong, why Zhao Dongyu wanted to divorce herself.
After investigation, Lu Yan learned that Zhao Dongyu divorced herself because of a woman named Sun Yufen. Zhao Dongyu and Sun Yufen had a child, and the mother-in-law not only did not object, but also went to the hospital to take care of Sun Yufen.
Faced with Zhao Dongyu's betrayal and her mother-in-law's unreasonable support for Zhao Dongyu, Lu Yan was heartbroken. When she returned home, she told her parents what she had learned and took them to her mother-in-law's house.
At that time, only Zhao Dongyu's father was at home, and he saw his relatives and daughter-in-law come to his home in a rage, so he quickly explained to them that he and his wife had just known about Zhao Dongyu and Sun Yufen, and it was too late to stop it.
But Lu Yan and her parents did not listen to what Zhao Dongyu's father said, they took a bench and a hammer to smash Zhao Dongyu's home appliances, tiles, and other flowers and plants.
Zhao Dongyu's father came forward to stop them, and even gave them a kneeling, but they refused to give up. Later, they called Zhao Dongyu and asked him to come back and give him an explanation, but Zhao Dongyu did not dare to go home.
So Lu Yan and her parents went to the hospital, where they thought Zhao Dongyu would accompany Sun Yufen, who had just given birth. But after coming to the hospital, I didn't see Zhao Dongyu.
However, Lu Yan saw that her mother-in-law was holding the child born to Sun Yufen and Zhao Dongyu. At that time, she was angry, she felt that her mother-in-law supported her son's marriage change, and she had a verbal dispute with her mother-in-law.
She also scolded Sun Yufen, who was lying on a hospital bed, for destroying her family, and later under the persuasion of reporters and everyone, Lu Yan was willing to stop scolding her mother-in-law and Sun Yufen.
She sat in front of the hospital bed and told Sun Yufen that Zhao Dongyu's was not, and also told Sun Yufen that they would not be happy together.
Sun Yufen said that she had destroyed the families of Lu Yan and Zhao Dongyu, and she was very unhappy. But when she was with Zhao Dongyu, she didn't know that Zhao Dongyu was a person with a family.
It wasn't until she was pregnant that she told Zhao Dongyu the news of the pregnancy, and then Zhao Dongyu told her that he was already a person with a family. After saying that, the two women hoped that Zhao Dongyu would face reality and come out to solve the problem, but Zhao Dongyu evaded and refused to show his face.
The next day, Lu Yan's parents found the reporter and told the reporter that Lu Yan could not open and wanted to drink pesticides to save her life, but fortunately they found and blocked them in time.
This news may have reached Zhao Dongyu, who saw that the situation was serious, so he took the initiative to contact the reporter and asked to communicate with the reporter alone.
He told reporters that he and Lü Yan had been married for five years, and Lü Yan was arrogant and domineering, arguing with him every three or five minutes, while Sun Yufen was gentle and virtuous, so he was in love.
Now that the child has been born, he knows that he has done something wrong, but he does not know how to face Sun Yufen and Lu Yan, so he chooses to escape.
After communicating with the reporter, Zhao Dongyu hoped that Lu Yan and the child could forgive him, so he apologized to Lü Yan, but Lu Yan did not accept his apology.
Lu Yan said that Zhao Dongyu's extramarital child has violated the law, and she will use legal channels to let Zhao Dongyu receive the punishment he deserves.
I personally disagree with Lu Yan's idea that She wants to bring Zhao Dongyu to legal sanctions through legal channels.
Because Lu Yan should not have smashed Zhao Dongyu's home with her parents, if he sued Zhao Dongyu and Zhao Dongyu also sued her, the final result could only be a lose-lose situation.
Moreover, If Lu Yan smashes Zhao Dongyu's home, the punishment he will receive will be heavier than the punishment that Zhao Dongyu will receive for his extramarital affair. So I personally suggest that for the sake of the children, this matter should be private.
You know, emotional problems are never all one person's responsibility. While Zhao Dongyu is responsible, Lu Yan is also responsible.
She should not work separately from Zhao Dongyu, and living separately gives Zhao Dongyu the opportunity to get along with Sun Yufen.
However, Zhao Dongyu was with Sun Yufen, but on the grounds that Lü Yan was arrogant and overbearing and often quarreled with him, this reason was not established.
If he felt that Lü Yan was overbearing and unreasonable, and often quarreled with him, why didn't he divorce Lü Yan and then be with Sun Yufen in a bright and upright manner?
His statement is obviously shirking responsibility, and it also fully shows that he is immature in his thinking, does not dare to face the mistakes he has committed, and does not dare to take responsibility, and this kind of man is not worth entrusting for life.
However, Lu Yan would even act like a light life because of him, which was really undeserved. After all, there are still parents who need her support, and there are young daughters who need her to raise, how can you think of taking a life for a negative person?
After this experience, I hope that Lu Yan can cheer up, bravely face the future life, take good care of her parents and children, and have the opportunity to find a partner for herself.
By understanding the affairs between Lü Yan and Zhao Dongyu, we should all be able to appreciate the seriousness of extramarital affairs, which can destroy a happy family in a good end, so we should learn lessons from it, abide by discipline and law, and not engage in extramarital affairs!