"When the petals leave the flowers, the dark incense remains, the incense disappears after the wind and rain, no one comes to sniff, if love tells me to go down, I will fight to the end of love..."
In 2013, Sha Baoliang's song was popular in the streets and alleys, and along with this song, it also entered the public eye with CCTV's eight sets of "Gold Powder Family".
The heroine in it, Leng Qingqiu, played by Dong Jie, also immediately caught fire and was known as the "first love of the people".
The picture originated from the Internet and was invaded and deleted
In the play, she holds a white lily in her hand and looks back at the classic scene of smiling to push it to the throne of "white lotus".
But who ever thought that such a beautiful woman would later become a "poisonous mushroom" existence in other people.
01 Holding hands with Nicholas Tse, from dancer to showbiz
On April 19, 1980, Dong Jie was born in an ordinary family in Dalian, Liaoning Province.
This little girl who looked weak and could not help but wind showed a dance talent that was different from her peers from her age, and was specially recruited by the Dalian Soldier Song and Dance Troupe at the age of 10, and then was sent to the Beijing People's Liberation Army Art Academy to study dance for 5 years, and finally graduated from the dance department of the people's liberation army art college of Chinese with excellent results.
If she had not entered the show business, Dong Jie might have become an excellent dancer, and Dong Jie had also fantasized about becoming a dance teacher in the future and dedicating her life to her favorite dance career.
But by chance, this girl who was still childish at this time got the opportunity to go to the Spring Festival Gala, which is a dream opportunity in many people's hearts.
In 2000, at the CCTV Spring Festival Gala, 20-year-old Xie Tingfeng led Dong Jie, who was the same age, wearing a dress and singing "Together in This Life", and walked out from under the arch full of flowers.
The two people who look like lang cai and woman really make everyone shine, and even many viewers think that they are really getting married.
Originally, Dong Jie was only the accompaniment dancer of the Spring Festival Gala that year, and Xie Tingfeng's original partner was Zhou Xun, but Zhou Xun could not participate due to work arrangements, so this opportunity landed fortunately on Dong Jie.
In July of the same year, Dong Jie, who had just participated in the celebration of the third anniversary of the hong Kong garrison, returned to Dalian to participate in the competition for the heroine of the movie "Happy Time", and stood out from 50,000 people and became the lucky girl who was "happy to the end".
Since then, Dong Jie has completed the transformation from dancer to actor and officially attacked the entertainment industry.
02 The birth of the "White Lotus"
Dong Jie, who officially entered the show business circle, has had a smooth ride, and with her outstanding performance in the debut film "Happy Time", she won the Newcomer Award at the 7th China Film Huabiao Awards and the Best Actress Award at the 47th Valladolid International Film Festival in Spain, and was also nominated for the Best Actress at the 2nd Chinese Film and Media Awards.
In 2003, Dong Jie ushered in the peak of her career, not only officially signed a contract with Hong Kong Zedong Film Company and became an artist under Wong Kar-wai, but also starred in the Republic of China love drama "Golden Powder Family" as Leng Qingqiu, the daughter of the fallen cold door who has a soft and strong personality and is self-reliant.
This role laid the foundation for its status as a "national white lotus", an unworldly face, a cold temperament, extraordinary conversation, coupled with the white lily in her hand, Dong Jie deduced the essence of the role of "Leng Qingqiu", as if the role of "Leng Qingqiu" was tailor-made for Dong Jie.
After the drama was broadcast on CCTV eight sets, it not only won the CCTV annual ratings championship and opened a new wave of Republic of China dramas, but also won the popularity of Dong Jie, Chen Kun, Liu Yifei and others.
Dong Jie also won the 3rd China Television Art Double Top Ten Actors with the drama, and began to emerge in the film and television field.
03 Double harvest of love career
In 2005, Dong Jiejin filmed the period drama "Red Dress Shop" and met the most important and heart-wrenching man in her life- Pan Yueming.
At this time, Pan Yueming was well-known in the entertainment industry, and the image of "Xu Xian" as a weak scholar was deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
During the filming of the two, they had a long-term relationship and gradually came together.
In 2007, Dong Jie and He Rundong collaborated on the classic poignant love drama "Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai", and Dong Jie vividly interpreted the talented and assertive role of "Zhu Yingtai" and was praised as "the most beautiful Zhu Yingtai".
In 2008, Dong Jie and Pan Yueming, the golden boy and jade girl, entered the palace of marriage hand in hand, and the combination of "Xu Xian" and "Zhu Yingtai" made everyone envious.
The following year, the two gave birth to a lovely son, named "Dingding", which means "happiness has reached its peak".
But there's a saying that goes" "When you reach the top, maybe you might go downhill."
The two are immersed in happiness, but in fact, the relationship between the two has slowly begun to crack.
Under the appearance of Pan Yueming's Confucian scholar, he is actually as informal as most men, and can even be said to be a bit macho.
Many women's beautiful imagination of the wedding is nothing more than preparing the bits and pieces of the wedding with their loved ones, preparing a romantic and warm wedding.
But their wedding was prepared by Dong Jie alone, and Pan Yueming, who was busy with work, only took time to attend his wedding.
Even though Dong Jie did her best to defend Pan Yueming and said that she understood that he was busy with work, it was not difficult to see that she had tears in her eyes when she said this.
This woman is very sensible.
When Dong Jie failed to return to normal due to the birth of a child, Pan Yueming actually asked her to lose weight.
Perhaps Pan Yueming is for the sake of Dong Jie's acting career, but Dong Jie, who is breastfeeding, needs more love and understanding.
In 2009, the son of the two had just turned 100 days old, and Pan Yueming was driving a vehicle out of control while filming a TV series and fell from a 23-meter-high cliff, and his life was hanging in the balance.
While waiting for rescue, Pan Yueming asked his assistant to open the photos of his wife and son to gain the motivation to hold on.
Dong Jie clutched the hand of the badly injured Pan Yueming in the hospital, watching the doctor insert tubes on his body, and this strong and fragile woman could not help but shed tears.
Dong Jie's tears at this time were like water droplets in a difficult situation, dripping in Pan Yueming's heart, and Pan Yueming was glad that he had done the most correct thing in his life - that is, to marry Dong Jie as his wife.
04 The withering of the "White Lotus"
It is reasonable to say that after the two experience the test of life and death, the feelings between each other will go further.
But the gap between Dong Jie and Pan Yueming had already been torn wider and wider invisibly.
This can be seen in the interviews that the two participated in around 2010.
In their relationship, the introverted Dong Jie obviously pays more, while Pan Yueming holds the "male outside" approach and ignores the big and small affairs in life.
On October 20, 2012, Dong Jie's team threw out a statement without warning, announcing that the relationship between the two was broken due to personality discord.
Then he issued an article accusing Pan Yueming of indulging in gambling, cheating, and even sexual impotence, which directly buried Pan Yueming's acting career.
Even if Pan Yueming fought back one by one against the false accusations of Dong Jie's team and insisted that Dong Jie was used by his team, the marriage between the two eventually came to an end.
Pan Yueming has become an irresponsible "scumbag" in the crowd, and the "golden boy and jade girl" who was incomparably loving in the past has fallen to the embarrassing ending of today's torn face, which is really regrettable.
However, the divorce war between the two ushered in the climax of 2013, and Dong Jie's image of "White Lotus" was completely shattered.
Perhaps accustomed to pan Yueming's elegant handsome man image, Dong Jie wants to change her taste.
In 2013, the famous paparazzi "Zhuo Wei Team" photographed Dong Jie and Wang Dazhi touring Sanya, Hainan Province, and performed a half-minute kiss at the hotel.
Who is Wang Dazhi?
Wang Dazhi is a powerful actor in Chinese mainland, and has a good performance in film and television dramas such as "Soldier Assault" and "My Regiment Leader My Regiment".
But Wang Dazhi and the word "handsome" are not compatible at all, and can even be described as "ugly".
But such an ugly man actually picked the "National White Lotus".
It is reported that Wang Dazhi and Dong Jie met in 2012 for filming "Heaven to the Left, Shenzhen to the Right", but no one could have imagined that the two people who seemed to be unable to hit the eight rods were actually together.
As soon as this video came out, Pan Yuemingfang could be said to have caught the straw of life, and immediately issued a statement that the two had not divorced, and the subtext was that Dong Jie cheated in marriage.
Since then, Dong Jie's "white lotus" image of Leng Qingqiu has collapsed violently.
Perhaps the two were forced by the pressure of public opinion, or the two were just greedy for freshness, dong jie and Wang Dazhi finally failed.
But Dong Jie and Pan Yueming's love-hate relationship continues.
05 Marriage nourishes "poisonous mushrooms"
After the two divorced as they wished, the son Dingding was sentenced to his mother Dong Jie.
However, the divorce war has caused both of their careers to be hit hard, and after a few years of silence, Pan Yueming has slowly made a comeback in the past two years and returned to the public eye with his superb acting skills in "White Night".
And Dong Jie seems to have changed as a person, the already thin figure is getting drier and thinner, although she has starred in many film and television dramas, but it is always difficult to return to the peak of the "cold and clear autumn" period.
In 2016, Dong Jie took her 7-year-old son Dingding to participate in the variety show "Mama is Superman".
In the show, when the sensible and well-behaved Dingding was participating in taekwondo training, in the face of the coach's inquiry, his sentence "Dad is busy at work and can't come" made many viewers break their defenses.
In this regard, Dong Jie said in an interview afterwards that "there is no way, we all have to accept reality, I also have to accept reality, the top must also accept reality, no one can change their destiny."
As a result, this sentence once again caused the dissatisfaction of Pan Yuemingfang, who directly posted on Weibo, "Really have to face it, dare to tell the truth?" ”
Then, Pan Yueming's agent directly tore Dong Jie, posting that after the divorce, Dong Jie did not let Pan Yueming and his family see his son at the top, and even Pan Yueming's father was seriously ill and wanted to see his grandson, pointing out that Dong Jie was a "poisonous mushroom".
It can be seen in the program that Dong Jie really regards her son as life, has a strong desire to control, not only kisses her son, but also takes wedding photos, which is simply treating her son as a second husband.
When Dong Jie is unhappy, he will touch Dong Jie's head like a little adult and say, "Don't cry, my little baby, Daddy loves you." ”
This way of getting along makes people worry that Dingding will become a typical "ma bao man" when he grows up.
Maybe Dong Jie was emotionally broken and wanted to put all her love on her son.
But this kind of love is quite suffocating.
06 Be well with each other
After 7 years, the two have long been calm, and their respective careers are slowly rejuvenating.
Although Pan Yueming has a blessed figure in recent years, his superb acting skills have won the pursuit of everyone, and recently there have been new romances.
Dong Jie participated in the "Dance Forest Conference" in 2018, although she has been separated from the dance career for many years, her solid foundation is still there, and she won the championship in one fell swoop.
In "Ruyi Zhuan", she played the "White Moonlight" Empress Fucha of the Qianlong Emperor, but because of the "kissing door" with Wang Dazhi many years ago, she was complained about by netizens for "playing".
In 2021, Dong Jie participated in the second season of the popular "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves", although it did not form a group in the end, but its performance was also remarkable.
Even if Dong Jie has not had any scandals for so many years and has taken care of her son conscientiously, the impact of the "Kissing Door" incident in that year is too great, and every time it can be turned out and ridiculed.
In the divorce war of that year, the two sides insisted on their own opinions, and outsiders could not judge the right and wrong of the two.
Dong Jie fell from the altar of the "Jade Girl", and still can't turn over, and the image of Leng Qingqiu that she has painstakingly created was shattered by her own hands, and the hardships and heartaches of this road are probably only known to herself.
"If the heart dies in the splendor, love will be reborn in the ashes, and when you are unforgettable and whispered, use your smile to pay tribute to me, let the heart die in the splendor, let the love be reborn in the ashes, burn through the grass marks, and see another year of spring wind."
Because of true love, I can't easily let go.
But since you can't get your love back, why not try to let it go?
If you can't use a smile and frankness to pay tribute to each other's love, at least be a silent stranger who is the most familiar.