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Recently eat melon masses eat melon, too wonderful, dizzy, starting from the Dumei bamboo firecracker Wu Yifan, followed by Ali P8 suspected sexual assault of female colleagues, and then Huo Zun abandoned The Chen Lu who has been in love for nine years, these male protagonists have been hammered to lift various endorsements, and the losses have been heavy.
All kinds of melons on the Internet have satisfied the curiosity of the masses, these male protagonists have also been pulled out in the hearts of the people, Ling delayed dozens of times, the hammer activity evoked justice in the hearts of the masses, and finally got the ending that everyone wanted, it is foreseeable that the occurrence of such network revelations in the future may become a norm.
But this kind of revelation is not so friendly to the well-being of the female group in general.
Because in all kinds of rape and indecency crimes, women are the most likely to disagree with the party, as long as the woman does not agree, or afterwards to the police, said that they did not agree at the time, then men can basically be hammered by women.
Even if the plot is reversed in the end, the external image of men has plummeted, basically in the workplace or normal social organization, and it will not be mixed.
In recent years, there have been incidents that have broken out one after another, a 2019 girl in Tsinghua Framed a 2020 student for touching his ass for sexual harassment, and after the school retrieved the monitoring query, the student was passing by with a backpack in the school canteen, and accidentally touched the buttocks of a girl, which was not intentional.
But before the results of the investigation were announced, the girl sent a circle of friends to prepare for the "social death" of the student.
The incident caused an uproar at Tsinghua University, at the beginning most of the netizens supported the Tsinghua girl, and later after the plot reversed, the woman did not apologize very sincerely, but only issued a very vague statement, saying "Let us apologize to each other."
From the beginning to the end, the framed boy is more like a "dumb" who can't speak, and doesn't send out a little of his own opinions and opinions, because he knows that no matter what he says, before the truth is clear, he will be hammered by netizens to "defend" himself.
The WOMEN's Rights Defense ACTION, which began in the second half of 2017, is a campaign launched by American actress Alyssa Milano and others in response to the scandal of the US gold medal producer Harvey Weinstein sexually assaulting multiple actresses, calling on all women who have been sexually assaulted to come forward and tell their tragic experiences, and attach labels to social media posts to arouse social attention.
The ME TOO initiative quickly gained the support of many women on social media, and many celebrities were also discredited in this huge operation.
The massive campaign also spread to Wall Street, where several Wall Street executives said they were intimidated by the ME TOO movement.
Wall Street proposes a life-saving rule for men to avoid being affected by the movement:
Rule 1: "Don't eat with female colleagues." ”
Rule 2: "When booking a ticket, don't sit next to a female colleague." ”
Rule 3: "When booking a hotel, do not book the same floor." ”
Rule 4: "Don't have separate meetings with female colleagues." ”
These rules can not be said in public, but out of concern about the ME TOO movement, most men in the face of the actual situation at work, the operation method may be more extreme, to avoid direct contact with female colleagues, not mainly to protect each other, but to protect themselves, so to deal with female employees, you can privately take more extreme measures, which will also lead to some companies dare not hire female employees.
As a result, women's situation in the workplace is only more difficult, not easier, because in most companies, male executives are dominant, and the rules are set by them.
But because women, after false accusations without evidence, may slander each other to lose their jobs and reputations, and they can retreat unscathed, then it is very likely that after such a trend continues to spread, the situation of all women will be more difficult, and anything that develops to the extreme will definitely be anti-phagocytosis.
And for women, most of them are unlikely to actively support and oppose false accusations without evidence, so it is a difficult dead cycle.
Because after a moment of emotional "coolness", people always have to pay a price. Not to mention how the recent Ali P8 sexual assault case reversed, the plot twists and turns.
Now the heroine of the incident has made several parties pay a heavy workplace price. You said that even if the woman stayed in Ali, how would male colleagues get along with her in the future?
I am very supportive of women defending their rights through legal means, but sometimes, it is a dilemma.
Everyone will forward various feminist big V articles on the Internet, etc., but these big V basically do not rely on the workplace to survive, so in order to win eyeballs and provoke emotions, they can arbitrarily make women feel good and reach emotional climax.
But the practical benefits for women are almost non-existent.
As some netizens proposed: if women want to dare to have children, they should take 3 years of maternity leave with pay. If this idea can be implemented, which unit would dare to hire female employees?
A female employee of childbearing age may face an embarrassing situation of not being able to work for 3 years and the company has to bear the cost.
So in the face of netizens, big V's various "good intentions", ask a few more why they say this, think so, will express it like this, and then ask themselves, if in real life, according to their logic, can women get any tangible benefits?
If so, implement it. If according to logical deduction, it is completely to incite emotions and provoke male and female antagonisms, then this kind of blogger can take the pass early, so as not to harm their own interests.
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