Recently, Liu Yuchao found that every time his sixteen-year-old son wrote homework, he always looked at the book, did not move his pen, did not make a sound, and just looked at it. Liu Yuchao was worried that the child was in a daze and was not learning at all. He sees his child's current learning status and thinks back to his high school days. At that time, he secretly liked the female classmate sitting in front of him, and he often consciously or unconsciously went to the female classmate to borrow books and school supplies to attract the attention of the female classmates.
The little boy's liking in adolescence has no impurities, and sometimes, a person sits there silently and fantasizes about a female classmate playing together, shopping together and chatting together, fantasizing about .... However, with these fantasies, learning can not sink the heart, the class is distracted, and the learning has plummeted. At that time, Liu Yuchao's parents did not know the likes of adolescence, nor did they know that their children were in Sichun. I only know that my studies have regressed, what should I do if I can't get into college, and have you worked hard? So there is more scolding, and the real reason for the decline in children's grades has not been found. Liu Yuchao saw that his learning had regressed, and he realized that he could not do this, people had to live in reality, if the grades were not good, what should he do if he could not get into school? Can everyday fantasies come true? Without good grades, without a good future, these fantasies will always be fantasies? And what's the use? In the end, Liu Yuchao himself overcame this psychology of his own, shifted the focus of learning to learning, and finally was admitted to the school of his dreams.
Now observing the child's learning state seems to be similar to his own, is it or not? If so, how do you open your child's heart and get him out of this situation? If not, it may be a false effort, and how to help children solve this problem?
Liu Yuchao, as a sixteen-year-old parent of a high school boy, really has a headache, facing this half-grown child, education is really a bit difficult.