Recently, Guo Jingjing has been very popular.
Not because she was the referee of diving at the Tokyo Olympics, nor was it the splendor of diving that she once created.
It's because of her family that people miss and miss her.
She was a referee in the front, her husband was in the rear to do live broadcasting, not live broadcast with goods, they did not lack money, but with three children "looking for mother", and sighed happily: because the diving platform is too high, the referee sits below, people are too small, it is not easy to find.
Such a small daily life, a very small family daily life, a couple's daily life, why do you move so many people?
They're not entertainment stars and don't need to rub heat.
They are even busier, and every day there is a possibility of "opening their eyes and turning off the lights".
So why are they doing this?
Especially Guo Jingjing, who married into the rich, often went out in plain clothes, visited the cheap supermarket, ate a hundred-yuan meal, but the smile on her face still revealed the original iconic simplicity and shyness.
After Guo Jingjing married, was she really happy?
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Briefly describe who Guo Jingjing married.
Yes, Huo Qigang.
Who is Huo Qigang?
Huo Qigang was born in Hong Kong in 1979, his grandfather's name is Fok Yingdong, Fok Yingdong and Li Ka-shing know it, rich man.
Xiao Huo was born in Hong Kong, is said to be worth hundreds of billions, is the future world's richest man.
Let's talk about Huo Qigang's love history.
As the eldest grandson of The Huo family, Hong Kong's top rich man, Huo Qigang graduated from Oxford University, note that he is an Oxford student with eight classics, and his test score in middle school is 4 A's. Not to take money to beat soy sauce.
Born in a rich family, Huo Qigang is very good, learning is very hard, there is no moisture.
Because Huo Qigang was handsome, he was the diamond king old fifth who was thinking of many girls at that time.
Xiao Huo's first girlfriend was named Lu Qingxin. The woman was not simple, she was the great-granddaughter of Hong Kong's billionaire Lu Mingcai, who was studying hotel management at Cornell University at the time.
Some sources say that Lu Qingxin looks like Huo Qigang's mother, that is, Hong Kong beauty Zhu Lingling.
They fell in love for two years and later broke up for an unknown reason. However, first love, both parties do not understand love.
But for this ex-girlfriend, Huo Qigang has always been obsessed with it, breaking up for many years but having a good personal relationship. Later, Huo Qigang also sent his son Huo Zhongxi to the Baoshan Kindergarten where Lu Qingxin was the principal, and it is said that the annual tuition fee is nearly 200,000.
A woman who studied hotel management became a gardener in an aristocratic kindergarten.
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After breaking up with Lu Qingxin, Huo Qigang soon made a second girlfriend, named Lu Tian'er, who graduated from Northeastern University in the United States, and his father, Lu Runsen, is the president of the South China Sports Association in Hong Kong.
Look at the girlfriends that people interact with, they must have academic qualifications, and they must also have families.
A must.
In 2002, Huo Qigang and Lu Tian'er were drinking in a bar and were photographed kissing by the media, so the two openly fell in love.
They began to fall in love very much, and later Huo Qigang couldn't stand Lu Tian'er's arrogant and wayward personality, so the two broke up.
However, because Hong Kong is very small, the two are also people on the scene, often have to attend various important occasions, maintain a good relationship after the breakup, and help each other in social occasions.
Later, it was said that Lu Tian Er asked the reporter to help her get married, which once embarrassed Huo Qigang.
In 2004, the Olympic gold medal delegation visited Hong Kong, and Huo Qigang was responsible for receiving the Olympic delegation.
As a hardcore fan of Guo Jingjing, Huo Qigang fell in love with Guo Jingjing at first sight, looked for Guo Jingjing to take pictures twice in a row, asked for Guo Jingjing's phone, and tried his best to catch up with Guo Jingjing.
Huo Qigang liked Guo Jingjing, and he had his reasons.
He is afraid that the girls are too enthusiastic, and he likes the little bird and the gentle girl. At the same time, he is a person who is the most love-oriented, and if he likes a girl, he will be obedient to her and hurt his heart and eyes.
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So what is Guo Jingjing's love history?
Born on October 15, 1981 in Baoding, Hebei Province, Guo Jingjing was associated with diving because her parents wanted her to have a good body.
Later, because of the leg press, Guo's mother wanted her daughter to give up diving because it was too bitter. But Guo Jingjing, who had a somewhat stubborn personality, persisted.
For her first love, Guo Jingjing has not responded positively, but after becoming famous later, that is, partnering with Liang Xiaoqiao and winning a gold medal in Sweden, her gossip boyfriend Yu Yue accidentally said that he showed his mouth.
Yu Yue said: "Guo Jingjing's first love boyfriend is not me, but Wang Kenan. ”
As a result, the love affair between Wang Kenan and Guo Jingjing instantly became a weight bomb in the sports world.
Wang Kenan's age, one year older than Guo Jingjing, is the first friend Guo Jingjing made in the diving class.
Wang Kenan entered the diving team of Hebei Province at the age of 10, and Guo Jingjing soon went with excellent results.
But later, when Guo Jingjing chased Wang Kenan to the Diving Team of Hebei Province, Wang Kenan was transferred to the national diving team.
It always feels like their pace is always a little bit worse.
Until later, Guo Jingjing and Wang Kenan became more and more distant, and she met Tian Liang again.
Tian Liang is more advanced than Guo Jingjing in the national team and is her senior. Before Guo Jingjing arrived at the national team, Tian Liang was a legend in the team, learning to dive for six years and entering the national team.
Since Guo Jingjing arrived at the national team, Tian Liang's position has been pulled down, because Guo Jingjing only studied for five years before entering the national team, two years younger than him.
At first, the relationship between the two of them was not good, and Guo Jingjing did not answer much to Tian Liang. But just these two people were soon called "Golden Boy and Jade Girl" by the outside world, referred to as "Bright Crystal".
How do they have feelings for each other, because both of them are the key training objects in the team, and they spend more time together day and night, and they don't let them go out, closed management. So the two have more opportunities to help each other learn from each other, and every day they stay together, and their feelings are slowly thickened.
And as the level of the two people is getting higher and higher, the fame is getting bigger and bigger, and the hero sees the hero, and he feels sorry for each other.
But just when everyone was looking forward to the love affair of "Bright Crystal", thinking that Tian Liang and Guo Jingjing would be "together" after winning the championship in Athens, everyone was waiting for the "good news" of Guo Jingjing and Huo Qigang.
As for the reason for the separation of "Bright Crystal", some people believe that after Tian Liang was expelled from the national team, the two could not come together. But there is also news that Guo Jingjing's father exposed the truth, saying that the separation of the two is mainly due to Tian Liang.
Time is the best medicine.
As sung in "When Love Has Become a Thing of the Past": "Even if the memory cannot be erased, love and hate are still in the heart, really have to break the past, let tomorrow continue to ------ love is a problem, people are dazzled, forget the pain may be OK, forget you but it is not easy to ------
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The relationship between people and people, sometimes really wonderful.
One thing drops one thing. Huo Qigang, who was once known as a "playboy", admitted that at the moment he met Guo Jingjing, "this is the feeling of first love".
When they were dating in Shanghai, they were photographed by reporters and their relationship became public.
However, after the love affair was exposed, Guo Jingjing did not immediately give up her diving career, but continued to win glory for the country and won many diving world championships.
Guo Jingjing is very gentle and calm.
And Huo Qigang was very supportive of Guo Jingjing's decision. As long as there is a game of Guo Jingjing, he basically goes to the scene to cheer for his girlfriend, holding the camera and running forward and backward.
At that moment, can you think that he is Fok Yingdong's grandson?
Because Guo Jingjing is an active athlete, the two began to be "long-distance love", and they can only meet once every weekend or half a month, so Huo Qigang "flew", basically in addition to work, not on the plane, or on the way to catch the plane.
What is the love of the world, the Orthodox religion of life and death.
Each time, Huo Qigang carefully wrote down Guo Jingjing's favorite snacks, and then set off to the supermarket to buy them, filled with a box, and flew to Guo Jingjing's residence.
And for the sake of Guo Jingjing's body, he also endured a lot and did not let her be distracted.
After all, Guo Jingjing's body is to win glory for the country, so they are more chatting in the café near the residence, can not be like some couples, day and night tired together, in that case, it is estimated that Guo Jingjing's body can not eat, soon forced to quit the sports world.
In this way, the two fell in love for 8 years.
It's not easy.
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In 2008, Beijing hosted the Olympic Games, and Guo Jingjing was at the doorstep of her home, once again continuing to write the diving legend.
Huo Qigang in the audience cheered and rejoiced, even happier than the gold medalist.
It is said that Huo Qigang's father, Huo Zhenting, was even more ecstatic and chartered a high-end club with a per capita consumption of more than 10,000 yuan in Beijing to celebrate this grand event.
In fact, their feelings have also been in crisis.
In 2010, the media exposed the scandal between Huo Qigang and the beauty anchor Zhao Tong.
At that time, the media photographed them singing together, and the media pulled out at a celebration, Zhao Tong attended as Huo Qigang's female companion, and Huo Qigang also generously introduced the woman to his friends.
At that time, when someone asked Huo Qigang what was the relationship between this beautiful woman, Huo Qigang was speechless for a while.
As soon as the news came out, Guo Jingjing's parents were a little nervous, and quickly called their daughter, saying that this marriage should be cautious.
However, Huo Qigang immediately came forward to clarify the matter, saying that the ceremony was his inaugural party, he invited guests to dinner, Zhao Tong was just a friend of friends, and the photos used by the media were synthetic.
Moreover, Huo Qigang immediately called back to his father-in-law and mother-in-law, saying that he could handle the matter well.
In 2012, the two entered the palace of marriage hand in hand.
Because Huo Qigang's identity is different and he shoulders the family's mission, this wedding cannot be too simple.
Some media have described the pomp and circumstance as the largest in the entertainment industry, and there are as many as 12 sets of the bride's evening wear, wedding dress and toast dress alone, and they are all expensive.
There are also wedding shoes worn by Guo Jingjing, which are crystal shoes, worth about 6 million Hong Kong dollars, if you add makeup and styling costs, how can you buy a suite today.
However, the province is a province, and what should not be province cannot be provinceed.
I'm so happy.
They are not like some stars in the entertainment industry, the whole unmarried pregnancy, and finally the wedding can only be secretly handled in Bali, and did not get a period of time and dispersed.
Their wedding was very serious and solemn.
Their weddings, the guests attending the wedding are all celebrities, the witnesses to their marriage are the former Secretary for Justice of Hong Kong, Leung Ai-shi, the guests attending the wedding banquet are the former chief executive of Macao and the current chief executive and his wife, and the rich li ka-shing, the prince and princess of Jordan, etc., are all guests.
On the contrary, the stars of the show business circle only came to a few representatives, such as Andy Lau, Zhao Yazhi and so on. Not a mess of third- and fourth-line stars, a lot of lamps that are not fuel-efficient, come back drunk again, and have some trouble.
At the wedding scene, Huo Qigang was excited like a child who had never been in love, and the principal of the Huo family, Huo Qigang's father Huo Zhenting, was also very good at being a person, saying a famous sentence: "Thank you Jingjing for being willing to marry our Huo family." ”
Look at this emotional intelligence.
Wealth has reached a certain part, modesty, humility, humility.
Unlike some upstarts, at the wedding of their children, they want to suppress the family everywhere and fight for the face of their sons.
Small family.
And after the love affair was exposed, Guo Jingjing received a lot of criticism, and more suspected her of climbing the branches.
But Guo Jingjing said confidently: "I really don't have a high climb." There are many giants in the world, but there are only a few Olympic champions. ”
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In fact, the giants are not easy to marry.
And there are many rules for giants.
Some giants, you go to a dinner party, one of the buttons of the evening dress is not tied well, and when you get home, you will be scolded for half a day.
However, Guo Jingjing's life after marriage is said to be very good. Huo Qigang hurt her very much and loved her in his bones.
From this epidemic, Guo Jingjing went to Tokyo as a referee, and it can be seen that Huo Qigang is in a hurry. Being a driver again, preparing hand sanitizer, and just epidemic prevention and disinfection supplies, it was a full box.
In fact, before Huo Qigang did not meet Guo Jingjing, it can be said that his girlfriends are not small, but once they meet the people they love the most, the young man who used to be a gentleman, he immediately became a "fart worm" where Guo Jingjing went.
You think about how happy Guo Jingjing should be.
Now men, rich, no money, have a career, no career, when it comes to spending time with their wives. Most of the time is spent drinking, playing games, and even fishing and raising dogs.
Are you busier than Huo Qigang?
When He graduated, he worked as an analyst at Goldman Sachs and Solomon, and is currently the Vice President of Fok Ying Tung Group and a trustee of the Fok Ying Tung Foundation in Macau.
He was really busy. And busy with big things.
Huo Qigang was a "wife slave". For example, when people ask him which city he likes best, he opens his mouth and comes: Baoding, Hebei.
hehe. How big is China, why do you like Baoding? It turned out that Baoding was Guo Jingjing's hometown.
If it is said that when he first chased Guo Jingjing, Huo Qigang said so, how can it not be excessive, but after many years of marriage, he still says so, it seems that it must be true love.
In addition, they handle some differences and contradictions after marriage very well, can communicate with each other, and easily resolve them. At first glance, there is true love as a foundation.
That is to say, the two people appreciate each other, they love each other, and how to look at each other is very pleasing to the eye. This point, seemingly simple, is actually not easy. Especially after years of washing.
It is not difficult to love for a while, and it is so difficult to love for a few years, a few years as a day. And if it is natural, it is not contrived, it cannot be purposeful.
In the eyes of many people, After marrying into the rich, Guo Jingjing is either surrounded by servants every day, living a life of brocade and jade food, or playing small mahjong, or doing it today, doing it tomorrow, sending a little temper, making a little fuss, in order to make her husband spoil her more.
In fact, this is not the case. Or maybe Guo Jingjing didn't want to do this.
Believe that if she needs it, it can be done.
Once, Guo Jingjing and Huo Qigang attended a less formal party, and everyone found that the head rope tied to her head was sold for 3 yuan in Hong Kong.
Later, this matter spread, and some netizens doubted whether the Huo family was abusing Jingjing, "Marry into the rich, and give a head rope for 3 yuan?" ”
For this matter, Guo Jingjing also responded: "Oh, isn't it just a thing for tying hair, people sell 3 pieces, you can't give people 300 pieces!" ”
It seems that many people still look at Guo Jingjing very secularly.
Look down on Guo Jingjing.
Guo Jingjing is atmospheric and heroic. If you think about it, what can people with small bellies and chicken intestines, people who are rich and safe, and people who take advantage of small things and have not enough children do? Can you still win the world championship?
In fact, as an Olympic champion, and won a lot of gold medals in world-class competitions, the Olympic Games alone, won 4 gold medals and 2 silver medals, is the first sport in the field of diving in China to win 6 Olympic medals, she is not short of money.
And after getting married, Guo Jingjing not only gave birth to a son and two daughters for the Huo family, but also spent a lot of time on picking up and dropping off children to and from school, and often carried an environmental protection bag, and Huo Qigang went to the cheap supermarket with Huo Qigang, and the vegetables, rice and milk bought were ordinary.
They also use their spare time to take their children to the countryside to learn to farm.
Moreover, usually eating, unless there is a special social, the family will eat a simple meal of about 100 yuan, which is not complicated and luxurious. What is even more surprising is that this time Huo Qigang is a little "dissatisfied", because Guo Jingjing went to Tokyo as a referee and worked up to 11 hours a day, but the Olympic Games did not care about food, and could only order takeaway to eat.
Huo Qigang, who was at home alone, had to take three babies, and he also ate a light meal.
Huo Qigang once posted his own baby on the platform: "Mother is not there, eat fast food, a simple meal." ”
Brilliant to the extreme, to the point of blandness.
But it is not light and tasteless. Occasionally there is a little warmth, a little romance, a world of two, interspersed.
I guess that's a good marriage.
So, I sometimes wonder what a happy marriage is and what a good match is.
A happy marriage is nothing more than two people who look at each other and are not tired of looking at each other, every day in a pot, but because the two love each other and have feelings, then do anything, with romance and happiness.
And this kind of transcendent material thing is the root of a happy marriage.
In fact, everyone's marriage is similar, and the work they usually do is similar, but the happiness is very different.
Some people say that marriage is a business. I one-sidedly agree with that view. I think that the original mutual admiration, deep love, must have, otherwise, "self-made" to operate, is very difficult.
There is a saying: "Being with the person you love is called the future." If you change someone else, it will be called."
What is a good match for a lover.
In fact, it is the communication of the soul, the pleasure of the body, and the complementarity of the world.
The souls are not connected, and the "three views" are inconsistent, which is equivalent to appearing in harmony with the gods.
Physically unpleasant, without perfect sex, if one party is not self-disciplined, it is inevitable to find another person.
The world is not complementary, one does not look at one, or two people who think they are very cowhide, you say you are very good, I say I am OK, a mountain does not tolerate two tigers, a single bridge is only two elephants, this day can not be lived.