Those external conditions that affect self-discipline are huge and rapid changes
2021-09-15
Wang Siya was ready to lose weight.
She knows that the most important thing about weight loss is to move and eat less, which is called "controlling the mouth and opening the legs".
She knew exactly how to do it and started doing it, but didn't stick to it each time. This is his fifteenth weight loss, basically twice a year, and he has been talking about it for almost eight years. Whether she can succeed this time, in my opinion, is still still very hanging, and it can even be said that it will not be successful at all, because he will still eat, or will move less.
Wang Siya always complains to me, saying that her self-control is very poor, can never do it to control herself, or that there are too many temptations, and she will always be attracted to others, not only her own self-control, but also the self-control of others, and even in the end, it rises to the self-control of the whole society, and now people's self-control is too poor, if you can find a self-disciplined person, how to do it.
Is there no self-disciplined person in this world?
Of course, there are, but it is relatively small within the scope of our contact, after all, when we are self-disciplined people, there are such people around us, then we will not ask like this. When we ask this, it has already been explained that the surrounding area is not such a person, then relatively speaking, it must be very good.
Of course, the total number of people who can control themselves is definitely decreasing, after all, there are so many possibilities in society now, there are so many environments and atmospheres, and those that may not have been touched before are now also contacted, then some people will be captured, so the proportion is definitely declining.
And because it's easier to reach out to more, it's easy for people to be pulled by other things, people, or projects, and they can't do what they call focus. More importantly, when this contact becomes more and more complete, it means that there will be multiple atmospheres around you that attract you. This change in atmosphere, the so-called change in the environment, will directly affect your self-control, of course, this is only an excuse, but it is also happening.
As I said before, in the past two thousand years, some of the basic changes in people have been very small, basically nothing has changed, such as carriages, such as houses, such as eating things, etc., basically these external changes are not much change, but in recent hundreds of years, people's surrounding changes have changed in geometric multiples, basically every week, and this change will make people contact more things.
Two days ago I wrote a journal about the changes in China in recent decades, the changes are too fast, many people are very confused and anxious, not that he is not capable, but because we want to take the road that others have taken for hundreds of years, this change is particularly fast, many people do not know what kind of situation will occur next. The social environment has changed so much that many times we will be affected by the social environment, and many of the things we see now have a factor in this regard, which is the result of the changes in the overall social environment, and human changes promote this social environment.
Although I said before that there will be a master coming to solve this confusion, we just don't know when this situation will occur, so people are still confused.
In fact, when Wang Siya is ready to lose weight, she can do it, but now big data, she not only has to fight against her own heart, but also needs to fight against more external environment. You need to stay away from everything and keep yourself alone, and maybe you will succeed, although this is an excuse, but the proportion of this success will increase relatively.
You can change your mind in an instant, for example, to lose weight, but mobile phones, computers, smart tools, etc., will push your previous behavior habits, you have to fight not only some of the behaviors in your brain, but also other behaviors brought about by these environments, and this behavior cannot be deleted, only through your changes will change.
This push will make you resist a greater enemy in some way, it will appear in front of you in a more huge form, you need to resist not only you personally, but also those big environments, and these big environments, not necessarily you can resist. For example, you would have resisted twenty to really lose weight, and now in addition to this twenty, there are another thirty, but it is not twenty plus thirty equals fifty, it may be equal to eighty, because this thirty is attracting that twenty is growing rapidly.
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