When it comes to female rappers in the rap circle, many people will think of Naiwan. / Spit Conference 5
Naiwan's original intention may be very sincere, but in the face of the social reality of gender stereotypes, it is not a light "tolerant understanding" that can be changed.
What's more, in the case of the balance itself tilting, it is a little cruel to let the relatively weak side understand the difficulties of the relatively dominant side.
These two days, if you often surf the Internet, you will not be unfamiliar with the name "Naiwan".
On Weibo, "Naiwan", "Naiwan give the beloved boy some tolerance and understanding", "Naiwan I will not back down because I did not do anything wrong"... One after another confusing hot search topics all point to the same female artist - Nai Wan.
Although he has previously participated in popular variety shows such as "China New Rap 2019" and "Youth With You 2", the rapper's closest thing to going out of the circle is because of a remark made during a performance at the music festival two days ago.
In this video, which has been played more than 7.3 million times, you can see that on the stage, Naiwan held the microphone with both hands, facing the audience, and suddenly began to pull out his heart.
"I wrote this song (referring to the song 'boy)...' It's because I saw a saying on the Internet that said, 'Boys also have a lot of dreams, they want to be players, they want to be gamers, but after the age of 18, their dreams have become to buy a house and buy a car'"
"We want to give some understanding and tolerance to the beloved boys, and the boys must be bold to continue to pursue your dreams"
"Girls must also be themselves, and everyone must insist on being themselves, which is the real equality between men and women."
These words, just to put out, seem to be not much of a problem, but put together is not surprisingly strange.
In the eyes of many people, this statement seems to be intentionally or unintentionally attributing the economic pressure faced by men in buying a house and a car to women, and it is this association that has aroused the instinctive disgust of netizens.
Commented on this video under high praise.
"Tolerance is OK, first return the women's toilet to the girls"
In the view of a considerable number of netizens, asking girls to be tolerant is undoubtedly looking for the wrong object.
If men's dreams are to buy a car and a house, then women's dreams are only equality.
When going to school, the score line is not raised or the quota is reduced when applying for the major, and it is not treated differently when applying for and promoting, and the same financial support can be received in the original family.
The requirements are even lower, and it is even possible not to be spied on by men in the fitting room and women's restroom.
What bothers women more than the fact that boys appear in the women's toilet is the social concept of "the child is still young, what does he know". /Weibo
Under such circumstances, girls will feel that their public opinion space is already narrow, do you want me to tolerate and understand?
Naiwan's original intention may be sincere, but the reality of gender stereotypes is not something that can be changed by a fluttering "tolerant understanding".
And Naiwan's fans believe that in the process of carrying and disseminating Naiwan's remarks, the entertainment account has hidden the information points in the original words that "there are already many songs praising girls" and "boys and girls each have to do their own", which is the main reason why Naiwan was ridiculed by the group.
As a result, almost every blogger with a slight voice can see Naiwan fans rushing to the "full version of the speech" of science popularization.
Fan-made, clarified posts distributed throughout the network.
The studio also quickly issued a statement, sending warnings to accounts that were "taken out of context" and "maliciously distorted."
However, this public opinion storm, which extends to gender issues, has not subsided, but has intensified.
The course of the whole event began to slide in a rather incredible direction. In the end, the person who suffered the most network malice was actually a netizen who did not have any excessive words and deeds.
The birth of "Tiger Poker Best Friend"
Speaking of which, although the expression of internal entertainment stars often provokes criticism because the words do not meet the expectations, Naiwan can also be regarded as the first person to say the controversial words of "being yourself".
On closer examination, it is not difficult to understand that she empathizes with boys who have "lost their dreams and become house slaves".
Just like some time ago, the whole network is in pain a netizen who is eager to have any door.
In the screenshot, it is a netizen who fantasizes about having any door, and the happiest thing he can think of is to work in Beijing during the day and go back to Hegang to sleep at night.
Some people can't help but sigh, "There are arbitrary doors, what makes him even dream so small?" ”
And the next comment, one more than one heart-wrenching -
"He didn't expect to send a courier through any door."
"He thought about it when he was 35 years old"
"People who are weighed down by life have to be careful even when they dream"...
There is a high praise message in the comment area that "no little boy's dream is to grow up to buy a house", which is almost the same as Naiwan's initial expression, but the direction of emotion is very different.
In these few words left by the same workers at the end of the world, there is the exhaustion of running all day, the bitterness of hard food, and the sentimentality of the years, but there is no confused gaze of "I can't afford to buy a house, you have to be tolerant and understand me" that is not thrown to the opposite sex.
Similarly, in this huge opposition to Naiwan's remarks, many people pointed out that the causal logic of her remarks was not valid.
A day later, Nai Wan himself, who was in the whirlpool of public opinion, responded to the matter by tweeting, believing that he had "done nothing wrong." At the same time, the comments that were most liked in the comment area are still the voices of opposition.
Nai Wan's attitude in response to the end, while causing more controversy for her, also some people threw appreciative glances at her. For example, the straight man's network gathering place Tiger Poker Pedestrian Street, the "belt master brother" Sun Xiaochuan, and his dog fans...
However, while supporting Naiwan's remarks, the meaning revealed between the lines of the words seems to imply that Naiwan's appearance is not qualified enough to be a "tiger goddess".
If the tiger poker official blog is just a hint, then the tiger poker netizens have written "we choose the goddess to see the face" on the face.
"All this man can be treated, but the vote must be round"
The gap formed between "Naiwan's empathy for the male group" and "the unappreciation of some men" is awkward with a hint of confusion, and a hint of humor in the confusion.
It's hard not to remind people of a short video that exploded some time ago.
The sisters were willing to leave all the demolition money for their hometown to their brothers, and the brothers said with a straight face, "These are already mine, don't act like you gave me charity."
It is said that people who make half sacrifices for others are the most painful, because other people's eyes will always be fixed on the half you have not yet given.
If the black humor formed between Naiwan and Tiger Flutter has brought a hint of happiness to the Internet, what happened next will make netizens laugh completely.
Unexpected "victims"
Almost no one could have imagined that after several rounds of controversy over Naiwan's remarks, it was Ms. Zhang, a netizen with cancer, who was finally pushed to the cusp of the storm.
There was no attack, no insults, and Before being attacked by the Internet, Ms. Zhang only sent a Weibo involving Naiwan to express her disapproval attitude.
In fact, the woman's voice was much milder than most of the criticism of Naiwan, but it turned out that she suffered the worst online violence.
It seems that in the eyes of some people, she is sick and has turned to society for help, and she is naturally in a moral depression.
Speaking of which, it is not the first time that seriously ill patients have been subjected to online violence. Previously, the B station up owner "Kafka Muffin Jun" had been questioned because of optimistic anti-cancer and was questioned to be sick, and fell into a Rashomon who was exposed to Internet violence and Internet violence until his death.
Muffin Jun's last words left on social platforms. /Weibo
However, unlike Muffin Jun, who has a privileged family and simply shares her anti-cancer experience, Ms. Zhang's family's financial ability is not enough to pay for treatment, so she has posted a request for help on the fundraising platform.
After Ms. Zhang expressed her disagreement with Naiwan's views, her illness and experience of seeking help were also found, and she was forced to become a bullseye of online violence.
Someone specifically changed the Weibo nickname to "XXX (real name of a cancer netizen) was defeated by the disease today" and cursed her for dying soon.
Ms. Zhang's request for help on the fundraising platform was also maliciously reported, and once it was identified as a false request for help by the platform, it was likely to be frozen bank cards and killed invisibly.
When the situation is moving in a direction that is more and more difficult to control, it is not easy for Naiwan himself to come forward.
Late at night on May 7, Naiwan donated 30,000 yuan to Ms. Zhang.
In the screenshot of the donation posted by Naiwan and in the follow-up comments, it is not difficult to see that while wishing the patient a speedy recovery, she once again expressed the attitude of "scolding me, I am not ashamed".
But the problem is that the netizen who suffered the Internet storm has never scolded her from beginning to end. Nai wan also expressed this meaning in the comments of the comments.
However, when donating money, it is difficult not to misunderstand this "scolding" as a specific reference, that is, "although you have scolded me, I am still willing to help you".
A few hours later, Naiwan deleted the microblog, but there were several more press releases on the Internet.
Ms. Zhang's Weibo also has more such remarks.
What's even more frightening than the cyberburst itself is that the perpetrators seem to be having fun with it.
As the scholar Liu Yu said—
Extremes are too tempting, its certainty and the self-confidence that certainty brings, its simplicity and simplicity brings peace of mind, its easy identification and the emotional groups that are quickly assembled because of recognition, it is really tempting.
From now on, there is no need to drift between different ideas, no need to constantly adjust the direction according to the road conditions, no need to endure the torture of self-doubt, no need to be judged by the feeling of smallness over the years, this kind of person may indeed be very happy.
If, at the beginning, Naiwan's shouting at the music festival was just to express love & peace, standing in the center of the world and calling for love, then the subsequent development of this matter is contrary to her original intention.
But there is a sentence that she is not wrong, whether it is a man or a woman, please be a person first.
✎ Author | Li Luxiu
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