Nai wan probably did not expect that her words would cause such a big controversy.
On May 5th, at the Strawberry Music Festival, Naiwan, as a guest singer, made this remark to the audience:
Boys also have a lot of dreams, want to be players want to be gamers, but at the age of 18 their dream has become to buy a house and a car, so we should give the beloved boys some tolerance and understanding, girls also have to be themselves, men and women should be equal.
This passage sounds no problem at first, and it feels wrong to taste it a few times.
Nor is it strange that Naiwan was scolded.
"Boys' dreams after the age of 18 have become to buy a house and a car" and "girls should give their beloved boys some understanding and tolerance" are linked, logically weird, right.
It's as if boys dream of buying a house and a car because girls don't understand and tolerate their beloved boys enough.
Boys are encouraged to be, want them to be players want to be gamers, and make girls more tolerant.
Girls are encouraged to "keep being themselves."
If I read that correctly, this request is all for girls?
Maybe this is not the case, but there is definitely something wrong with the way it is expressed.
It seems that girls can achieve "more tolerance and tolerance for themselves", and everyone can achieve equality between men and women.
I really don't blame everyone for complaining: Nai wan is a girl, but her ass is sitting so crooked?
Nai Wan's speech on the gender issue was inappropriate, originally lying flat and laughing, apologizing for not long before things turned over.
As a result, it is not biased.
After a wave of criticism, Naiwan craned his neck and shouted "trolls" on social platforms:
You've had enough, you guys please, but I'm not going to back down, I'm not wrong.
Enough real, just rapper.
Subsequently, the official social platform of Naiwan Studio also took action, and issued a solemn statement very bluntly, warning netizens that "it is suspected that the criminal law constitutes a crime."
This move has completely set off a public opinion climax on social platforms.
Some netizens really received a lawyer's letter and panicked and posted for help.
But the combat effectiveness is stronger and more likely to get out of control, and it is definitely a tap water male netizen who applauds Naiwan's remarks.
On the evening of May 6, Ms. Zhang, a female netizen who was suffering from cancer, encountered large-scale online violence.
What did she do wrong?
Ms. Zhang only said a sentence: I can't see women's voices for men, and privately say yes, public platforms can't.
Just passing by comments on popular events.
There was no swear word, no offense, just a brief exposition of his attitude.
I don't know that the sentence poked the nerves of the opposing netizens, and a large number of people poured in, dug up Ms. Zhang's Weibo, turned out the "water drop chip" post she had previously designed to ask for help on the platform, and wantonly launched personal attacks:
May the disease overcome you soon.
What's more, she dug up Ms. Zhang's specific information, reported her for false fundraising, and deliberately entered the wrong password three times to deliberately freeze her bank card.
In the end, Ms. Zhang, who was forced to suffer from cancer, deleted her Weibo for help.
A butterfly in the Amazon rainforest of South America, with an occasional flaring of its wings, can cause a tornado in Texas two weeks later.
Nai Wan hung up Ms. Zhang's fundraising link, she may think that she is "complaining with virtue", transferring 30,000 yuan to people in need of help, but the final result is that people who pay attention to her work together to close Ms. Zhang's help channel.
I believe that this is also something that Naiwan himself did not expect.
"Some stars are just closer to the microphone, but they have the illusion of being closer to the truth."
Rational discussion, people who give boys the pressure to buy a house and a car, do they really love their girls?
Not.
The high dowry and the source of pressure to buy a house and a car are all traditional patriarchal societies.
Naiwan has another sentence that impressed me: May 6, 2021. The most romantic music festival became a nightmare for my life.
But I would like to say, Naiwan, what you have lost is perhaps the most romantic music festival, and what others have been robbed of is the passage of life.
If you really can't speak, shut up.