In the original work of "Know It or Not, It Should Be Green Fat Red Skinny", since Sheng Xuan and Wang Ruofu agreed to marry RuLan to Wen Yanjing, Rulan was single-mindedly repairing the dowry in the boudoir, and her heart was full of Wen Yanjing's sweet words, and she embroidered the poems that Wen Yanjing gave her, one word after another, on the veil. In fact, what RuLan needed was very simple, what she needed was Wen Yanjing's sincerity.
However, Ru Lan's voice and courage recently became bigger and bigger day by day, and when Ru Lan helped Hai Chaoyun's housekeeper, as long as he encountered difficult subordinates and stewards, Hai Chaoyun let Rulan come forward, Rulan fired at full force, and when he caught the subordinates, he scolded, and at every turn, Wang Ruofu was brought out to intimidate those subordinates, and under Rulan's severe reprimand, those subordinates obeyed.
At that time, Minglan was very curious, Rulan was going to marry, should put away the temperament, treat people gently, so as to have a virtuous reputation, how to get to the critical time temperament is more fiery than usual, Such lan's temper personality with Wang Ruofu, itself is a big voice grumpy, and now Rulan is better than before.
When Minglan was puzzled, Rulan told the truth, her future mother-in-law is a brutal and difficult widow, a person pulling two sons, Wen Yanjing is the eldest son, but the mother likes to favor the younger son, so Rulan's definition of her future mother-in-law is that she is not a carefree mother-in-law, his eldest daughter-in-law is not good, and it is impossible to avoid tit-for-tat confrontation later.
When Wen Yanjing fell in love with Rulan, Wen Yanjing told Rulan the real situation in the family, saying that his brother did not grow up, but his mother had been biased, Wen Yanjing's marriage had been repeatedly delayed, his mother's arrogance, arrogance and arrogance, let Wen Yanjing also have a headache, when Rulan first saw the Wen family's mother, it was felt that it was a difficult mother-in-law, every time Wang Ruofu looked at the Wen family's mother's stingy appearance, Wang Ruofu scolded Rulan.
Therefore, in RuLan's last days in Shengfu, when helping Hai Chaoyun's housekeeper, Rulan deliberately reprimanded the next person in a loud voice, in Rulan's concept, she was in contact with courage, in order not to lose in the future mother-in-law battle, first practice her throat and guts well, and she could not lose the wind in the position.
Ru Lan's expectations for marriage, Wen Yanjing's expectations, there is only one requirement, then Wen Yanjing must have a heart with her, as long as the husband and wife are one, Rulan can eat any pain, any grievances can be endured, at that time, as a warm man, Wen Yanjing was also full of promises, if the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law war, he is absolutely not biased towards his mother, it is really not OK, just hide out.
Why would Ru Lan ask Wen Yanjing to have a heart with her? Because the reason for the failure of Wang Ruofu's marriage to Sheng Shao is that the husband and wife have the same bed and different dreams, and the husband and wife are separated, which gives Lin Wanshuang an opportunity to take advantage of it. Therefore, later, Hua Lan's marriage was often bullied by her mother-in-law, but Hua Lan relied on forbearance to make Yuan Wenshao biased towards himself and successfully got rid of his mother's control. Now Rulan is also following Hualan's example.
When encountering the most powerful mother-in-law, behind the lack of son's support, in front of the daughter-in-law also did not dare to mess wild, and later when the mother-in-law bullied Rulan, Wen Yanjing was indeed helping Rulan to support, sometimes, Wen Yanjing would also ask Wang Ruofu to come forward and quarrel with the Wen family's mother-in-law, saying that Wen Yanjing also had a heart and fulfilled his promise to Rulan.