I saw a passage like this on the Internet:
"You don't wear AJ, you don't open a Rolls-Royce, what do you make me love you?" Love you soil love you do, love you pocket more than 100, love you ride a bicycle or love you go home without washing your feet and drilling into the quilt? ”
Everyone knows that this is about men, many men say that women have now become fond of money, they only care about whether men have money, do not care whether this man is good or not, the era of true love has passed, and now it is the era of money.
It's just that no one has ever wondered why women are "materialized" now.
01.
In a certain variety show, Da Zhang Wei said, "Aren't you girls dressed up for men?" ”
Qi Wei said, "Women dress up for themselves. ”
Then someone asked why you girls always like to buy, buy lipstick, buy perfume, buy mess.
Men say they are completely unable to provide for a woman's demands.
Qi Wei said: "You are glad that your girlfriend only needs lipstick and these worthless things, if she likes watches and cars, you don't know where to cry." ”
I can't even afford a gift.
Indeed, lipstick is indeed insignificant compared to a watch, and it is not even comparable. A lipstick is more than a thousand, but a car is tens of thousands.
In the eyes of many people, buying lipstick is a waste of money, and women who buy lipstick are just dressing up to please men.
Men think that lipstick is worth a lot, like a cigarette in their mouth, and the money in the car in their mouth is not worth mentioning, or even a priceless treasure.
And in their eyes, girls love lipstick, love bags become material women, become women who love vanity.
Even because now a woman marries a man older than herself to love his money.
As in the movie "Xibao", Jiang Xibao said: "If there is no love, it is good to have money." ”
But before that, she also said, "Enough money is enough, and the more love, the better." ”
Defining a woman is not her attitude toward love, but the way women behave in the world.
02.
I saw a person on the Little Red Book asking, "I earned twenty thousand a month, bought a bag of ten thousand yuan, and my husband said I was materialistic, do I want a divorce?" ”
Obviously, he earned it by his own efforts, and in the eyes of his husband, it seemed that he had satisfied his vanity and bought a noble bag.
This kind of man seems to live in the past era, thinking that men are still more noble than women, and demanding women according to their own standards, in the eyes of this kind of man, women are material.
But are women really materialistic? No, it's just that most men think that over time it has spread widely.
Now in the aesthetic, women's economic independence is the best look, they go in and out of society to start making money, but there are always people who are not inferior, think that women can't do anything, they will return for money.
But who is not for the money? If you want to make yourself a little better, material things are inevitable.
Some people have asked why women can ask to marry a rich man, why they want a bride price, why they want a house. They can enjoy not having to struggle.
But women ask for more, shouldn't they?
Because women get married and have children, the price of childbearing is not only available with money.
Women are materialized because most men can't afford it, and thus feel that women covet vanity.
In fact, from another point of view, men also want to live a good life, there are phoenix men, there are also door-to-door son-in-law, for money or love are not sure.
But there is very little talk of male substance, and most of the criticism is on women.
The substance is chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, is the basis of life, which is why in the past there are so many reasons why there are not bride price and do not marry, in fact, it is not the woman's family material, it is for women to live happier.
03.
There is also a vibrato passage that men say to women: "You don't lose weight, you don't buy black silk, what do you make me love you?" Love you to do, love your chin more than three layers, or love to help you cut pinduoduo? ”
It's like a process of comparison, in modern society dislike is a common word, dislike this, dislike that, but in the end do not reflect on whether they can make themselves like.
Dong Xinyao, a TikTok internet celebrity, tested his girlfriend and told her, "I am bankrupt and owe more than five million in debt." ”
He begged his girlfriend not to leave him, to let her go to live in a small house with him, to start all over again, to suffer with him, and to test whether her girlfriend loved him in this way.
Like most people think, the girlfriend says she wants to go back to her parents.
This is actually unacceptable to most women, even men, who say be brave and can start all over again, but how many people can start all over again?
This is not matter, this is reality.
But half an hour later, his girlfriend came over and asked him to kneel down, promising that she would not betray her in this life, and she took out the money she had worked so hard to save, not much, but all her savings.
She is not the substance that everyone imagines, she uses her own way to obtain a more perfect love, and the bet she makes will not disappoint her.
Not all women are materialistic, but most define them as rigid.