Before watching the fourth unit of "Meritorious Service", I specifically went to the Internet to search for relevant information about Huang Xuhua's grandfather.
It doesn't matter if you don't search, you can't help but cry when you search.
For the sake of the motherland's nuclear submarine cause, Mr. Huang Xuhua has not returned home for thirty years, his parents and brothers do not know what work he is doing, and the whole thing is like people evaporating.
Suddenly, I felt that the title of the third unit was very good - "Huang Xuhua's deep diving", which not only referred to their desire to dive into the sea, but also referred to their lifelong incognito, if they dived into the sea of nuclear submarines.
As far as the country is concerned, they are great heroes, people worthy of our admiration, but for their relatives, it may not be so.
He had not returned home for thirty years, and even when his father died, he was absent, and in the ordinary perception, he was a completely unfilial son, so his brothers and sisters also called him "ungrateful."
If I were younger, I would certainly scold the brothers and sisters of the old gentleman with indignation, but when the people arrived, I could not bear to say the blame, after all, they were just ordinary people like us, and they wanted nothing more than a family reunion.
However, for Huang Xuhua, the beautiful words of a family reunion can only be a luxury.
I think that after thirty years of being away from their families, their hearts are equally uncomfortable, and they must be thinking about their parents, brothers, wives and children all the time.
However, because the country needs it, they can only bury this little love in their hearts and love the motherland with all their strength, and they cannot say a word about their work.
Of course, the family behind them also makes us admire.
Along the way, from Sun Yuqin to Sun Yulan, to Huang Lao's wife Li Shiying, they have touched the softest place in our hearts.

Screenshot of the TV series "Meritorious Service"
Compared with the stories of the previous units, the love between Huang Xuhua and Li Shiying is a little more romantic.
It was Shanghai in 1952, Huang Xuhua and Li Shiying met at the Port Authority Youth Event, one handsome and elegant, one young and beautiful, although they did not spend a long time together, but they had become the best friends.
That time, Li Shiying gave Huang Xuhua a haircut, but none of them thought that this principle would be a lifetime.
I even felt that from then on, there had been a hazy affection between them and each other.
Just met, but faced with separation, Huang Xuhua wanted to go to the Shipbuilding Research Institute to work, Li Shiying wanted to dalian to study Russian, the sentence "it is so far from Shanghai", I actually heard a little reluctance.
Before leaving, Li Shiying specifically went to find Huang Xuhua, but unfortunately Huang Xuhua was on the boat, and she couldn't hear what she was saying, because everyone was waiting for her, so she had to hand over the pusher gift entrusted to him.
Two years later, Soviet experts came to the Shanghai Shipbuilding Industry Administration and taught them to imitate torpedo boats, although Huang Xuhua wanted to learn more, but Soviet experts were reluctant to teach each other, Huang Xuhua himself did not understand Russian, could not communicate directly with Soviet experts, fell into distress.
Just when Huang Xuhua was trying very hard to learn Russian words, Li Shiying appeared, and she not only returned to Shanghai, but also served as a full-time translator for Soviet experts.
As a result, Li Shiying became Huang Xuhua's full-time translator, and the class became Huang Xuhua's one-on-one tutoring to Soviet experts.
Interestingly, when Li Shiying gave Huang Xuhua a haircut again, it attracted everyone's onlookers, and even Soviet experts couldn't help but clap their hands for them. When they got married, Soviet experts gave them special gifts.
"If he has a long thorn, I'll bulldoze him."
Speaking the most cruel words and moving the deepest love, the state of Huang Xuhua and Li Shiying is actually the best state in marriage.
Later they had children, Huang Xuhua was very fond of his daughter, had the most favorite job, had the best lover, for most people, maybe this is the most beautiful state of life.
It's just a pity that such years did not last long.
A mysterious notice that Huang Xuhua was going to Beijing for a meeting, and he didn't even have time to say goodbye to his family, so he had to leave a note for Li Shiying in a hurry.
After all, it was a small couple with a common heart, Yan Baoguo and Chunling couldn't understand where Huang Xuhua had gone, but Li Shiying was very relieved, he said don't miss it, and also said that he would come back soon.
However, this time, Li Shiying miscalculated, although he said "don't think", but after a long time, he did not receive news from Huang Xuhua, and finally Director Lu went to inform Li Shiying, saying that Huang Xuhua had a task and could not come back for the time being, and she only knew about it after staying in Beijing for a while.
During his time in Beijing, although Huang Xuhua could write letters to Li Shiying, due to the need for confidentiality, he wanted to say a lot, and could not say more, and could only write a few lines.
Of course, every time he saw the word "don't read" on the letter, Li Shiying felt at ease.
I don't know how many heroes like Huang Xuhua and Yu Min have been anonymous all their lives in the development of the motherland, but I think that we can have today's prosperous beauty, to a large extent, relying on these anonymous and unknown heroes, as well as their families who stand behind them and silently dedicate themselves.
Fortunately, although Huang Xuhua can't talk about work with his family, he can still write a letter to his family every three to five minutes, which gives his family some psychological comfort.
After the withdrawal of foreign experts, the research on nuclear submarines returned to the original point.
In order to find a suitable experimental site, Huang Xuhua returned to Shanghai, but because of his work, even if he passed by his home, he did not dare to take it upon himself to go home to see.
Fortunately, the higher authorities took into account the actual situation of the scientific researchers and specially approved them to take a day off and let them go home to see.
That day, Li Shiying came home from work, saw Huang Xuhua who was coaxing the child, the four eyes were facing each other, the whole world lit up, we often say that Xiao Beisheng is newly married, they are separated for several years, this must be a small difference.
That day, Li Shiying gave Huang Xuhua another haircut, Huang Xuhua looked at Li Shiying behind him through the mirror, his eyes were full of affection, "Don't grab me, I want to cut your hair", because of deep love, even if they have been married for many years, they are still each other's boys and girls.
Knowing that Huang Xuhua could not come back often, Li Shiying was full of disappointment in his eyes, but fortunately, when Huang Xuhua left the next day, Li Shiying finally taught his daughter to call daddy.
Finally, in 1962, Huang Xuhua took Li Shiying and Huang Haiyan to the dormitory assigned in Beijing, and Yan Baoguo shared a courtyard, and the couple finally stopped gathering less and leaving more than in the past.
Later, Huang Xuhua turned to Fulu Island, and after stabilizing, he took Li Shiying and his daughter over. However, the environment on Fulu Island was much more difficult than in Beijing, but Li Shiying did not complain about the harsh environment, but blamed Huang Xuhua for not calling her earlier, because he would not take care of himself at all.
Scientists are great because they have smart minds, but many scientists are not even as good as a child in life, and if they don't have someone who loves them deeply to help them take care of their lives, they don't know what they will make of their lives.
Along the way, Li Shiying has not complained.
The time Huang Yanni was in distress, Li Shiying completely collapsed, crying and complaining that Huang Xuhua should not have brought himself to this place.
However, after complaining, she still stood firmly behind Huang Xuhua, and played some comforting role in Huang Xuhua's difficult scientific research journey.
In the whole fourth unit, there is a picture that appears particularly many times, that is, the scene where Li Shiying gives Huang Xuhua a haircut -
When they got their first haircut, they were all spirited teenagers; when they got a second haircut, they were like-minded comrades-in-arms; when they got a haircut for the third time, they were a couple who gathered less and left more; when they got a haircut for the fourth time...
In the past, I thought that a haircut was a haircut, until I read the story of Huang Xuhua and Li Shiying, I found that for researchers like them, such a scene is a rare reunion time.
Brief reunion, long-term separation, fortunately during the period of separation, every time Huang Xuhua wrote a letter, there were two words "don't read", which made Li Shiying feel at ease.
No matter how far apart, as long as I can still receive your letter and see your word "don't read", I know your existence, I know that you love me, and I know better that the reason why you are short, in addition to some words that are inconvenient to say, but also because our paper is short and long - although it is only two short words, it also hides all your affection for me.
I know that it's not that you don't love me, but that you have more important things to do, and as someone who loves you, there is no choice but to stand firmly behind you.
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