On the road of life, we must learn to be kind to ourselves and strive to live as we really want to be in order to have the fullest life. There is a great uncle named Ouyang in Zhangjiakou, Hebei Province, who earned millions of family properties because of the men's dress for women, but his wife and daughter chose to leave because it was difficult to accept his "weird" dress, and now he is old but still lives alone.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > handsome, raised as a daughter since childhood</h1>
In the early days, most people had the idea of emphasizing men over women, but Ouyang's family was not, and his mother wanted a daughter very much. After seeing that a son was born, the mother was very disappointed and decided to raise Ouyang as a girl. Although he is a boy, Ouyang looks handsome, and it is difficult to see the real gender after tying his braids and then putting on the girl's clothes.
His mother gave Ouyang a long braid, and would also comb his braids and wear a beautiful skirt, perhaps the experience of childhood had a great impact on Ouyang, Ouyang had some gender cognitive impairment since he was a child, and his words and deeds were also like girls. Although his mother blindly raised Ouyang as a girl and dressed him up in a fancy way, in the eyes of Ouyang's father, this was simply ridiculous and had been preventing his wife from doing it.
The husband and wife also often quarreled over various small things in life, and over time, the relationship gradually broke down, and finally negotiated a divorce, and Ouyang lived with his father. His father disliked Ouyang's girl appearance the most, and immediately after the divorce, he cut Ouyang's long hair, and since then bought many boys' clothes for him, trying to correct his feminine behavior in life.
< h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > enter the drama class and become a male dan</h1>
Soon after his father divorced, he found a stepmother for Ouyang, and Ouyang, who lived with his father, became a superfluous one, and his stepmother often treated Ouyang harshly behind his father's back. Ouyang had run to find his mother, but his mother, who had reorganized the family, only comforted him a few words and sent him back.
Ouyang, who was sent back by his mother, was particularly depressed, and his personality changed a lot. His father felt that it was not the way to go on in the long run, and sent Ouyang into the drama class under the recommendation of his friends.
At the age of ten, he left home and performed with the troupe. Ouyang's appearance is handsome and feminine, and the master in the drama class thinks that he is suitable for singing and focuses on cultivating him, and after his parents divorce, Ouyang, who has no one to rely on, is also particularly willing to learn. In the few years of apprenticeship in the drama team, Ouyang learned a lot, and his reputation became more and more famous in the process of continuously performing on stage.
The master has always let Ouyang sing Danjiao, and in the long run, Ouyang has become a very famous male Dan. Ouyang's full voice and rounded singing voice have made him have a lot of fans, and his excellent figure and natural performance have attracted a lot of spectators. After the success of the career, he also gained love, his wife was also from the singing background, the two fell in love at first sight, and after marriage, they could help each other in their careers.
< h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > began to reverse the string and quickly became popular</h1>
The famous opera master Mei Lanfang had a disciple named Hu Wenge. He prefers anti-string, because of his unique performance form attracted a lot of audiences, he quickly became popular with the unique form of "female male singing", and received unanimous praise. Hu Wenge's popularity stimulated Ouyang, and he felt that this was an opportunity, perhaps he could also imitate Hu Wenge's behavior, and even do better than him.
In this way, under the influence of Hu Wenge, Ouyang began to enter the field of anti-string. Ouyang was already a very famous male Dan, and after hearing that he decided to change careers into the anti-string field, many of his fans expressed their support.
Because he has received strict training since he was a child and has sung on stage for many years, Ouyang has solid basic skills, and even if he enters the field of anti-string, he still performs very well. Although Ouyang was not as famous as Hu Wenge, he also received widespread attention.
< h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > wife and daughter are difficult to accept and choose to leave</h1>
After starting to engage in the field of anti-string, Ouyang felt that his performance should be closer to femininity, he hoped to show the most natural feminine posture and look, in order to experience female life, in daily life he also dressed as a woman. At that time, there were relatively few anti-string actors, and Ouyang could get a lot of remuneration every time he took the stage.
At the beginning, Ouyang engaged in anti-string wives did not feel anything unusual, but found that in the daily life of the husband also showed people in women's clothing, she was somewhat unacceptable, she first tried to dissuade her husband, but Ouyang ignored this, or immersed in the anti-string.
In daily life, even if he does not act on stage, he will paint himself with gorgeous makeup, wear high heels, immerse himself in the anti-string Ouyang and even sometimes feel that he is a woman.
Because of Ouyang's abnormal behavior every day, neighbors often cast a different look at him and even often talked about him. Everyone felt that Ouyang seemed to have become somewhat abnormal, and even Ouyang's daughter felt that there was something wrong with her father, and that such a father was very humiliating.
Ouyang's wife couldn't bear it and showed a showdown to Ouyang, expressing the hope that he would not show people in women's clothes in the future, but Ouyang still went his own way. Unable to stand the gossip of the neighbors and the abnormal husband, Ouyang's wife finally left Ouyang with her daughter after repeated dissuasion was ineffective.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > alone, still engaged in anti-string performances</h1>
Although his wife and daughter left him because he often wore women's clothes, Ouyang did not feel that there was anything wrong with wearing women's clothes. He felt that everyday women's clothing was part of his life. Now Ouyang is more than 60 years old, and he has been single since his wife and daughter left and has never remarried. Compared with his wife and daughter, Ouyang still feels that women's clothing is his real hobby and cannot be abandoned!
Without his wife to stop Ouyang put all his energy into his career, he loves the industry and has integrated anti-string into his daily life. Over the years, Ouyang has saved millions of assets by constantly performing on stage, and after his wife and daughter left, Ouyang was very lonely although he had huge assets.
He did live the way he really wanted to be, but he also paid the price of his family. Deeply investigating Ouyang's behavior, he did not make a mistake, but only regarded the anti-string as a thing of love, he neither violated morality nor hurt others, and should not be blamed for no reason by the world.
Ouyang can not be afraid of the world's vision, insist on engaging in the cause he loves, adhere to his favorite way of life, he is brave and worthy of respect. Nowadays, with the development of society, people's concepts are gradually opening up, and culture is becoming more and more inclusive, and we should learn to respect the way of life of others.
Ouyang just brought his career into his life and chose the life he really wanted, which is not wrong, no one should criticize or talk about others for no reason.
In fact, people are too harsh on Ouyang, and traditional secular concepts lead to most people's perspective on things being too single and rigid. Nowadays, many characters in film and television dramas are beyond gender, and we need a more rational and inclusive social atmosphere.
Disclaimer: If the content of the article involves the content of the work, copyright images or other issues, please contact the author of this number within 30 days, if the situation is true, we will delete the responsible article as soon as possible. The article is for reference only and does not constitute any investment or application advice.