Do you know what in this world we should cherish the most?
Some people say to cherish the past, because there are good memories in it, some people say to cherish the future, because the future is full of beauty, I say to cherish the present, as long as the present is the only thing you are sure can change. You may miss the carefree childhood, yearning for the comfortable life of the twilight years, but all you can change from beginning to end is the current struggle to move forward, childhood is no longer coming back, and the elderly still need you to fight, so you only need to live in the present, and the feelings are the same, in the feelings, do not live in the past, your far light should be placed in the present.
Never missed, do not know how to cherish!
Recently read such a story, a long time ago, there was a temple with a lot of incense, there was a spider infected with Buddha nature, one day the Buddha passed by from the sky, he saw this temple with a lot of incense, so the Buddha came to this temple, he saw the spider, the Buddha asked the spider: "Do you know what in this world we should cherish the most?" The spider replied, "What you don't get, and what you've already lost." The Buddha said, "Well, then I'll ask you this question in three thousand years." "After saying that the Buddha is gone, the spider still lives in this temple, praying every day for the people who come to make wishes, every day being moved by their stories, and the days pass unconsciously.
One day a gust of wind blew a drop of nectar, and this drop of nectar fell on the spider's web, and the spider loved this drop of nectar, and she looked at him like this every day and felt that she was very happy, and felt that time passed very quickly every day. But one day the gust of wind blew again, and blew the nectar away, and the spider lost the nectar, and she was very sad, and time passed day by day in the spider's sadness.
Three thousand years later, when the Buddha came to this temple again, he asked the spider again, "Do you know what is most important in this world that we should cherish?" The spider still replied, "What you don't get, and what you've already lost." The Buddha said, "Well, then go on a journey with me!" "The spider came to the human world with the Buddha, the Buddha helped the spider reincarnate, eighteen years passed, the spider reincarnated into a lady of the official family, named "Jewel" In the same year, Ganlu was also reincarnated as Jinke Zhuangyuan, and at a feast at the palace, they met again. Ganlu was elegant and elegant, he became the focus of everyone's attention, and naturally also got the favor of the emperor's daughter Princess Changfeng, Jewel was not in a hurry, because she knew that her fate with Ganlu was predestined by heaven, one day Zhu'er went to the temple to burn incense, she happened to meet the nectar who burned incense with her mother, she walked over, And Ganlu said politely: "Miss, what noble work do you have?" Jewel's face instantly turned pale when she heard this, and she couldn't help but feel sad. She couldn't understand why fate was so hard.
A few days later, Jewel received two messages, one was that the emperor had mated his daughter Princess Changfeng to Jinke Zhuangyuan Ganlu, and the second was that the emperor had promised her to his son Licorice. After hearing this news, Jewel finally couldn't hold on, she completely collapsed and never got sick, and when Jewel and Licorice's big wedding was about to arrive, it was very sad to learn that Jewel was seriously ill with Licorice. He came to Jewel's bedside and said, "Jewel, do you know?" Ever since I met you at the feast, I have fallen deeply in love with you, and how should I continue the rest of my life without you. ”
The soul of the deceased Pearl stared at the weeping licorice at the bedside, feeling like a knife was fiercely inserted in the heart, when the Buddha came again, and he asked Jewel, "Can you tell me now what should be cherished in the world?" Jewel said with tears in her eyes, "What you don't get, what you haven't already lost." The Buddha said, "Don't you understand?" Manna is just a passer-by in your life, he was brought by the long wind and taken away by the long wind, so he belongs to the princess of the long wind, and when you lived in this temple, the licorice under your net has been silently watching you, admiring you, but you have never looked down. Hearing this, Jewel looked at Licorice with tears in her eyes and said, "What is most cherished in this world is what you have around you at the moment." ”
In love, why aren't we Jewels? Immersed in the love of the person in the past, I can't help myself, I limit myself to this, I have never cared about other people around me, in fact, the person who silently watches you behind you is the most suitable for you, because she knows all your preferences, and she does not abandon you, even if she knows that she has no hope and has been silently watching you.
I have such a couple around me, girls and boys are a school from junior high school to high school to college for a full 10 years together, but it was not a couple at the time, during this period girls changed a lot of boyfriends, boys are silently accompanied, until a girl broke up very sad, boys really can't see a thrill to express this ten years of love, girls are very touched, and finally proposed to try together, in love for a year when they got married. In fact, many times your prince is not necessarily on the road, but on your side, the person who silently accompanies you to protect you.
Passers-by are passers-by,
Gain or lose the final result,
None of them belong to you.
Cherish what you have,
All look down at the lonely him next to you!