Text/Coriander
It is said that women are emotional animals, and women's restraint on emotions is often inferior to men's rationality. There is some truth to this. When Heaven created man, he gave men and women different physical characteristics, and these differences also created different ideological personalities of men and women.
The book says that women are taken from the weakest soft ribs of men, so they have a soft and sensitive personality of women. In addition, for a long time, men's care and accommodation for women are also easy to cause women's emotional characteristics.
Men like women's sensibility because of their own rationality, which is a complement to the physiology of men and women. In general, men are able to accept and understand women's emotions. If a man is deeply in love with a woman, he will accept and tolerate her joys and sorrows. It is precisely because of this that in love, women are often the party who is most likely to make small sex.
Men in love generally do not bother with their girlfriends, because love can encompass everything at this time. In the eyes of men, a woman's willfulness and petulance are all manifestations of a small woman, and under the protection of love, all this becomes unimportant. He will only see the woman's goodness, and only expand her strengths, and any of her shortcomings at this time, in his eyes, are insignificant.
So, why women always feel that men are the same before marriage and after marriage, this is the reason. Love is actually blind, and men and women in love, like fairy companions, do not eat human fireworks. At this time, the two people have not really lived together, or have lived together for a short time, and they cannot really understand each other, plus the sweetness of love makes it easy to ignore other bad places. A man's feeling about women is that the part he lacks is just for women to fill, so he is willing to accept all the performances of women.
Some people say that women in love are the biggest, that is because the power of love is great, causing men to become troubled and cautious in love, afraid that their girlfriends will be wronged and hurt. At this time, all the postures of women are the most prominent at this stage, and she can arbitrarily instruct her boyfriend to do everything she wants to do for her, because at this time, men will not refuse every opportunity to please women.
The man in love has become his girlfriend's follower, and has become her trash can, and her joys and sorrows will all be poured to him. But these are still not satisfied for women, because women are fickle. Women in love all hope that men are loyal and docile, scolding and not fighting back, but also able to follow her heart. But on the other hand, if men are too docile, women will feel powerless, feel that they have found a nest, no manhood, in front of friends, they have no face. Women's requirements for men are too much to be reasonable.
Therefore, women in love are the most domineering. They both want men to have their own style, but they also ask men to be obedient to themselves. If a man is slightly unsatisfactory to the woman's wishes, he may trigger a landmine and cause the woman to explode.
In fact, for women, being too emotional is not a good thing. People's lives are very long, but the time of love is very short, and those who say that they have been in love all their lives are deceitful. The passion that people can have is only a few years, and the rest is a bland and cumbersome life.
Men's tolerance of women also has a time limit. A man may also truly love once in his life, and only at that stage will he truly embrace everything about the woman he loves. At other times, men never calmly laugh at a woman's emotionalization. Therefore, there will be quarrels, disputes, and even wars between men and women. Even the woman a man loves the most, his tolerance for her can't be a lifetime.
In a long life, people will always encounter one kind or another unpleasant thing. If women blindly emotionalize and blindly transfer their emotions to men, men will actually be tired. And when he is tired and bored, does he still have a good mood to deal with the bad emotions of women? Don't think of men too much!
When you love, when you are passionate, everything is easy to say, but once the feelings are flat and life is cumbersome, the man's mentality can no longer be tolerant with pampering, but will become helpless anger.
Women can be appropriately emotional when they are in love, but in marriage, being too emotional will be their own sadness. Men can be a haven for women to rest, but they cannot always be women's trash cans. Therefore, women who make trouble at every turn, but be careful, don't let your emotions anger the man, let his heart in you go farther and farther.