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When a person reaches middle age, a man will have two lovers in his heart, one on the heart and one on the pillow.
Many times, love does not have so much truth to talk about, love or not to love a person, whether you want to live with this person for a long time, really is not a person, a unilateral decision.
The person you think will accompany you to the old man, maybe halfway away, the person you think will love you forever, but his mind is far away.
A middle-aged man will live more and more realistically, he will marry an IKEA wife, he will work hard to serve his in-laws, take care of his children, and take care of the family.
In the eyes of others, the life of a middle-aged man is incomparably happy.
Only he himself knew that he loved the woman who was with him every day, the man next to him; he also loved the man who was far away.
Middle-aged man, he gave his life to the woman next to the pillow; he gave the regret of love to the woman in his heart.
When a man loves a woman, he will not necessarily marry her; when a man is married, he will probably be willing to marry a woman at home.
Men who reach middle age, in love, will have their own calculations and calculations.
After weighing the pros and cons, a man will marry the woman who is next to the pillow, but his feelings may be hidden in his heart.
In people's lives, they will always encounter all kinds of people, and men who reach middle age will become more and more realistic in love.
Men in a relationship, when they are tired, they will also give up the persistence that is difficult to get and choose an easier path to go.
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A man who reaches middle age will have two lovers, one on the heart and one on the pillow.
Some women are particularly true in their feelings, or in marriage, they are particularly true.
Maybe when they enter marriage, two people really have love, but over time, love will really become affection.
Those daily trivialities will consume love, and the cumbersomeness of chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea will also make love calm in life.
When a woman always pursues whether a man loves or not, it is actually difficult to live her life well.
Because, compared to whether the man is here to love you, compared to your sense of security in this relationship, these are really too unimportant.
Those women who are prone to gain and loss in marriage are always entangled with men, whether they love their women wholeheartedly, and it is difficult to improve their careers.
Because she has put the focus of her life on the ultimate proposition of whether men love themselves or not.
Instead of stalking and pursuing this answer, it is better to make good money and work hard for your career.
There is such a passage on the Internet: when women start to work hard for their careers and start to make money, there may be a certain degree of difficulty, please remember not to be frustrated, stretch the axis of this time, you have a lifetime to do this thing, you have a lifetime of time to make money. Please use your own, favorite interests to make money, in this regard every day, in time, your life will be completely different.
Women please remember, do not look for security in the relationship, but also please remember, do not look for security in men, because this sense of security, only you can give.
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In everyone's heart, there is probably a person, a person who cannot be loved, the same as men, and the same is true of women.
Learn to feel that even if you are in regret, your life is full of endless beauty.
There are some regrets in life that are destined to be caused, because the comings and goings of fate are never something you can decide, and it is never something I can decide.
I walk through the wanderings of half a life and come to your side, which will only bring you the color of spring.
In anyone's life, the people who want to appear are not for no reason, grateful for their appearance, grateful for their departure, grateful for your luck.
Also ask men to remember that after marriage, spend more time with your wife and more time with your lover.
Maybe you think that the person who loves but can't love is the woman you love the most, and when you and this pillow person, after half a life, you will deeply understand: companionship is the longest confession of affection.
The love that can be grasped is love, and the woman who can be grasped is marriage.
Some people's encounters are destined to end only with a breakup, just like the end of you and your heart, that person.
When a person reaches middle age, a man will have two lovers, one on the heart and one on the pillow.
The person in the heart will let her be buried forever, although the feelings in this world are not the best, but your so-called obsession is only your self-torture, which is of no use to that person.
Instead of always worrying about the impossible person, it is better to pity the people around you, your pillow people, this is the person who holds hands with you for a lifetime, this is the person you want to use for a lifetime, cherish well.
Middle-aged men, don't live too realistically, but don't live too otherworldly, cherish your pillow person, hold her hand, and live a good life in a down-to-earth manner, which is the most important.
After all, you have failed another woman who is far away; don't fail this, the woman beside you.
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