Li Yundi was caught prostituting, which made people sigh.
On October 21, Beijing's Chaoyang police issued an alert saying they had seized a case of prostitution and had identified the offender: Li Moudi.
In the midst of the controversy, the official Microblog of the People's Daily confirmed that the topic of #Li Yundi's prostitution detention was directly sent to the hot search, ranking first.
Netizens were both shocked and regretful.
Many people question the soul:
"Rich and powerful, talented and beautiful, why should they die?"
"Isn't it okay to fall in love and find someone?" You have to go for prostitution. ”
"Isn't he CP, how could he be?"
"Impossible, such a mild-mannered pianist."
Overnight, Li Yundi, a 39-year-old famous pianist in his prime, was imprisoned and faced social death.
The popular "Brother Who Cuts Through Thorns" has coded all of Li Yundi's pictures, made deletions, and even removed many related programs from the shelves at night.
Sichuan College immediately removed the signboard of "Li Yundi Studio".
In Li Yundi's previous Weibo certification, there were many dazzling titles: "International Pianist, Standing Committee Member of the Chongqing Cppcc Committee, Standing Committee Member of the All-China Youth Federation, Vice Chairman of the Hong Kong Youth Federation", and only the "International Pianist" certification remained.
An internationally gifted pianist, instantly falling.
It can be described as "one thought of heaven, one thought of hell." ”
01.
As we all know, Li Yundi is a pianist of orthodox origin.
Li Yundi was born in Chongqing in 1982.
At the age of 4, he learned the accordion, practiced piano at the age of 7, and studied under Professor Dan Zhaoyi of the Sichuan Conservatory of Music at the age of 9, and has since embarked on the road of professional piano, winning numerous awards, and is known as "Chinese piano prodigy." ”
In 2000, Li Yundi, who was only 18 years old, was known as the dark horse of "turning out of the world" at the 14th Chopin International Piano Competition, won the gold medal, became famous in one fell swoop, and became the youngest winner in the history of Chopin' arena.
This is the highlight of Li Yundi's life.
Chairman Yasins, the judge of the year, said with great excitement: "From the first round, we felt that there was a first place in this competition! ”
Prior to this, the Chopin Gold Medal had been vacant for 15 consecutive years.
Hard work and talent have made this young top musician a well-known leader in the piano industry.
It was even written into the junior high school English textbook and became an inspirational idol for a generation of teenagers.
And why did this well-received young talent and top musician who has attended the Spring Festival Gala 5 times give up a bright future and choose a road of no return?
Geese leave traces, look back, can always find traces to follow.
02.
In the 80s of the last century, Jackie Chan's parents, gritting their teeth, borrowed 4,000 yuan and bought a piano for Li Yundi.
At that time, the price was that 1 cent could buy 10 candies.
Later, Li Yundi transferred to Shenzhen to study, and his mother Zhang Xiaolu simply resigned to accompany him. She said: "I regard practicing with my son as my own career, my own pursuit. ”
Day by day with careful sparring, even Zhang Xiaolu himself has become a professional who can lead classes.
But Zhang Xiaolu's requirements for Li Yundi are very strict.
As long as Li Yundi made a mistake when playing the piano, she used a sweater needle to beat the hand. Even if you keep practicing all the time, you can only get a "yes" evaluation, and you can hardly get praise.
This made Li Yundi feel no sense of accomplishment in his heart.
American psychologist William James said: "One of the deepest attempts of human nature is to expect to be praised, admired, and respected. ”
Every child expects recognition, especially the most important parent in their own life. Children who often get praise have more strength in their hearts, and no matter how hard they try, they can't get a sincere praise, and the child's heart is easy to be disappointed, thinking that he is incompetent, and thus it is easy to deny himself.
03.
Because practicing the piano, watching cartoons and playing with toys have become luxuries in Li Yundi's childhood, once, he only secretly watched the TV, and the TV was immediately removed. Presumably, li Yundi, who was a child, was broken in his heart.
Most of the time spent practicing the piano gave Li Yundi a lot less freedom to experience life. At the age when the love sinus first opened, there was no time to fall in love. In his 20s, he met a beloved girlfriend, but in the end, he was thought by Li's father that the girl was too materialistic and was asked to end the relationship.
Where there is repression, there is release.
Professor Li Meijin said: "Every day at 7 o'clock to the school at 11 o'clock in the evening rest, not a day is 12 years, not crazy to blame." ”
There is no entertainment, no playmates, and you can't decide your own affairs, which makes Li Yundi lack emotional nourishment.
Career success cannot fill the emotional scarcity.
At the age of independence, not giving children the cost of experience and trial and error, forced to obey the parents in everything, then, when it is time to take responsibility, because the previous needs are rejected, can not be satisfied, resulting in a large number of unpleasant experiences, thus consuming self-growth, losing self, losing direction, and embarking on the wrong path.
As a parent, take this as a warning.
04.
There is a high praise Q&A on Zhihu:
"How do you reduce or completely get rid of the negative impact of your original family on yourself?"
A: "The human heart has a powerful self-healing function. Don't just say things like, "I don't think I'll ever be better in this life," but believe that human beings can become higher animals not by breeding like bugs, but by wisdom. ”
There are no perfect parents in the world, and our parents are just ordinary people.
His parents loved Li Yundi, creating a rich growth environment for him and accompanying him with his heart. However, on the road to growth, Li Yundi did not keep his original intention, and eventually he was discredited.
05.
What ultimately destroyed Li Yundi was that he wanted to take shortcuts and make quick money.
At the Spring Festival Gala in 2012, Li Yundi and Wang Lihong mixed and played "Golden Snake Dance" and "Descendants of the Dragon", and that wonderful performance became the hot spot of the Spring Festival Gala that year.
Two talented young people, the eyes are full of appreciation for each other.
After that, the two went on the show together, often interacted on Weibo, and were also filmed shopping together to watch movies.
Later, many people, including the official media, began to bump Li Yundi and Wang Lihong's CP.
Until the Spring Festival Gala in 2013, the famous "Looking for Lihong" incident.
At that time, Li Yundi and Liu Qian performed magic together, Li Yundi coldly whispered to Liu Qian, Liu Qian suddenly asked: "Who?" Looking for Lihong? ”
It also confirmed the CP relationship between the two people, and many people issued meaningful smiles.
Wang Lihong came out several times to clarify this non-existent relationship, and Li Yundi always followed behind and rubbed the heat.
Wang Lihong declared on Weibo: "I am heterosexual, I like girls! ”
Li Yundi said: "We are good brothers, we all like girls." ”
Wang Lihong threw out Colombia's girlfriend.
Li Yundi immediately announced his love affair:
Each time it can explode on the hot search for several days.
Xu is tied to the hype of the pop king, bringing unexpected traffic to himself, enjoying the attention of the world, and seeing Li Yundi of Vanity Fair, no longer practices hard, but mixes in the entertainment industry's drunken gold fans, and gradually loses himself.
The best way to ruin a person is to take shortcuts and make quick money.
And those who take shortcuts end up taking a detour and are abandoned by fate.
06.
Because of this, Li Yundi's professional style evaluation has declined all the way after winning the Chopin Gold Award at the age of 18.
People in the industry often pointed out that his attitude was perfunctory, his practice was not enough, and his level dropped.
In 2015, while performing in South Korea, he made an obvious mistake that forced the show to be interrupted.
Mistakes do not reflect on themselves, and push the problems to others, is really not a responsible approach.
Even his esteemed teacher, Professor Zhaoyi, reminded him with heartache that he should "know self-respect and self-love, and understand that there is no one in the world that can be done once and for all." You have to be a person first, and then you have to be an artist. ”
Unfortunately, over the years, Li Yundi has gone too far and it is difficult to know how to return.
He wants to make money easily by showing his face, become a big star with fame and fortune, and does not want to continue to study and practice hard and become a pianist with both virtue and art.
This can't help but remind people of "Hurt Zhongyong".
Li Yundi has the talent of picking one of the thousands, but he has squandered his amazing talent unconsciously, step by step, which is sighing.
07.
Once, on the Internet, there was a question about "Lang Lang and Li Yundi who is more powerful?" "The question has been debated endlessly.
And this prostitution incident directly beat Li Yundi into the dungeon.
Although Lang Lang has also been active in the entertainment industry, the professional level of people is still very resistant.
Because Lang Lang always respects his profession, corrects his position, and knows what he relies on to eat.
In this incident, Lang Lang unexpectedly became the biggest winner.
The poet Han Yu said: "Karma is good at diligence, absurd in play; success in thinking, destruction in follow-up." ”
Day arch, continuous evolution, indispensable.
Your own value is more important than how much money you make.
The pattern is big and the world is wide.
With ability, coupled with character and pattern, wealth will naturally come to you.
Fill your heart, no matter where you are, you can break out of a new world.
And it is, a new world of flowing for hundreds of years.
08.
In The Road Few, Pike wrote: "Delaying satisfaction means not coveting temporary comfort and resetting the order of happiness and pain in life." ”
Delayed gratification is more hard-won and often more valuable than immediate satisfaction.
Life is a process of self-cultivation and self-competition, whether you can overcome inertia and inner uneasiness, whether you can be firm in your heart, and resist the sugar-coated shells after success, you need to move forward and constantly cultivate.
We need a quiet and far-reaching heart that challenges our inner defenses all the time.
The Analects say, think twice before doing anything.
Don't just think about how much benefit this thing can bring to yourself, but also consider what kind of consequences you can bear.
Remember, Houde Carrier.