First, don't just blame yourself for envying others
We will always envy others, envy others with an annual salary of millions, do not worry about eating and wearing; envy others' happy families, envy others are white, rich, rich and handsome, etc. We always compare ourselves with others, and in the end we appear to be small and useless.
A big weakness of human nature is comparison, many people will have this kind of comparison with others, always feel that compared with others, winning will be very satisfied, than not winning will be uncomfortable inferiority, and then will be slowly defeated by this anxiety and jealousy.
We always envy others because we don't love ourselves from the bottom of our hearts, even we hate ourselves, how can others love themselves? Happiness is defined by oneself, and it is not necessary to live better than others to be happy.
Second, adults should learn to save money
The older you get, the more you feel that money is important, and the feeling of helplessness when you encounter difficulties and need money, but you can't get it, it seems to be particularly pitiful. Before, I also felt young, it didn't matter how to spend money, it was good to be happy, but now, I am very envious of those who try to save money.
No matter how much you save, you also rely on accumulation little by little. Some people have a monthly salary of 100,000 yuan and a deposit of several million; some people have a monthly salary of 10,000 or 20,000 yuan, and a deposit of more than 100,000 yuan; some people have a monthly salary of 40,000 or 50,000, and there are 40,000 or 50,000 deposits; although there is a big gap, there will be some deposits, you will never have any deposits, and when you need them, you will not be able to take out a single point.
Third, read more books and see the outside world
Reading can improve yourself, through reading, you will learn to think, will gradually think about many things, make yourself more open-minded. You will find that many people with high emotional intelligence are people who love to read, reading can not only increase the knowledge, but also make people feel calm, will cure a lot of troubles.