Just spent his 48th birthday, the day before, he was still celebrating with relatives and friends, but the next day, the former national football star Zhang Enhua unfortunately died of a myocardial infarction, and many friends in football expressed their condolences and sorrow on the Internet.
Zhang Enhua was a member of the 2002 national football team rushing into the World Cup in South Korea and Japan, and as the main defender of the "Seven Champions" Dalian Shide team that year, "Kuroko" Zhang Enhua was one of the main heroes. He also briefly played for Greensby in League One.
Zhang Enhua's family also revealed some details before and after his death: just the day before, Zhang Enhua spent his 48th birthday, and he also posted a group photo and birthday cake with relatives and friends on the day of the birthday party.
Zhang Enhua also wrote on his personal social media: "Thank you to the same brother! Thanks to the brothers! Thanks good brother! Shenzhen set sail! Zhang Enhua's relatives described that Zhang Enhua died of a sudden heart attack after drinking alcohol.
Former national football captain Fan Zhiyi wrote in mourning: "Former teammates, all the way! ”
However, the nostalgic words of another footballer, Gao Leilei, have led to some controversy: "Wine and meat friends harm people!" Hateful! What a pity! Rest in peace for the dead! ”
Former Guoan player Gao Leilei's words of remembrance directly targeted the relatives and friends who celebrated Zhang Enhua's birthday, triggering different opinions from some netizens.
One of the parties thinks: Gao Leilei said it well! Between friends, the way of communication in the form of pushing cups for cups is a bad habit, especially the Chinese people at the wine table, that kind of "the bottle does not pour I do not pour" style, in fact, is a bad habit of harming people!
Zhang Enhua died young, wine is one of the major temptations, then the relatives and friends who drank at the same table have certain responsibilities, and it can even be said that they should bear certain legal responsibilities for Zhang Enhua's death!
The other side believes that "wine table culture", has a long history, relatives and friends get together, wine is a cheerful, lively medium, otherwise, the dinner will not have the intimate atmosphere with Chinese characteristics, it seems that there is some emotional difference.
And relatives and friends celebrate Zhang Enhua's birthday, which is all good intentions, and now Zhang Enhua's death, let Gao Leilei be said to be "a friend of wine and meat, hateful and hateful", which will also make his relatives and friends bear a lifetime of public opinion condemnation and conscience debt, which seems to be a bit too much for his relatives and friends.
There may be some truth to both of these views - but we have to say that there is nothing more valuable than life, and it is not too much to say that relatives and friends have certain responsibilities, even legal responsibilities, in the case of Zhang Enhua or because of drinking, especially excessive drinking, and if relatives and friends have excessive persuasion to drink. There are also many cases of similar situations, and many relatives and friends who drink at the same table eventually bear certain legal responsibilities.
Of course, for the traditional Chinese society with strong human feelings, this kind of wine table culture is also a fact - "existence is reasonable", indicating that "wine table culture" does have certain historical habits and practical needs in our place, but for this kind of folk culture that has existed for many years, we do not want to stick to it unchanged, but we should constantly change it!
The so-called philosophy of "drinking wine to see people" shown by the Chinese people at the wine table should be completely eliminated! Can drink, dare to drink, drink boldly, or can represent a certain temperament of people, but the praiseworthy character must be expressed through drinking, why don't we use meaningful practical actions to show it?
There is also the worst phenomenon in the "wine table culture" is that a table of people always wants to pour down a specific person or two people, and then take it as a quick one, and some people think: I toast you must drink, otherwise I will look down on people, etc., which is a kind of ugly display of bad human nature driven by wine.
Therefore, the "wine table culture" may be completely removed from our soil, which is not very realistic, but as contemporary civilized people, we should continue to innovate and improve this traditional cultural habit, for example, when drinking, why not "point to the end" and "let go of their own" as the principle? Why drink until life and death are unknown, and for whom, it is the result of a lifetime of regrets? 【Original Review: Yu said that hugh】