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Everyone's name has some beautiful meanings.
For example, the name QiLi means beauty, Li's cursive character head represents the four sides, the bottom of the word Represents Smooth, and this word is used in the name to mean that everything is smooth.
In fact, although Wu Qili, who has this name, is beautiful enough, it has not been smooth along the way.
In 1990, 17-year-old Wu Qili stood out among the beauties and won the asian sister championship.
As a result, she became a rookie in the show business circle, and in just a few years, Wu Qili and Lui Songxian collaborated on the TV series "Heroes of Central", and co-produced the film "The Legend of Flying Girl" with Norma Lam and Zhang Min.
Luo Jialiang, Li Keqin and other senior male stars have also cooperated with Wu Qili, and if she has been at ease filming, she will definitely have more dazzling achievements.
But around 20 years old is the age of love, and Wu Qili is naturally no exception.
In those years, Wu Qili and Lu Songxian, as well as Mei Yanfang's two boyfriends, Zhao Wenzhuo and Lin Guobin, had passed on gossip and had also had several boyfriends.
In 1991, Wu Qili was torn between two men.
One is Kevin, the hairstylist she knew when she was doing hair before she became famous, who gave Wu Qili unprecedented love, so that Wu Qili would not be willing to be separated from him even if she walked the red carpet.
The other is Ye Yuqing's nephew, who is a super rich second generation. After returning from studying abroad, the rich second generation fell in love with Wu Qili at first sight and loved her warmly.
Both were very good, wu Qili did not know how to choose for a while, but took them all home to show her mother.
Wu Qili's mother experienced a marriage that made her despair, so when she saw her daughter taking someone home, she was furious and directly scolded her: No one wants you to make chickens!
In this way, Wu Qili failed to marry herself, but finally chose to be with the second generation of the rich.
At the age of 18, Wu Qili knew Jackie Chan, in the face of such a beautiful woman, this kung fu superstar could not help but look at it a few times, but Wu Qili was indifferent to Jackie Chan, and even hated him as an upstart.
Jackie Chan couldn't stand such treatment, and in a fit of anger, drove a sports car to like other women.
You know, the boyfriends she has made are either well-known advertising directors who have stayed in school or executives of film companies, compared to Jackie Chan, who has not been to school and is famous for his life, is not attractive to Wu Qili.
But fate is sometimes really wonderful, that is, the man that Wu Qili did not look up to at the beginning gave her an unprecedented beautiful relationship a few years later, and also completely disrupted the trajectory of her life.
In the following years, Wu Qili turned to the big screen, during which because of her bad personality, she left early sooner or later when filming, and playing big names was also a common thing, so she caused a lot of turmoil.
Less than two years after his debut, he was reduced from the protagonist to a supporting role, and the resources were not as good as a year, and then he was directly beaten into the cold palace by the owner ATV.
After that, she followed her mother into business.
It was also at this time that she met Mei Yanfang's ex-boyfriend Lin Guobin, and the two saw each other as they were, very chatty, and it didn't take long for a scandal to spread.
However, at that time, the media did not know that Mei Yanfang and Lin Guobin had broken up, and Wu Qili was directly accused by the media of being the culprit that led to Mei Yanfang's breakup.
Later, it was Lin Guobin who stood up and explained, and the incident was calmed down.
In 1996, Wu Qili made a comeback and met Zhao Wenzhuo while filming "Huang Feihong's Ideal Era".
Inside the play, Huang Feihong and the thirteen aunts love and hate entanglement, outside the play, Zhao Wenzhuo and Wu Qili spread a scandal.
At a party, Wu Qili took the initiative to toast Zhao Wenzhuo, saying that she was a super fan of his movie and that she had a crush on him in middle school.
Later, the two walked closely, often ate together, and behaved intimately.
At that time, Zhao Wenzhuo's legitimate girlfriend was still Mei Yanfang, and she had even reached the point of talking about marriage.
Both scandals are related to Mei Yanfang, I don't know if it is a coincidence or if she deliberately did it.
Shortly thereafter, Mei Yanfang and Zhao Wenzhuo announced their breakup.
For a time, public opinion was in an uproar, and Wu Qili became the object of blame.
However, in the end, Wu Qili did not come together with Zhao Wenzhuo.
From the champion of the Asian sister to being shouted and beaten by everyone, Wu Qili, who has suffered severe beatings from life over the years, knows the hardships of life.
At that time, Jackie Chan was in the limelight.
In 1998, at a dance, Wu Qili and Jackie Chan met again.
After 8 years, it is still very touching to see this Asian sister champion Jackie Chan again.
Wu Qili, who was smoothed out by life, also began to lose her pride and took the initiative to say hello to Jackie Chan.
It turns out that this kung fu superstar not only spares no effort in filming, but also pursues the person he likes.
For example, when Wu Qili filmed late, Jackie Chan would personally pack her favorite supper and sit in the car waiting for her to finish her work.
In the morning, he would also deliver a fresh breakfast to Wu Qili.
For example, when it is Jackie Chan's turn to finish filming, he will call Wu Qili and tell her to wait for you to come to dinner, and then the whole crew will wait there with wide eyes and small eyes until Wu Qili comes.
At this time, Jackie Chan, who was respected by colleagues in the industry as a big brother, transformed into a waiter and clipped the same dish to Wu Qili.
For example, a group of friends went to Wu Qili's house to eat, and everyone else was bent on enjoying food, only Jackie Chan carefully observed the furnishings in the room.
The next day Wu Qili will receive a call from Jackie Chan, in which he is like a report to work, counting what is broken in Wu Qili's house, which things are old, and finally tell her, I let the assistant help you change to a new one.
Jackie Chan is famous for being frugal, but he never feels sorry for Wu Qili to spend money, even when Wu Qili goes to Japan to shoot a movie, he also has to entrust someone to send flowers.
Such a courteous gesture occurred every day before Wu Qili announced her pregnancy, and his thoughtfulness and care were better than any of Wu Qili's boyfriends.
He has obviously married the big beauty Lin Fengjiao, and also gave birth to a son, but it is like a fake marriage, and Jackie Chan always stays with Wu Qili on the day of not filming, and the same is true for various festivals.
I don't know if it is a coincidence or how, after being with Jackie Chan, Wu Qili was not only signed by TVB, but also the resources are getting better and better.
This gave her the illusion that all good luck was given to her by Jackie Chan.
Not long after, Jackie Chan's sugar-coated cannonballs confused Wu Qili's heart.
Soon after, Wu Qili directly proposed to break up with the rich second-generation boyfriend and was willing to become a woman who was the eldest brother.
Due to emotional intelligence and a crisis in his family business, FuErdai eventually died in a car accident after a drunk driving.
If Jackie Chan made the mistake that men all over the world will make when facing beauty, then Wu Qili made a mistake that many women will make when facing warm men.
Cohabitation is inevitable when there is a strong affection.
In 1999, the news of 26-year-old Wu Qili's unmarried pregnancy did not go away.
For a time, there was an uproar in the world.
At that time, Wu Qili did not think that pregnancy was a happy event for others, but for her it was a foreshadowing of breaking with her lover.
The professionalism of Hong Kong entertainment journalists is well known, and since Wu Qili exposed the news of her pregnancy, her doorstep has not stopped.
At this time, Wu Qili found that Jackie Chan had quietly changed his phone number, and what this move of the married lover represented was self-evident.
Jackie Chan's betrayal naturally disappointed Wu Qili, and after the disappointment, her choice was not to entangle, but to expose.
In October 1999, Wu Qili admitted to the media that the father of the fetus in her womb was Jackie Chan.
The woman, who was overwhelmed by disappointment and anger, said that at that time, she only felt that the paper package could not hold the fire, and instead of being questioned every day, it was better to directly disclose who the child's biological father was.
In fact, before Wu Qili did this, she must have expected that Jackie Chan would be in a big mess because of this, but she still said it.
I have to say that in this way, she has the meaning of killing eight hundred enemies and losing a thousand.
But this operation made Jackie Chan almost lose his reputation.
She thought that the backyard of the family would definitely be a terrible fire, and then she could get "profit" from the fire. Lin Fengjiao can marry her son, why can't she be a mother and a son?
But she underestimated Lin Fengjiao's endurance, in the face of this matter, Lin Fengjiao did not cry or make trouble, but comforted Jackie Chan: "Don't hurt people, don't hurt us, you solve your things first, I know you are very annoying, but you must solve."
Therefore, in the face of the public, Jackie Chan only used a sentence "made a mistake that all men in the world will make" to block the mouth of the yo-yo crowd.
He admitted to "extramarital affairs" but refused to acknowledge the children.
So the man who made the mistake was not greatly affected, and his world was still a peaceful scene.
Wu Qili's side is not so good, in November 1999, she gave birth to the next baby girl, named Wu Zhuolin.
Wu Qili thought that although her love dreams were shattered, she at least had more blood and affection.
At that time, she must not have imagined that many years later she would be sent to the police station by her daughter twice.
After giving birth, Wu Qili traveled between Hong Kong and Shanghai, hoping to give her daughter a peaceful environment to grow up in, but they never escaped the pursuit of entertainment reporters.
True and false reports have repeatedly placed Wu Qili in the position of forcing Lin Fengjiao to fail and plotting Jackie Chan's property. Even the name of the daughter has been interpreted by many people as Zhuo Yu Lin Fengjiao.
But Wu Qili once admitted in an interview that if the same thing happened, she would never tangle with a man with a family.
A few years ago, it was rumored that Wu Qili secretly accepted Jackie Chan 40 million through an intermediary, and she deliberately held a press conference to declare that she had never taken a penny from Jackie Chan.
It is not difficult to see from her attitude that in fact, Wu Qili has long lost interest in competing with Lin Fengjiao, Jackie Chan, a person she has no nostalgia for, and she has not coveted money.
As for the origin of the name Wu Zhuolin, Wu Qilifang also clarified that she gave her daughter a homonym name because she liked a certain outstanding woman.
Naming her daughter in the name of an outstanding woman is enough to see that Wu Qili is full of love and expectation for this child in her heart.
In fact, she is really good to Wu Zhuolin, even if it is not easy to make money, she insists on sending her daughter to a school with amazing tuition.
Wu Zhuolin will carry her to the bathroom until she is 9 years old, and when she is a teenager, she will sleep over, and Wu Qili will help her put on her clothes in her sleep.
But even if there is blood kinship, even if Wu Qili has a heart to cultivate her daughter into a talent, in the end it is still against people's wishes.
In 2015, 15-year-old Wu Zhuolin called the police to report that her mother had committed violence and hiding, leaving Wu Qili in custody.
Afterwards, Wu Zhuolin said that she did this because Wu Qili was an alcoholic at home, and she just did not want her mother to indulge in such a life.
During this period, although she and Wu Qili had reconciled as before, she was also suspected of committing suicide twice.
Wu Qili also publicly admitted that she had committed corporal punishment to her daughter, but she explained that she had been beaten to adulthood and did not think there was anything wrong with it before.
In 2017, 17-year-old Wu Zhuolin concocted the entanglement between mother and daughter to the police station again, this time the mother and daughter had different opinions on the cause of the alarm.
But to sum up, the daughter thinks that the mother's attitude is too bad, and the mother says that the daughter is stubborn and does not listen to advice.
In the same year, Wu Zhuolin exposed his sexual orientation. The following year, she brought her foreign girlfriend into the public eye.
The girl is more than 10 years older than Wu Zhuolin and is said to have been doing preschool education for many years. At the end of 2018, the two had officially married in Canada.
Since walking with this woman, the relationship between Wu Zhuolin and Wu Qili has changed from loving and killing each other to gradually drifting apart.
Looking back at the half of Wu Qili's lost life, we can find that she had fought for love and would also pay for her family affection, but these two things eventually slipped away from her hands.
What exactly influenced her life?
Wu Qili once said to her agent that if it were not for my mother, my life might not be like this.
The reason why Wu Qili will fall in love is also very understandable, because her childhood lacked appreciation and love.
Wu Qili's mother is named Zheng Liming, and she and Wu Qili's father are arranged marriages, and Wu Qili is the crystallization of this loveless marriage.
Just when Wu Qili was about 1 year old, the couple who were forcibly twisted together chose to divorce, and their daughter Wu Qili followed her mother Zheng Liming.
After Wu Qili understood things, she once said to her, if you were a boy, I wouldn't want you at all.
Yes, although Zheng Liming has been given custody of her children, she is obviously not a loving mother in the traditional sense.
Freed from the shackles of marriage, she immediately turned around and went to Hong Kong to work hard, while the young Wu Qili was raised in her grandfather's house and did not live with her mother until she was about to enter school.
Perhaps it was the failed marriage that made the always strong Zheng Liming unhappy, although she gave Wu Qili a good material life, but also often scolded her.
She even asked Wu Qili to break off relations with her father, and warned her that men are not good things.
Even some of my mother's friends would echo that it was so miserable to face a child who looked exactly like her ex-husband every day.
When Wu Zhuolin was two years old, Wu Qili took her back to Shanghai, although Zheng Liming accepted their mother and daughter. But the country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to move.
After living together, Zheng Liming would throw the banknotes on the ground every time she gave Wu Qili's family and watch her daughter crouch down and pick them up one by one.
Later, in order to force Wu Qili to find Jackie Chan, Zheng Liming even took a knife and slashed in the room, frightening Wu Qili to lock the door and add a chair to the door at night.
All this was seen by the young Wu Zhuolin, and once Wu Qili was insulted by her mother to throw the rice bowl directly.
The piles of conflicts were superimposed, and Wu Qili thought that such an environment was not good for her daughter's growth, and she hurriedly moved back to Hong Kong, but it seemed that she woke up a little late.
In the 10 years of living with Zheng Liming, the full negative energy has had a deep impact on them.
Although Wu Qili's encounter is inseparable from her mother's intervention, in fact, she has embarked on a bumpy road in life or blame herself.
At the age of 18, Wu Qili was already fully capable of earning money to support herself, and people in their 20s also had the right to choose a partner.
Knowing that the mother full of energy is not a good navigator, why should she destroy the two marriages.
Just imagine, if it were not for Zheng Liming's prevention, Wu Qili would most likely have been married before she interacted with Jackie Chan.
It can be said that Zheng Liming's stick beat the Mandarin duck, giving Jackie Chan the opportunity to appear in Wu Qili's life, but who gave Zheng Liming this right? Of course it was Wu Qili.
She not only allowed her mother to run amok in her own life, but also put Wu Zhuolin in such a painful environment to grow up.
Secondly, when she was in contact with Jackie Chan, Wu Qili never planned for her future, she was only moved by the kindness of the other party, and then blindly began this relationship.
To be clear, if you are looking for a lifelong partner, this married man who treats his wife as nothing, and who attracts bees and butterflies all day is obviously not the right person.
Think of the Republic of China talented woman Lin Huiyin, her suitor Xu Zhimo on fame, talent is not under Jackie Chan, but in the face of the married man's pursuit, Lin Huiyin still rationally refused.
Because she knows that falling in love with a married man is equivalent to drinking and quenching thirst.
Or Maybe Wu Qili just wants to enjoy the moment, but if this is the case, she has no reason not to protect herself and get pregnant before marriage.
In her religious belief, abortion is tantamount to murder, and pregnancy should be more cautious before it is certain whether the other party is the future half.
In an interview a few years ago, Wu Qili admitted that she was indeed too willful and impulsive when it came to the matter of giving birth.
Wu Qili once laughed that she would use her mother as a negative teaching material for parenting, but unfortunately, she herself did not get love when she grew up, so how to love others?
When Wu Zhuolin did not go along with her thoughts, she did not know how to communicate with her daughter in a more appropriate way, but unconsciously became a copy of Zheng Liming.
It is worth mentioning that although Wu Qili and her daughter are gradually drifting apart, wu Zhuolin, who talks about her mother, is very considerate.
She once said in an interview that I knew how my grandmother treated my mother, so I never blamed my mother.
I don't know if Wu Qili will be a little relieved after hearing her daughter's words!
In fact, the road of life is still long, although Wu Qili's previous experience is bumpy, but now at the age of 48, she is no longer the wayward girl she was.
Although she is also worried about her daughter who has left, Wu Qili is also trying to manage her own life.
She devotes her energy to painting and caring for small animals, and still maintains a good state, and occasionally she shares some of her own life insights.
It can be seen that Wu Qili is not decadent, she is also actively living a sunny life.
Although she has gone through some detours, she lives a lifetime, and everyone is constantly correcting themselves in mistakes.
If others can get any inspiration from her detours, it is probably to stay away from people who emit negative energy, do not blindly fall in love, and have careful consideration before becoming a mother.
For Wu Qili, time has baptized everything that has passed, and the beautiful scenery is on the road.
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【Wen | Hara Kamicho】
【Editor| Zhiyu】