Find a very strange phenomenon, why do we have a lot of young people in modern times who want to spend their lives in peace? Why did you fall in love with Ease so early? Fear of competition! Or even escapism? Is the house price too high? Or is it a little hard to get married? Or is it poor family conditions, a thin foundation, and self-abandonment?
Or have you experienced a failed love affair and are afraid of being disturbed? Take the example of my friend who has a good time around me, I think many people will become like this after experiencing a failed love, because he is also like this, after the failure of love, it is almost self-enclosed, accustomed to loneliness and ease.
During that time, he was intoxicated with writing poetry almost every day. He got up at 5:30 in the morning, not to go to work, but to go to a nearby park to find inspiration to write poetry, which made people have to admire his perseverance, whether it rained or snowed, he could get up very early, not to go to work, but to write poetry.
Many times, the road from the dormitory to the company can write a poem. It's only ten minutes. And those words, I have read, I think the quality is OK, after all, brought into his personal feelings. But what's the use? No matter how much he wrote, it did not change his own life, did not bring him a penny of income.
Others are also becoming more and more out of step with reality, and in the company, they hardly communicate with anyone, except for work. He gives people a look every day, that is, people who jump out of the three realms and are not in the five elements, that is to say, they are not like people in this world, they can't feel the pressure of work or the pressure of life, and they can also entertain themselves and feel good every day.
He also once told me that he might not be able to write poetry for the rest of his life and would continue to live this life. Such a life was quiet and undisturbed, and he felt fine, completely immersed in his own poetic world. The only thing he is active is to be a moderator in some poetry section forums on the Internet.
Comment on poetry posts every day, but they are all volunteer labor, send a certificate or something, there is no penny of income, at that time he was still with me, let me see his award, see his appearance but also happy to think, right, he still loves to drink every day, drinking, the whole person lives like Li Baitai, but unfortunately born in the wrong era.
Even for a while, I was quite envious of him, because I was worried every day, to pay off the mortgage, to pay the car loan. I inadvertently said to him, I said that when you reach my age, you may not write poetry again. People who have stepped into my age are people with families, and there are all kinds of pressures and burdens in life.
What happened to him? He lamented to me that if he had understood some truths in the early years, perhaps when he got married, he would not be so humble, he would not be able to take out the bride price money, and he would be rejected by the woman's parents, so that he would understand that he had wasted his youth.
Speaking of which, if you are still young, but you want to spend your life in peace, after reading Lei Feng's quotations, you don't want to! The text is as follows:
I would like to be a pine of high mountains and rocks, not a willow by the river. I would like to exercise myself in the hard struggle in the storm, and I do not want to spend my life in peace and quiet. ——Lei Feng #Lei Feng quotes #
You see how well Lei Feng said this quote, willing to struggle hard in the storm, exercise yourself, and do not want to live that kind of calm, comfortable day, Lei Feng wants to be the pine of the rock, that is super perseverance, can survive in the cracks of the rock, but think how tenacious it is to live.
Who is Lei Feng? He is such a kind-hearted person, a helpful person, he does not like calm and ease, likes to exercise himself in the storm, so that he can see the truth of the world more organically, and can help more people. We must learn from Lei Feng.
We should also remember that there is a poem called "Bamboo Stone", "Insist that the green mountain does not relax, and the root is in the broken rock." Thousands of grinding blows are still strong, and Ren'er's east, west, south and north winds are strong. "When we are young, we must be such a bamboo stone, bravely face reality, seek survival in the real society, seek progress, seek a foothold, rather than comfortable, but also bite the society and do not relax, vowing to stand on the society and break out of their own piece of the sky."
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > you see my friend worked for five or six years, but chose to be comfortable for a relationship failure</h1>
Although talented, he did not save any money for five or six years. Where does the money go? Like Li Bai, buying wine and drinking, you may not believe it, he not only likes to buy wine to drink, but also likes to invite drinkers and poets to dinner, and I have the honor of occasionally being pulled by him, because after all, I am also a poet who loves to write poetry, and I can also cater to a few songs.
But unlike him, I knew that I wouldn't make money writing poetry and would starve to death, and I had advised him, and he wouldn't listen. Later, when I was my age, I naturally woke up. Now he almost abandons his pen and does not write poetry, which is too extreme, but unfortunately his talent, I let him be like me, be a hobby, which day sneaks in, when there is inspiration to make a song, I said he did not listen.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > but now he understands a truth</h1>
That is, when you are young, do not seek comfort for yourself, especially the young man with poor family conditions, when he is young, he really has to work hard to earn some money, save some money, not to go home and get married, and he can't get out of the bride price money and lose people again, shame, shame, shame.
Now he is also the manager of a certain company, writing copywriting, this job is also introduced by me, he completely honed his writing into copywriting, so that the company's boss likes it. We don't have much contact because he knows he's busy, and I'm usually busy myself.
At the end of the year, he seems to be getting married, and when the time comes, he will be able to drink happy wine, and I believe that he will be able to get the bride price money this time, because he is better than me now, no way, people are talented and pay more than me.
So if you are still young, but you want to spend your life in peace, after reading Lei Feng's quotations, you don't want to!