What are "scumbags" and "scumbags"? What's the difference?

When there is a problem with feelings, many people will feel that the party with the problem is very "scum", which has emerged a lot of "scum men", I actually do not understand, in life there are also a lot of "scum women", why is it that the mention of "scum" is always more men?

alas! I will slowly tell you that although they are all "scum", "scum" is also different, the difference is that one is to give anything is not to give home, and one is to have nothing to face, can you understand?

1. Physiologically speaking, the man's small tadpole is updated in a few days, which will make him constantly want to sow seeds, especially in adolescence and youth, this period of thinking is not mature and stable, and it is easy to succumb to instinct, once this side can not be satisfied, then there is a new temptation when it is easy to have accidents.

And women? Only once a month to lay eggs, once pregnant is pregnant in October, and pregnancy is very much in need of care, whether it is psychological or physical, which makes them need men, but can not give men physiological satisfaction, according to incomplete statistics: women's pregnancy is a high incidence of men cheating!

2. Psychologically speaking, boys mature later than girls, so that the boy's physiology has matured, the mind is still a child, do not love to take care of the consequences, but there is an accident and too much care for face, this is also the place where men contradict each other, if life is encountered with the partner cheating, the man at most beat people up or more extreme killing, this can report the matter,

And women? Most of them would cry everywhere about their grievances, thus making him infamous in exchange for the purpose of revenge on him, and in exchange for a wave of sympathy.

In addition, women are mostly subjectively placed on the weak side, it is easy to be sympathized with, if there is some appearance will attract the sympathy of many male compatriots, which also makes it easier for men to be known and spread faster once there is a problem.

3. Speaking of the difference in the heart, we can't all blame the late maturity, in the process of our growth, there is another factor affecting men and women, that is, education, I am talking about "family education", that is, from where the fathers left, although now the society has achieved equality between men and women. But there are still some concepts that cannot be extinct, although they do not say, but still instinctively let women manage the affairs of the family, and men go outside to earn money to support the family, that is, "the male outside, the female inside." ”

After having this concept, no matter how you treat it equally, you will unconsciously cultivate it, boys will not let them do housework, learn more to earn money, girls learn to do more housework, educate children, and will also teach them the ideas of male and female masters.

The consequences: men don't do housework and women don't want to earn money. This is not the place of "scum", only add this is the "scum" of the place, men will not earn money, women will only spend money, this is the "scum" conditions for the emergence of.

But it is not the condition for the appearance of "scumbags", which "scumbags" need what conditions to appear?

That's why I understand why men in general are more likely to "scum".

In fact, "scumbags" are some physiologically more mature than the heart of a type of person, with a certain ability to earn money, like to exchange material for women and feelings, but do not want to hang on a tree. Calling them "scum" is only because he is not paying attention anymore.

But there are still people who will "like scumbags", I know a few ladies, their own men are raising other women outside, she knows that it is so tacit, not that they are stupid, just do not want to bear the consequences of divorce, people in a state of life for a long time, do not want to change, even if it is very bad, it is better than the unknown, right? Maybe it's better!

I hope that we will not encounter "scum" in life, and I hope that we will not become "scum"