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All the misfortunes of women begin with the word "lazy"
For a woman, if she wants to live a happy life, on the one hand, she can't do without her own work, on the other hand, she can't do without her family.
In work, there are their own careers and pursuits; in the family, there are people who care about themselves and who care about themselves.
If a woman wants to have her own career and a happy family, she must be self-reliant, self-reliant and confident, and always maintain her independence economically and spiritually, without dependence, dependence, or dependence.
Only such a woman is the most attractive woman, and only such a woman can become the happiest woman.
And to make yourself such a woman, you must overcome a very fatal weakness, that is, "laziness". In fact, a woman's fatal weakness is actually a "lazy" word.
It can be said that all the misfortunes of women begin with the word "lazy".
As the saying goes, there are no ugly women, only lazy women!
Even a woman's appearance can be changed through her own diligence, what else is not achieved by diligence?
Therefore, whether it is a woman's work and career, or a woman's marriage and family, the most feared thing is a "lazy" word, once a woman is infected with this fatal weakness, it is difficult to have happiness in her life, and even from then on to the unhappiness of life.
Lu Xiaoman, a talented woman in the Republic of China, was originally talented, versatile, and born into a famous family, which can be described as a famous socialite and a superb beauty at that time, with these superior conditions, she could have had a happy life.
In fact, she already has all this enviable, but she did not cherish it in the end, for the so-called love, let herself become more and more picky, more and more lazy, since she and her husband Wang Geng divorced and married Xu Zhimo, spend money every day like flowing water, keen on all kinds of communication, and eventually became depraved, and even smoked a lot of smoke, the second half of life can be described as a very miserable life.
If Lu Xiaoman had been diligent from the beginning, allowing herself to remain self-reliant and self-reliant, with less vanity and inertia, her fate would not have been so.
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The "laziness" of the body will make a woman more and more easy and bad
The French writer Victor Hugo said that Sloth was a mother who had a son who was "robbed" and a daughter who was "hungry."
For a woman who is easily lazy in behavior, it will make her more and more lazy, more and more lazy, and become an accessory to life dependent on others.
When a woman becomes lazy and lazy, unwilling to do anything, dependent on others everywhere, too lazy to work, too lazy to go to work, even too lazy to do housework, too lazy to take children, such a woman, what is the value of life?
In the eyes of men, the standard of a good woman and a good wife must be a gentle and virtuous, thrifty and thrifty female figure, not a lazy and casual look.
At any time, laziness is a stumbling block and a roadblock to happiness in life.
Whether it is a man or a woman, once they have developed the vice of "laziness", it is difficult to live well on this day, and it is difficult for this family to have happiness at all.
Whether it is a country or a family, it advocates the spirit of diligence and self-improvement, and it is necessary to constantly be diligent and thrifty and strive to be upstream.
And the bad behavior habits of laziness and laziness can only make a country, a nation and a person continue to decline and be negative.
To this end, every woman must overcome her own lazy behavior, and push herself to be a diligent woman to avoid reducing herself to a person who works hard.
For women, the most fatal weakness is a "lazy" word, because "lazy", so hungry; because "lazy", so do not want to go to work; because "lazy", so want to find a man to support themselves; because "lazy", so do not want to do anything, become good and bad work; because of "lazy", so do nothing, let their whole life become muddy.
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The "laziness" of thought will make a woman more and more unfortunate
Compared with the "laziness" of the body, the "laziness" of a woman's thinking may be more terrible, the "laziness" of the body will make people become lazy and bad, and the "laziness" of the mind will make people lose their souls.
When a person gives up thinking, does not like to use his brain, has no thoughts, and has no soul, he becomes a walking dead, and there is no difference between him and animals.
For this reason, a woman with mental laziness will make herself more and more unfortunate.
Earlier we talked about Lu Xiaoman's "laziness", and when it comes to Lu Xiaoman, in fact, what we feel the most is regret, feeling sorry for her encounter.
After all, she is a talented and talented woman, if she can use her energy more on her own talent, rather than chasing those illusory so-called love, she will be quite outstanding, will show us a completely different Lu Xiaoman, the second half of her life will not be so miserable.
In fact, her misfortune, to a large extent, is caused by her "laziness", she is too lazy to let herself be a calm wife, too lazy to think about how to teach her husband and son at home, and she is too lazy to devote herself to developing her own talents and talents, always thinking of showing her face, thinking of chasing a beautiful love.
Lu Xiaoman is typically a little lazy in her thinking, she always wants to pin many of the beauty of life on a man, and in the end she can only lose herself, but also hurt herself, making herself more and more unfortunate.
The one who formed a distinct opponent with Lu Xiaoman was Precisely Xu Zhimo's original wife, Zhang Youyi.
Although Zhang Youyi has no culture, she has always been a diligent woman, whether in behavior or thought, she has never given up her own diligence and diligence.
Even after being abandoned by Xu Zhimo later, she did not choose decadence, complaining and degeneration, and did not give up her self-climbing, but in the change of fate, she made herself more diligent and hardworking, and became the first female banker in New China through self-study.
Including in feelings, I was also fortunate to harvest my own love, love and career double harvest, so that the second half of my life was very happy.
Therefore, every woman should not be a lazy woman, but to be a diligent woman, whether at work, or in learning, or in marriage and family, we must be diligent and enterprising, so that we can hold hands with luck and continue to harvest our own happy life.
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