People who know how to be silent, don't underestimate it, this kind of person is often very powerful and not easy to mess with. Lu Xun said: If you do not perish in silence, you will erupt in silence. Not to say, not to know, but to know what can not be said indiscriminately; not to refute, not to silently admit, but to understand that some things do not need to be explained; not to fight back, not to be cowardly and timid, but to be lazy and waste energy entangled with rotten people and rotten things. The more silent people are, the more powerful they are in their speech, and they are often not easy to provoke, because they can hold their breath, keep their mouths shut, hold their hearts, and use their temper on the blade of the knife.
The more people who understand silence, the more they have a number in their hearts. Don't look at the silent people who don't speak, in fact, they have a number in their hearts; don't bully the kind people, in fact, it is a blessing to suffer losses. Not to say, does not mean ignorance, many times, just feel unnecessary, see through not to say broken, is a kind of maturity, understand some words should be said, some words should not be said; silent people, know how to observe, they observe the surrounding situation, observe each other's personality, what the other party wants, so as to think about what they should say. Everyone's view of the world is different, the perspective of looking at things is different, so the way of life will be different, understand people, see through it and don't say it, because they understand in their hearts, they don't accept a thing, when they don't like a person, don't be harsh, don't say right and wrong, but let themselves stay away, bypass unnecessary troubles. The more people who do not say, the more they have a number in their hearts, they are not impatient when things happen, they can stabilize their emotions, and they will not be easy to lose big because of impatience. There are contradictions everywhere in life, there are right and wrong everywhere, we need to use a peaceful attitude to deal with, avoid contradictions, and solve problems peacefully, so people who know how to be silent are often "not good to mess with", although they do not say, but in the heart have easily grasped the overall situation.
People who know how to be silent have their own strength and have their own principles and bottom lines. Silence is a kind of quiet, its own power, the so-called still water flows deeply, and the wise are speechless. In life, the kind of arrogant, irritable as a tiger, in fact, is not enough to make people afraid, are paper tigers, on the contrary, Taishan collapsed in front of the face and the face does not change color, let people secretly frightened, they are not in a hurry, calm, calm from the thousands of ideas, find a way to satisfactorily solve the problems they face. The longer a person walks in the earthly world, the more people he meets, and the more things he experiences, the more he understands that silence is a very important practice for a person. The depth of the water is silent, the people are steady, the silent people, have their own strength, do not compete, do not mean useless; do not care, do not mean cowardice; do not expose, do not mean that they are stupid; some people, do not want to fight, not can not fight, but disdain to fight, not their own things, do not argue, do not need to fight, do not fight. Silence is a dignified exit, a rational avoidance, a space for others and room for oneself.
People with bottom lines do not like to use words to tell others how harmful and capable they are, but silently use practical actions to show their principles and bottom lines and show their strength. Silent people, although they are reticent, but their sentences are like gold, and the words they say are often very weighty, and such people, a sentence against the thousands of words of others, are more likely to be convinced. People who know how to be silent do not lose their temper, not without temper. As the saying goes: those who don't lose their temper are the ones who really have tempers. Everyone has emotions, moods and sorrows, but the real wise can learn to control their emotions and control their temper. People who know how to be silent and tolerant have great wisdom, understand that more is better than less, some things, there is no point in fighting around, but don't go far, feel that people who do not lose their temper are good bullies, soft persimmons pinch a few more, and when the other party fights back, they will know that the other party is not without temper, just endure us. Once this kind of person loses his temper, it will definitely surprise people, and even later we dare not provoke them, and the last regret may be ourselves, do not underestimate the silent people, their outbreaks are more powerful than ordinary people. People who know how to be silent, their lives are more profound, their lives are more extensive, they can accommodate the multitude of life, right and wrong, with an open-mindedness to see through the world, know how to be a person, be at ease, and be calm.