Charming and I love you

Friends kept saying she didn't want to find a lover, but was willing to spend a few years finding a soul mate. She also asked me if I had ever thought of having a soul mate.

I can only answer half of this question exactly, the soulless person is just doing the father's copy and paste on the appearance, and the heart is a formulaic projection of the surrounding environment, lackluster, and the same. But what is a partner, people who have read books for half a lifetime also say that they can only understand and cannot speak.

After listening to my explanation of the soul, my friend said that she finally understood that having a soul is to become different from others, and that finding a soul mate is to find an attractive person as a partner. Attractive people just don't talk, and they can make the air full of that person's charming breath

My friends are really smart, equal and exchanged in a world where charm can become IP, IP can become traffic, and traffic can achieve financial freedom. In the spiritual world, you can let people who don't want to do it see that you don't want to forget you. But she also said that finding an attractive person is essentially equivalent to finding a lover, which is not a soul mate at all. It's not worth spending a few years.

Turned around and got back to where it was.

So what am I really ignoring?

Commercial society attaches importance to equality and exchange, people in the emotional life is also extremely eager for attractive people to appear, attractive people in the relationship with the lover to take the lead, so that the pleasure of love to the maximum satisfaction of their own. But the pleasure everyone knows, the biggest feature is that it can't stand the passage of time, and every second of ticking pushes the pleasure to the fate of disappearing.

But the soul mate is to understand that you like to wear blue clothes, get up in the morning to drink coffee, read for half an hour every day, sometimes clingy to people without reason, indirectly full of wisdom, most of the time in the circle of procrastination, making mistakes, correcting mistakes has been repeated. And this understanding must start with a pair of lovers, who must have gone through many run-ins and spent many years to consolidate. In the end, it becomes a trust between each other without any reason, dependence and delivery.

If the declaration between lovers is that I love you, the soul mate goes far beyond I love you. Because they ran through time, they flouted social fairness and the rules of mutual exchange. The partner is not at all a necessity for the functioning of modern society, but the most luxurious existence that some people in this society cannot pursue.

My girlfriend was so clever that she knew the truth before she asked the question.