There was once a line on the Internet that a father said to his daughter: "Daughter, don't be angry, dad is also the first time to be a dad, I am also learning how to be a dad?" At that time, when I saw this sentence, I had an impulse, how good it would be if I could help these young parents. I have been a mother for more than twenty years and have missed the stage of growing up with my son, and I hope to help my current young parents through the inspiration of the following little story.
There is a kitten who especially loves to listen to stories. Every day, in addition to catching mice, it would pestering Grandma Cat to tell him stories.
On this day, Grandma Cat just opened her head: "Once upon a time, there lived a little white rabbit on the moon. "I'm going to go to the moon and make friends with the little white rabbit." The kitten interrupted Grandma Cat. Grandma Cat said a little angrily, "Silly child, how did you get to heaven?" The little white rabbit lives on the moon. ”
But the kitten wants to be friends with the little white rabbit. He thought, he came and pestered Grandma Cat again, asking her to take him to the moon to find the little white rabbit.
Grandma was so entangled in him that she had no choice but to talk to him. "I heard old people say that the moon in the sky sometimes sneaks into a small pond to bathe. If the moon in the water is broken, it means that the moon has not come to the small pond; if the moon in the water is not broken, it means that the moon is not broken, it means that the moon is bathing. ”
"I have a way, I don't have to throw stones. If there is a moon in the sky and a moon in a small pond, it means that the moon has not come to the pond to bathe; if there is no moon in the sky, there is a moon in the pond, it means that the moon has come to the pond to bathe. The kitten said cleverly.
"Oh," Grandma Cat smiled, "the moon is so clever, he comes down to the pond to take a bath, he will hang the shadow in the sky, how do you tell which one is the real moon and which one is the false moon?" ”
The kitten had no choice but to do as Grandma told her, and threw small pebbles into the water every day. However, the moon in the small pond shattered every day, and the moon did not come to the small pond to bathe. The kittens are not discouraged and insist on throwing stones into the small pond every day.
On days when the moon does not come to the small pond to bathe, it will jump into the pond to learn to swim. Until one day, the moon really came to the small pond to bathe. The kitten quickly jumped into the water and swam to the moon, making good friends with the little white rabbit. The little white rabbit took him to heaven as a guest.
Grandma Cat hadn't seen the kitten back for a few days, knowing that he had gone to heaven to visit. She looked up at the moon and really saw a little white rabbit and kitten playing on the moon.
One day the kitten came back wet, and Grandma Cat hugged him excitedly. The kitten told Grandma Cat: "The little white rabbit is busy planting carrots every day, and there are no mice on the moon for me to catch. Today the moon went to the small pond to bathe again, and I followed him back. ”
The kitten lives another day catching mice and listening to stories. But he did not forget his good friend Little White Rabbit, who went to the small pond every day to wait for little White Rabbit to come.
One day the little white rabbit came. He hurried home and carried a large bag of vegetables and mushrooms to give to the little white rabbit. They chatted happily on the moon in the pond, are you so envious!
When the story is over, what do we all learn in the story of the little ones?
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > kitten is a little observer. </h1>
He found that there was a moon in the sky and a moon in the small pond, which meant that the moon was still in the sky.
Throughout the history of the development of science and technology for thousands of years, the discoverers and founders of those laws are almost all good at seeing problems from small and commonplace natural phenomena. Dig into the roots and finally find the truth.
Mr. Newton, for example, dropped the apple on the ground when he found it ripe. He was thinking, "Why do apples always fall to the ground instead of flying up into the sky?" Doesn't that make sense of humor? Eventually, however, Newton discovered gravity.
Therefore, as parents, we must guide our children to learn to observe, with questions to observe. For example, your cat is so cute, what color is it, is the cat next door the same as ours? What's different?
In this way, our children will solve various problems through their own observations, and unconsciously learn a lot of knowledge.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > kitten is a good child with self-discipline and persistence. </h1>
When the moon does not bathe in the pond, the kittens will jump into the pond to learn to swim.
Insisting on learning is something that every child is very difficult to do consciously. Why can kittens do it? Because he has a purpose that he wants to achieve. In order to achieve his goal, he consciously practiced swimming every day.
The goal in the child's mind is actually very simple, as long as you observe more, you will find that the child has a potential small goal in his heart.
There is a little friend who especially likes to dismantle the family car, he does not dislike them, but he is very curious, why does the car run? He's going to take it apart and see what's inside? At this time, many parents will be angry and feel that their children do not know how to cherish toys.
In fact, this child is curious at the same time, the ability to use the hands is also strong, he took the car apart to see, is to achieve a small goal in his heart, parents should explain to him the structure of the car, how the car can run, and then encourage him to put it back, maybe he will be an expert in this area in the future.
Yao Xin
Yao Xin is the founder and CEO of Shanghai Juli Media Technology Co., Ltd. and the founder of PPLIVE.
Yao Xin's initial motivation to learn came from playing. In the early 1990s of China's urban families, The Xiaobawang learning machine launched by Guangdong Xiaobawang Company was popular throughout the country at that time. Input devices and learning cards for near-standard keyboards. Not only can you learn, but you can also play a few games.
Yao Xin does not like to learn on the Little Bully Machine, but he especially likes to play games. Parents are afraid of affecting their children's learning, and they will hide the game cards. Without a game card, he can't play the game, Yao Xin wants to play the game very much, he must find his own way.
He found that there was a long series of codes behind the instructions, some numbers, some English letters, and he tried to type these "unknown" characters on the machine with the keyboard.
In fact, these characters are the source code of the game, the game has more than 5,000 lines of code, some of which may only have one or two characters, and some of which are a combination of more than 20 characters. Yao Xin had to put more than 5,000 lines of code into the learning machine with a good knock in order to play the game.
This is not an easy thing for a child to accomplish. However, Yao Xin finished, and the motivation for his completion was very simple: if he knocked well, he could "jailbreak" and play the game.
Then he found that many children adore him, and everyone loved to play games. He had the idea of writing games for everyone to play, and after that, in order to write fun games, he studied hard, especially about the knowledge of games, in order to achieve his goals, he suffered a lot and was not afraid.
This is the driving force behind Yao Xin's success in the future.
Children's interests and hobbies will be shown when they are very young, as parents, be good at discovering, encouraging and helping children to develop in the direction they are interested in, and may be able to achieve a big career in the future.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > kittens are genuinely good to their friends and cherish friendship. </h1>
After the kitten came home, she still missed the little white rabbit. The little white rabbit came, and he also gave her a gift.
Emerson once said: If you want to have a friend, you must first be a friend.
In a person's life, there will always be many people, learn to treat everyone sincerely, let them all become friends; a person's success, there are many factors, but the help of friends must be one of them.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > let children learn to be kind, cultivate good habits, and have a happy life, is our intention, let us grow together with children. </h1>