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2021
I believe that everyone in daily life, have such a thought: "What is love?" How worthy of love? And the reason why everyone has such thinking, most of them just want to get a relatively perfect love!
Next, I will discuss the book "The Art of Love" with you, so that everyone can understand love better.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="7" what kind of book is The Art of Love >? </h1>
Simply put, The Art of Love tells us that love is not something that can be attained with full devotion, that love can only be attained through self-improvement and is not easily dissipated. Each of us should love others bravely, sincerely, and disciplinedly in order to be satisfied in real life.
Next, let's explore the "Art of Love" in detail, which can also be said to be the inspiration of "The Art of Love".
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="30" > love is an art? </h1>
Love is an art, it requires people to have the ability to love, can not blindly pursue "get", "get" refers to a way of emotional activities in order to get rid of loneliness in daily life, and true love is through "give", "give" symbolizes a higher way of pursuing love, it is a kind of person's recognition of their own ability, feel that they have the capital to be loved, is a state of satisfaction with their own life. Therefore, true love is an ability, it needs the increase of our life experience and the improvement of ability to slowly improve, therefore, love is an art.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="33" > elements of love. </h1>
Elements of love include care, responsibility, respect, and understanding. Maternal love is selfless, it is a kind of unconditional giving, excessive maternal love is easy to make children self-centered, easy to make people mistakenly think of "get" as the only way to achieve love; father's love is authoritative, which emphasizes whether the child meets their own requirements, and aims to cultivate the child to become the inheritor of their dreams and ambitions. Therefore, the most important thing for people is self-love, which is not to emphasize selfishness, but to be extremely confident and satisfied with their own life conditions. Therefore, people need to care for each other, have a high sense of responsibility, and mutual respect and understanding in order to truly understand love.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" Data-track="31" What is the art of > love? </h1>
In his book, Fromm makes it clear that the art of love requires us to find it ourselves, without a clear answer. But after reading the whole book, I realized that the art of love is to love oneself first and then love others, that is, a person must constantly improve himself, continuously develop himself, and have irreplaceable values in order to better love people and fall in love with better people.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="32" > Summary:</h1>
Love is actually a way of self-improvement. Because in real life, people will always be particularly devoted to beautiful things, and once they have determined their intentions, people will continue to move closer to their own objects of affection, so love is a way of self-improvement.
Thank you all for reading!