If you want to say which period of your life is the most difficult? There is no doubt that it is middle age.
When they are young, they are taken care of by their parents, when they are old, they have children to take care of, young people are full of vitality, there is youth capital, only middle-aged people, at this moment, except for the traces of years, there is nothing, but everything is shouldered.
In all aspects, it is like an old house waiting to be repaired, it can be used, but it has been leaking rain for a long time, and if you are not careful, it is easy to fall in the heavy rain.
The word middle age seems to be discarded in the market. Middle-aged people in this period are in danger.
In fact, where there is a problem, there is a way out, there are many middle-aged people around, their lives have not been affected by the crisis, but gradually stand up in the crisis. They hold their heads high, all by the hole cards in their hands.
Middle-aged men, hold the "bottom card" in their hands, the days will become more stable.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="15" > healthy body without serious illness</h1>
There is an old man over 60 years old in the house, not retired, getting up early every day in the morning exercise, his hand joints are not good, and he has undergone surgery a few years ago, so far he has cherished his limbs more, maintained the habit of fitness, occasionally took medicine, and his body was not a big problem.
Listening to him talk and laugh with others, I really don't feel that this is a middle-aged man's voice, sonorous and powerful.
Many men have reached this awkward period, and it is always a minority that can realize the signs, always waiting until the problem is out of control, and then gradually wake up, but people have already put in half of it.
How important is a healthy body, if you need to lie in the hospital at this time, the next loopholes will become bigger and bigger, and various practical problems will follow.
When small diseases appear, they need to pay attention to them, and do not cause major diseases. Take care of your body, leave your body with peace, and the future days will not be too depressed, and you can still do your part for this family.
Once the pain is entangled, there is no freedom.
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After the first three years of marriage, survived the seven-year itch, and accompanied each other for nearly 20 years, there were problems in the relationship between husband and wife after the children grew up.
The suffering that could have been endured before, at this point, could not survive.
Men often have a number in their minds after the incident, and the cold wife's heart realizes how good the original family is, and the original pillow is the person who really thinks about himself.
No matter how wonderful the outside world is, it is only wonderful for a while, and the meal at home can be eaten by itself for a lifetime. This truth, middle-aged men must have a spectrum in their hearts.
Don't bury the next ten or twenty years because of the temporary dizziness. Be more tolerant of each other, keep your own bottom line, hold the bottom card in your hand, and sing with your wife and husband, and your old age will be hot in your hands and heart.
The day of stability is never given to heaven, but is obtained by relying on the will and bottom line of man. Middle-aged men must be able to resist temptation and bear the overall situation.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="78" > stable mental output</h1>
Uncle Zhang, who is close to retirement, was dismissed by the factory, the efficiency of the factory is not good, last year also recruited a lot of young people, the boss for the benefit of the company, can only let the middle-aged people who have no energy laid off.
Uncle Zhang is a management post, and the salary is OK. There is no work at this time, and it is really not a taste in my heart. Because of the age problem, the work was replaced by young people, and Uncle Zhang, who was old and young, could not help but shed tears.
This is a problem faced by many middle-aged people, and even if you sacrifice all your energy to work, you can't change it. Later, Uncle Zhang found a job as a security guard, although the salary was limited, but he also tried to be idle.
When people go to a special period, they give special consideration to a person's mentality. If you keep drilling the tip of the bull's horn and not having a stable mentality, even if there are unexpected surprises in life, it will not fall on your head. No matter what you do, just pay and return, don't covet the same treatment as young people.
In this life, people live a mentality, and run is a complex.
Only by maintaining a good attitude can we meet the world with a smile.
Some people say that a good life depends on one's own fulfillment. In the same way, in a good old age, it is also oneself who fulfills it.
At this stage of middle age, after crossing three hurdles, the wind and snow in life are much less, and the bottom card in the hand is held, and the content in the future will be more realistic, and the scenery that should be missing will not be missing.
Don't be anxious, be patient with the problem at hand; don't be impulsive, take it step by step. The current days are still difficult, and it will be clear after surviving.
In everyone's life, they are the protagonists, the protagonists are safe, the home will be good, and the blessings will continue.
Your cherishing of destiny, fate will feed back to you in another way, giving you stability and peace.
Original Author: Yo-Yo Jun. In this noisy world, we all want to have our own peace. Here, warm you with words, may your eyebrows be as good as ever, and work hand in hand with jun to enjoy the blossoming and falling of flowers.
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