Hello everyone, I am a talent, today we talk about it, no matter what message you send after separation, the other party will not reply to you, please ask the other party still loves you? How do we solve this situation? In the last issue, I talked about judging whether the other party still loves you after separating through two details. So in this issue, the phenomenon we talked about is that no matter what message the other party sends after the breakup, he will not reply to you, what does the other party think at this time? So how do we solve it? In fact, in such a situation, many people think that he has no feelings for me? Whatever I send, whatever I do, don't want to pay attention to me.
In fact, it is not, when the other party does not reply to any message from you, it means that the other party has only a negative cognition of you, but there is no negative emotion for you at this time, and it also shows that the other party has entered a state of self-defense at this time. It was as if he had put a hood over himself, and he couldn't sense what you were saying anymore. Many people have such a misunderstanding, they feel that not replying is not loving, but feelings come or go, how can it be so simple, so soon there is no more? It's all there, it's just not enough. The other party's negative perception of you is too strong, so what should we do at this time? Everyone remembers a key word, to be ruthless. Because in many of the cases I have been exposed to, many people face each other and the more they do not reply, the more they try to send more things.
For example, today I went to that restaurant again to eat, without you, but how, very sensational writing. But when the other party sees such information, they will not be moved, but feel that you are still like this, how can I ignore you? Then you yourself go to be sentimental, but he has a little bit of snickering, as if you still care about me. So where are you going to be fierce? You have to put away all the thoughts of the other person, you have to put away all the desires that the other person wants to reply, and you have to reply with a normal heart.
So at this time, what we have to do is first of all to break the connection, to disconnect the thoughts of the other party, this disconnection does not mean, you do not return to me, I will not return to you, but to disrupt his thoughts. It is that he may think that you will still send a lot of words that miss him, then at this time not only do you not send them, but you also send some messages that are not related to the past at all. For example, you take the initiative and say: "I have very few friends of the opposite sex around me, break up when I break up, there is no need to do this, you may as well be a friend, what will happen in the future, you can also be a brother who helps each other." "If you send such a statement, the other party will immediately doubt himself, and he will feel, no, this is too different from the previous situation." That when he falls into self-doubt, even when he thinks, he will fall into our framework, he will become a passive party, we will become the active party, then this time you send a once or twice do not care, let him self-doubt go, I believe that he will naturally contact you later, of course, contact you, does not mean that we break up and save, then we have to learn to show our own value, but also hope to help everyone's feelings.