In a relationship between the sexes, couples can increase their feelings for each other through intimate physical contact, and the emotions contained and expressed by body language are more profound than "I love you" and "I like you".
So, if you want to ask what is the expression of true feelings between men and women, it is obvious that it is body language, which is an uncontrollable physiological response.
In intimate physical contact, the physical distance of kissing is the shortest.
Through the touch of lips, the feelings of the two people are in this silent environment, they are communicated, sublimated, and they are quiet from being disturbed by the outside world, and then they are more determined to be together.
However, the way to maintain love should never be limited to one, but should be diverse, so that it is conducive to injecting new colors into love.
So, psychological research has shown that in addition to kissing, what makes men love you addictively is often these three "feelings".
The feeling of being respected
The so-called being respected, the expression in the relationship between the sexes, is actually respect for each other's preferences.
The relationship between Liu Jialing and Liang Chaowei has always been a deep love between the two of them in the entertainment industry, and the reason why their marriage can be happy is not achieved overnight, and the reason why Liu Jialing can have Liang Chaowei's love for a long time is that she understands how important respect is when managing love.
Liu Jialing likes to be lively, and invites three or two friends to come to the house for a small gathering, while Liang Chaowei likes to be quiet, he would rather be in a daze, read a book, or feed the pigeons, rather than maintain the cumbersome interpersonal relationship, so friends who come to Liu Jialing's home as a guest can see such a strange picture -
On the side were groups of three or five, pushing cups and changing cups, while on the other side was Liang Chaowei alone, quietly reading books, no one bothered anyone.
Liu Jialing has never thought of making Liang Chaowei like to be lively, on the contrary, she has always respected each other's preferences, and she knows how to seek common ground while reserving differences, rather than blindly letting the other party go according to her own preferences.
People always say that love is best if the three views fit, so what is the love that fits the three views?
I think it's probably like this, not glued, not sticky, not depressed, can do whatever you want, without being assimilated by others.
Being able to get the respect of the other half in a relationship between the sexes is a feeling that many men dream of.
A sense of freedom
In a relationship, the most important thing for men is that they can enjoy the beauty of love while not feeling bound.
Like the heroine in the movie "I want to be good with you", she checks the mobile phone, deletes the WeChat of other female colleagues in the boyfriend's mobile phone, the boyfriend asks the other party to report wherever he goes, this series of operations make the man feel like a puppet, and he does not feel a little freedom.
Charlotte Brontë wrote in Jane Eyre: "Love is a game. We must always be equal to each other, in order to rely on each other for a long time. Because opponents who are too strong are annoying, and opponents who are too weak are tiresome. ”
If something makes us feel less positive and more depressed, then we lose the motivation to continue doing it.
Therefore, if you want men to love themselves to be addicted, it is not enough to have love, but also need to know how to manage love, understand that the best way to love is interdependence, independent of each other, only in this way, love will continue to go towards our ideal appearance.
Comfortable feeling
Luson said: "Love has absolutely no patterns and laws, and love cannot be clearly stated." What is clear is that it is not love, but only a union of interests. ”
Although it is said that the love of the door is what we have to consider, although it is said that the choice in the relationship between the sexes is greater than the business.
However, for those who have achieved happiness in the relationship between the sexes, they never believe that happiness can only be achieved by having the right feelings, and they do not believe that it must be age-matching and similar love to harvest happiness.
No matter what stage of good love, it should be like a stream of sweet water, or like a stream of water, it can slowly move forward, rather than like fireworks in the sky, fleeting.
In a relationship, it is very important to let the man experience a comfortable feeling, just like when we go to the Potala Palace, that pleasant feeling will prompt us to involuntarily approach it and not want to leave for a long time.
And if a relationship can give people a comfortable feeling, it will also make people want to have it all the time. But this comforting feeling comes from the woman's thoughtfulness, the woman's gentleness, the woman's heart to heart, and the woman can consider the problem from the perspective of the man, know how to understand and understand. A beautiful love will be like a long stream of water, full of resilience and vitality.
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Author | Psychological counselor Fu Dongsheng
The main writer of love and marriage psychology | Use psychology to analyze love, marriage, and life
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