There are 3 such men, which one is the most suitable to marry?
1. A firm believer in witch doctors, two mistresses, many years of smoking history and alcoholism;
2. I have been driven out of the office twice, I don't get up until noon every day, I have to drink about a liter of brandy every night, and I have recorded smoking opium;
3. He was a fighting hero of the country, has always maintained a vegetarian habit, does not smoke, occasionally drinks a little beer, and has never done anything illegal when he was young.
I guess most women, like my choice, would choose the 3rd one and say who these three guys are and you'll be surprised.
The first was Franklin D. Roosevelt, who served four terms as President of the United States; the second was Winston Churchill, former British Prime Minister; and the third was Adolf Hitler, a fascist demon and initiator of World War II.
This is a passage from Su Jin's book "Women Must Wake Up Early", which makes people wake up.
Does too perfect man exist?
The same question, after I asked my husband, he was the first to rule out 3, he only said one sentence: men who can even control alcohol and tobacco are too cruel to themselves.
I know that he is making excuses for himself to smoke and drink, because these two things are the ones that I have been having headaches for many times, forcing him to quit many times, and I am stunned that I can't quit, and now I give up completely.
He said that there is no reason at all, is there a man who is too perfect?
I said there was, but very little.
Women know women best, and from a woman's point of view, are there women who are too perfect?
Yes, and very little.
In the eyes of others, I have a good temper, and at work, the boss also trusts.
My own shortcomings I know, I behave well in front of outsiders, how can I relax?
I can only be my true self at home, a little procrastination, a little lazy, and often taught by my mother.
Hitler was notoriously self-disciplined, and in order not to affect his ability to think, to maintain a high degree of vigilance and rationality, he did not smoke, drink, or even be close to women.
This reminds me of the lady who came to Hangzhou last year, and his husband Xu Guoli was a good husband in the eyes of others.
In the eyes of the neighbors, Xu Guoli treats people with humility and gentleness, smiles at others when they meet, and never sees him blush with others.
He does not smoke or drink, only one hobby, that is, stock trading, because of stock trading, he lost nearly 1 million yuan of land acquisition for duck factory.
When he faces the camera, his demeanor: calm, clear-headed.
Among so many emotions, the easiest disguise is calm, in order to hide other emotions, most people will also pretend to be calm to cover up panic, fear and other nervous emotions.
Later, everyone went back to see Xu Guoli's interview video, and felt abnormal, how can a man who has lost his wife be so calm?
Lin Shengbin, who has been pushed on the hot search in the past two days, his interview video, now looking back, is not without clues.
In an interview with Lin Shengbin, he repeatedly stressed that he would not mention specific data, but the reporter asked him what he would do if the compensation was lower than he expected.
Lin Shengbin chose to recuse himself, he only stressed that he wanted the truth, and he gave the lawyer a framework for compensation: the cost of raising children for so many years, the brand value of Tong Zhen's life, pensions, etc.
Lin Shengbin stressed that it is not a matter of how much the amount is, and he has thought about the amount of compensation in his heart, and his so-called responsible person is actually that he cannot solve this matter so easily, and he is satisfied.
After the death of his wife, for the sake of the truth, he put his wife and daughter in an ice coffin in the community for a month to create public opinion, and the owners at that time felt miserable.
Although it is difficult to accept that this happened, this practice has indeed affected the normal life of other owners.
Even if you want the truth and truly love your wife and daughter, can you bear to let them park the community like this for a month?
I don't know if this is for the sake of the truth or for some other purpose.
Now, Lin Shengbin remarries and gives birth to a daughter, and everyone condemns him, not because he remarries and gives birth to a daughter, nor because he does not want to see him happy, but because he consumes his wife and children excessively.
In these four years, he has always been the image of an affectionate man, and from time to time he will post articles expressing his nostalgia for his deceased relatives, earning enough sympathy from the audience and earning enough silver.
In order to support him, some people will buy a few even if there is no shortage of clothes at home, and even some people will buy more than a dozen, hoping to help him develop his career well.
When your compassion is used and you feel that the truth is wrongly paid, you will naturally feel unhappy in your heart.
Looking back at Lin Shengbin's current content, full of team style, his smile is designed, making people look like there is only one idea: such a good man, it is a pity.
When you can't figure out something, it means something is wrong.
In fact, if you pretend to keep pretending, you can't both want money and want to live your own free life, isn't this just making a fool of the audience?
I don't believe there are people who are too perfect, especially in the network, more of a "perfect man" to create.
These seemingly perfect men, they all have one thing in common: extreme self-discipline and no fetishes.
In the TV series "Circuit Prosecutor", the ruthless Mi Zhendong, he is extremely self-disciplined, he is not only strict with himself, but also strict in the management of his engineering team.
Such a man, what are his shortcomings?
It's not good to say, but I feel that something is wrong.
Such a person is really terrible.
Before, someone introduced me to a blind date, and after getting along a few times, I directly proposed that it was inappropriate and could not continue to get along.
He works well, his looks are definitely middle and upper level, and even the matchmakers think he is good.
My friend said I was too hard to serve and asked me why I didn't agree?
Before, I told her that the blind date was not bad in every way, there was no bad habit, and there was no smoking or drinking.
I said that because he was so calm, sometimes it made me feel that I was not a real person, and I did not feel relaxed, warm and human fireworks.
When talking about whether he had ever been in a relationship during his school days, he only said: Why should I talk when I was in school? That is to raise a wife for someone else?
How does that sound?
There was really nothing wrong with him thinking like this.
All I know is that one day, I'm useless to him, or if he has a better fit, he's going to kick me, and it's better that I kick him first.
A man's wife is used to control his smoking and drinking, if there are no two, what is the use of marrying a wife?
This is a joke, but also to say that no one is perfect, if the two mouths are like two "dummies", back home, the man takes the initiative to cook and wash, and the woman takes the initiative to mop the floor to clean.
When there is nothing wrong with the other party, is such a life still interesting?
Every couple is always delusional about changing each other and constantly compromising.
In "Journey to the West", after the scripture fell into the water and was dried, the Eight Precepts of the Pig accidentally tore a page when receiving the scripture.
Tang Sanzang was distraught and felt that he had not protected the scriptures well.
Sun Wukong said a word: Wukong: Hey hey, Master, don't worry, the heavens and the earth are incomplete, the scriptures should be incomplete, for human beings can do it!
No one is perfect, think of it this way, the person next to you has a little shortcoming, as long as it is not too much, learn to turn a blind eye!
If you can accept his flaws, he is worth it.
You want a real him, not a "perfect" him!
Author: Muzi