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"Wolverine" Hugh Jackman recently posted a photo with his mother on Instagram, with the caption: Mom ↓↓
Both of them were laughing so much that a fan commented at the bottom: Madam, you have raised a gentleman to pay tribute to the two of you. As a result, someone immediately punched him in the face: Uncle Wolf was raised by his father ↓↓
To tell the truth, Uncle Wolf's childhood was a bit miserable, once abandoned by his mother, all brought up by his father, he can still reconcile with his mother when he grows up, it is not easy. Let's take a look at it today
Everyone knows Uncle Wolf is Australian, but his parents are Both British. His father, Christopher John Jackman, had a Cambridge degree and worked as an accountant at PwC after graduation, and his mother, Grace, was a housewife and a kind person.
In 1967, the couple joined the "Ten Pounds" programme signed up between Britain and Australia and immigrated to Australia. This plan is very famous, after World War II, Australia's population shortage, unable to carry out defense and economic reconstruction, so they signed a contract with the United Kingdom, eligible Britons only need to pay 10 pounds for travel fees, they can move to Australia, enjoy the sunshine, meat, big houses that britain does not have, and employment and benefits provided by the Australian government.
The "Ten Pounds" scheme
Uncle Wolf's parents had already given birth to 3 children at that time, the fourth was in the belly, to raise so many children in London, relying on accountants to work alone, it was really difficult, so the whole family discussed, and moved to Australia.
It should have been the right decision, and the family quickly integrated into the local middle class. My father worked hard every day, often coming home late at night, and my mother was busy with 4 babies and often helping the neighborhood, and everything seemed very harmonious.
Uncle Wolf and his parents
But no one expected that the birth of the fifth child would change everything. Hugh Jackman was born in Sydney in 1968, the oldest in the family, who might have been pampered, but his mother suffered from postpartum depression.
How depressed is it? For the 18 months after his birth, Uncle Wolf lived in the house of his godfather and godmother. His father would only visit him on weekends, while his mother could not see him at all.
After Uncle Wolf returned home to live, her mother still did not get better, and most of the time she was suffering from depression and fatigue with her baby.
Childhood Uncle Wolf
When Uncle Wolf was 8 years old, the family finally changed dramatically.
One morning, my mother wrapped her head in a towel and suddenly said goodbye to them. By the time Uncle Wolf came home from school, there was no one in the family. The next day, the family received a telegram from England that the mother had returned to her hometown.
Uncle Zheng tai wolf
The family was broken, and the young uncle wolf couldn't figure out why his mother had to abandon everyone. He later went on a 60-minute show, talking about his childhood and crying: I never thought it would be like this forever, I thought my mother was just leaving, she would come back ↓↓
A year later, the mother returned, divorced her father, taking two daughters and leaving her three sons in Australia.
Uncle Wolf was devastated: Before I was twelve or thirteen, I thought Mom and Dad would get back together, and My Dad prayed every night for Mom to come back, but to be honest, the hardest time to finally realize that it wasn't going to happen was the hardest time.
After the mother was completely gone, Uncle Wolf was more angry than lonely. He fought with his brother Ralph, disgusted with his sympathetic parents, and even jumped off a cliff of more than 20 meters in search of excitement and swam back from the sea.
Uncle Wolf and brother Ralph
Fortunately, he had a strong father, one with three sons, and the strength of his father dissolved Uncle Wolf's anger.
Uncle Wolf once recalled: For ten years, my father did not have a moment of private time. He cooks, cleans, shops, drops us off at school, on weekends he sends us to different events, he stays at each place for 20 minutes and then rushes off to the next one because he doesn't want any of us to feel neglected.
Uncle Wolf who plays the violin
Anything about study, my father would do whatever it took. If the child says he wants to learn an instrument, the instrument will appear the next day, so Uncle Wolf will play piano, guitar and violin from an early age; but if the child says he wants to buy Nike shoes, the father will tell him: Find a job to earn money to buy it himself.
From uncle wolf's annual Father's Day ins, it can also be seen that this single father teaches his son a lot of principles of being a man.
As big as the cultivation of character: even if there is a better or more self-interested choice, you must keep your promise ↓↓
Small to eating etiquette: before eating, ask others if they want ↓↓
A basket of philosophy in life: opportunities are left to those who are prepared, find goals that surpass themselves, and never stop ↓↓
And the most important point: always be a gentleman, don't be blind and gossip ↓↓
Although divorced from his mother, his father never said a bad word about his mother, and in Uncle Wolf's mind, his father was a "hero"↓↓
When Uncle Wolf graduated from high school, his father remarried, and his stepmother was a very good person, and she would often say: Take out the clothes, I will help you wash them. Uncle Wolf secretly called wow in his heart: Great
Father and stepmother
With a kind stepmother, I still often think of my mother. My mother also remarried after returning to England. Since the age of 14, Uncle Wolf has flown to England once a year to visit his mother. Although his mother left scars on his childhood, he said: I never felt that my mother did not love me, and I know that may sound strange.
That being said, the lack of maternal love in childhood is real. Uncle Wolf later married Deborah-Lee Fornes, who was 13 years older than him (see the old text in blue), and many melon people analyzed it as an Oedipus complex. Deborah miscarried twice, and instead of having any more children, the two adopted them.
Uncle Wolf said: I have experienced family and parenting to understand many things, such as why my parents are separated, and how great it is that my godfather and godmother selflessly took care of me.
Uncle Wolf and two children
Uncle Wolf later resumed a relationship with his mother and would po her recipe on ins, with the caption: I love you, Mom ↓↓
Mother's Day, with the same treatment as Father's Day, will not forget ↓↓
My mother said: I watched all his movies and was proud of him, and now we are very good friends.
Although the parents are separated, Uncle Wolf will take time to accompany him every year, take the old father to visit Google, and cook with the old mother ↓↓
Thinking in other words, many people may not reconcile with their parents who abandoned them in childhood, but Uncle Wolf said: I have long been calm in my heart, don't live with regrets.
He also said: "At a certain point in life, you must stop blaming others for the misfortunes in your life, and you can't immerse yourself in what happened in the past all your life.
Worthy of being the perfect man in the minds of fans all over the world, living out the realm of peace and love...