On March 15, some media exposed a video of Wu Qian appearing in a shopping mall with her mother and children. In the video, Wu Qian takes care of the little girl in her arms the whole time, and is full of maternal love between her hands and feet. As soon as this news came out, Wu Qian's name immediately occupied the first place in the hot search, and most netizens said that Zhang Yujian, who was suspected of being the child's biological father, was really irresponsible.
Previously, there was news that Wu Qian and Zhang Yujian had quietly received a marriage license and had a child, but neither of them had responded positively to this matter. However, since the news that the two have children, Wu Qian's workload and exposure rate have decreased significantly, and it is suspected that she has taken the initiative to slow down her career in order to accompany the growth of her children. But Zhang Yujian's life seems to have not been affected in the slightest, and he still maintains his "single personality".
Perhaps the news of "Wu Qian's trip with her baby" was too boiling, causing a fierce discussion on the Internet. In the midst of countless netizens' verbal criticism, Zhang Yujian finally sent a Weibo post at 8:00 p.m. on March 15 to admit the fact that he and Wu Qianyin were married and had a daughter.
Zhang Yujian said on Weibo that he and Wu Qian were in normal love and married, and had a daughter. The reason why I never responded to this matter was because I felt that it was my own private life and had nothing to do with other people. Now he voluntarily admitted that he and Wu Qian were married and had a daughter because the daughter's private information was leaked, resulting in the child being hurt. Failing to protect his daughter is his and Wu Qian's dereliction of duty as parents, and when things have developed to the present, Wu Qian feels very remorseful and can only pray that such a thing will not happen again.
Although Zhang Yujian has publicly admitted to marrying and having a daughter with Wu Qianyin, he also explained to everyone why he and Wu Qian remained silent when they were exposed by so many well-known marketing numbers before. But netizens are almost all scolding Zhang Yujian for not being a good man.
Because in this Weibo posted by him, Zhang Yujian only used the word "her mother" to brush up all of Wu Qian's efforts to the child, and threw the self-blame of "not protecting the child" to Wu Qian. As a father, does Zhang Yujian really have no place to lose his qualifications? Even saying "Me and her mother" is more like a father than saying "her mother"!
In fact, in the entertainment industry, there are not a few celebrities who marry and have children behind their backs. Most female celebrities will make this matter public, first, to share this joy with fans and viewers, and to report in advance that they may temporarily shelve their careers because of taking care of children; second, to avoid some unnecessary social occasions and gossip, bundled hype, etc.
However, the vast majority of male celebrities will choose to hide the matter of marriage and children, even if they are photographed with their wives and children, they either use the name of "relatives" to prevaricate, or simply do not respond at all. Male celebrities like Ren Jialun who announced their marriage and children during the rising career period are special cases and even more so.
In 2005, Wu Zun officially debuted in Taiwan as a member of the "Flywheel Sea". As one of the most popular boy band members in Asia at that time, Wu Zun's popularity was naturally high. But in fact, Wu Zun had already entered the wedding hall with his first love Lin Liying in his hometown in Brunei in 2004, and in 2010, Wu Zun's eldest daughter "Nei Nei" was born.
It was not until 2013, after the birth of Wu Zun's younger son "max", that Wu Zun officially announced the news of having a child after marriage. Prior to this, Wu Zun had always declared that he was "single", although the media had photographed him and Lin Liying in the same frame countless times, and he referred to his wife as "sister-in-law".
After the explosion of "Zhen Soul", Zhu Yilong's various "old materials" have become the talk of netizens. What's more, the news that Zhu Yilong and his college classmate Guo Xiao had already married and had children, although various "stone hammers" were placed in front of them, Zhu Yilong never responded positively to this matter.
In all the statements issued by Zhu Yilong's team, only words such as "privacy" and "false statements" are used to make sloppy eyes, and they avoid talking about whether to marry in secret. Netizens said that it is so difficult to prove innocence with the phrase "never married and have children" or "rumors about marriage and children are rumors"?
In June 2020, Ming Dao was photographed by Taiwanese media traveling with a woman with a child, and the news of her "hidden marriage and childbirth" became very popular. Mingdao's agent confirmed to the media that Mingdao registered his girlfriend of 4 years in 2019, and in May 2020, the two children were born.
The reason why Mingdao did not announce the news of the marriage at the first time was mainly because Mingdao's brother and family had just died at that time, and he was not in the mood to share the good news with fans. Then Mingdao uploaded a photo of his son's feet on his Weibo, admitting that he had already married and had a child.
Since his debut, Zhong Hanliang has been very clean, and almost never had any negative news about his private life. But he has been secretly photographed by the media many times to enter and leave his residence with stylist Xie Yihua, and has also been exposed to the news that he has been married to Xie Yihua for many years and has a daughter. Although there are so many "stone hammers" in front of Zhong Hanliang, Zhong Hanliang and his team have never responded positively to this matter.
Jackie Chan, who has been popular in the entertainment industry for so many years, can be described as a high-ranking player who "has children in hidden marriage". He and Lin Fengjiao registered their marriage in the United States in 1982, and Fang Zuming was born at the end of the same year. Until the death of Jackie Chan's father He Guanchang in 1998, Jackie Chan guarded his filial piety as a righteous son.
At this time, Lin Fengjiao appeared in front of the public with the name of Fang Zu in the name of He Guanchang's "Gan'er Daughter-in-law" and "Gan Grandson". However, Jackie Chan still did not publicly acknowledge the identities of Lin Fengjiao and Fang Zuming's mother and son, until 2002, when Jackie Chan's mother died, and Lin Fengjiao came to guard filial piety with Fang Zu's name as "daughter-in-law" and "grandson". Since then, Jackie Chan has finally admitted to marrying and having children with Lin Fengjiao.
In fact, a good family life, everyone is very yearning, but the harsh entertainment industry and strict fan economy are particularly important for "single men". Most male celebrities would rather bear the name of "scumbag" than admit to the public that they are married and have children for 4 main reasons.
1. Fear of fans and resource loss
In the entertainment industry, in addition to having a certain professional strength, you have to rely on the love of fans. A large part of the help of male celebrities in the entertainment industry comes from their "wife powder" or "girlfriend powder". Maintaining the image of "single" on the one hand can leave more reverie space for the original "wife powder" and "girlfriend powder", on the other hand, it will also help attract more "girlfriend powder" and "wife powder".
Although whether you are in love or not, whether you are married or not is your own private affair, in the entertainment industry, this is a "default clause" or something that needs to be reported to the boss. In the brokerage contracts of many celebrities, there are clear provisions that during the xx year or xx product endorsement period, celebrities are not allowed to fall in love and get married and have children.
There are many male protagonists of film and television works or spokespersons of fashion brands, who are more inclined to choose male stars with blank emotional lives. Because these "single" male celebrities have fewer things than those who are in love or are married and have children, they have no emotional concerns and can spend all their time and energy on work.
2. Fear of harassment of wives and children's families
The main reason why "entertainment gossip" is so popular with the public is that the public has a special curiosity about those stars who are high up. Because of this, many fans will gradually deviate in the process of normal star chasing, and slowly become a certain star or a combination of "bastard meals", constantly sneaking into people's private lives, bringing a lot of unnecessary trouble to people's families.
Of course, in addition to "bastard meals", some undesirable media that are secretly filmed are also very headaches. These bad media will not only use the camera to scare the faces of the celebrities' families, but also may expose other people's private information on the public platform. Once this private information is exposed, in addition to causing "illegitimate meal" harassment to the celebrity's family, it may also lead to intimidation or kidnapping of his young children by criminals.
Tan Aizhen's daughter was secretly photographed by bad media on the way to school and announced her appearance, and was seriously bullied at school, which eventually led to depression; Bai Bingbing's daughter was announced by the media to go to and from school and her daily routine, and finally died tragically at the hands of kidnappers... It is precisely because of the lessons of the past that many stars will choose to hide the matter of marriage and children under helplessness.
3. It is conducive to increasing the exposure of group CP
Many film and television works in the process of broadcasting, there will be some "cp", in order to increase the ratings and in order to increase the exposure of actors, film and television producers often during the film and television works publicity roadshow, deliberately let the "official matching" in film and television works have a full of ambiguous interaction. Sometimes they also contact the media and deliberately create a little gossip for the two.
"cp" must be hyped up before the audience can buy it. If an actor and an actress want to bind and interact with a "cp", both of them must be single. Because only if they are all single, the audience will feel that it seems that it is possible to "fake the play and really do it" between them, and the audience will "snort" and get "sugar". But if either party is married or in love, then the "cp" is not so attractive to the audience.
And those male stars in the entertainment industry who choose to have children in hidden marriage have almost all eaten the dividends of bundling "cp" and enjoyed the exposure brought by "gossip". In order to maintain such an exposure rate, increase their popularity, and thus hide their marriage and children from the public, it is also understandable.
4. Convenient to go out at any time to pick up your sister
For some male celebrities with rich emotional lives, maintaining their own "single personality", in addition to the above three points, there is also a most attractive place. That is, when you go out to play, you can safely and boldly ask out your sister. Because it is "single", the female companion next to you can change at will, even if it is photographed by the media going in and out of the hotel with different women, at most it is just a reputation of "merrift", and when it is tired of playing and returning to the family, it is still a good man.
And those male stars who are not "single" as a "protective barrier", as long as they travel alone with the opposite sex other than their wives and are photographed, they will be crowned as "cheating" and "scumbags". Not only will it affect the image of "good man" that I have painstakingly created for many years, but even the relationship between husband and wife and the relationship between parents and children may be implicated badly.
Male celebrities maintain their "single" personality, mostly in order to maintain their career height. Such behavior does at some point avoid harassment and harm to one's wife and children. But the real protection is not to hide them carefully, but to give the wife and children enough security.
A man should let everyone know that you are the "top pillar" that shields his wife and children from the wind and rain, so that the wife can rely on her husband's strong shoulders at any time, so that the child can call out to his father at any time without any worries. Enshrine "family responsibility" as the first criterion is the most important thing for married male stars to do!