The ending of each character in "The Desire of the Golden Branch" is not good, Anxi is dead, Rufei has lost her daughter, Although Er Chun escaped from the palace, she can't find her sister in her life, Sun Baiyang and Yuying are both martyred, a palace fight, there is no winner.
Many people are distressed that Sun Baiyang finally ended up with a tragic death, thinking that it was Yuying who harmed him, but in the view of Za Tanjun, it is undeniable that Sun Baiyang's death, Yuying is responsible, but, in the final analysis, it is not Sun Baiyang who does not measure up.
01 Do unto others what you do not want
Sun Baiyang and his father's relationship is not good, mainly because when he hated his mother's death, his father did not come back to see the last side of his mother, as a son, but personally advised his mother not to wait any longer, such a hurt is indeed sympathetic.
But how does Sun Baiyang treat his wife Haoxue? From marrying Haoxue into the door, Sun Baiyang lingered in the land of fireworks and willow alleys, leaving his wife alone in the empty room.
If Haoxue is a cruel and willful, spicy and brutal woman, haoxue is beautiful, smart, gentle and sensible, but anyone who meets a man who has a family in his heart, Haoxue should be very happy.
Sun Baiyang let Haoxue young and widowed, Haoxue to Sun Baiyang, has let himself be low to the dust, even Sun Baiyang is willing to come back in the middle of the night, Haoxue will be too happy to speak clearly, Sun Baiyang said hungry, Haoxue immediately went to cook food for him happily.
Isn't Haoxue aggrieved? No, Haoxue was aggrieved, but she never said that Haoxue had been waiting, and when his husband was tired of playing outside and collected his heart, he could spend a long time with his husband, but in the end, he didn't even wait for a corpse.
Sun Baiyang resented that his father did not care about his mother, but when did he ever care about his wife, just because he had a grudge against his father, he vented this resentment to his wife together, so that her wife was snubbed and did not give her a good face.
They all say that they should not do to others what they do not want, but I see that Sun Baiyang has done to others what he does not want.
02 Do not measure up to your own strength, and cause trouble to the upper body
Sun Baiyang was a judge of the Tai Hospital and worked under his father, but because of his mother's affairs, it can be said that he and his father were incompatible, and even the ladies and ladies in the palace knew.
If the concubine is pregnant, but the fetal position is not correct, this fetus is difficult to protect, Sun Baiyang's father does not want Sun Baiyang to participate in it, decades of official ups and downs, Sun Daddy knew that the harem is a place of right and wrong, plus three years ago he was forced to let Rufei abort, he has long become an empress, and he also clearly knows the queen's viciousness, and does not want Sun Baiyang to provoke the empress.
However, in order to gamble with his father, Sun Baiyang wanted to take over the hot potato of Rufei, and Sun Baiyang thought that he could walk the harem and wander outside the fight, but everything could be as he wished.
Sun Baiyang probably forgot that there is a saying that Pifu is innocent of his guilt, he plunged headlong into the pile of right and wrong, even if he did not want to take sides, he would become a thorn in the eyes of everyone for various reasons.
Rufei's child ensured that Rufei was safe and sound, and Rufei would remember his personal feelings, but in the same way, this also meant that Sun Baiyang knew too many of her secrets, and once Sun Baiyang and the empress's people were close one day, this kindness was not enough to save his life.
After that, Sun Baiyang took over the matter of the little lords of the Zhong Pu Palace, the struggle between Er Chun and Yu Ying, as a tai doctor, he saw it, originally he revealed from the side that he would not say it, but he wanted to make a long speech there, and comment on others, just like Er Chun said, he thought who he was, thinking that the truth he knew was the whole truth.
In the end, Sun Baiyang succeeded in making others think that he was a concubine, and let the empress see him as a thorn in the flesh, so that Erchun and Yuying both noticed him, so that there was a series of enmity and entanglement in the future.
03 Be clever and don't know how to converge
On the one hand, Sun Baiyang shouted that he would not provoke right and wrong in the palace and would not participate in it; on the other hand, his behavior was pushing himself into right and wrong everywhere.
Sun Baiyang pitied Fuya, often in the name of Xu Gonggong to send things to Fuya, help her dot, bring her colored paper, care for Fuya very much, after knowing that Erchun may be Fuya's sister, he actually ran directly to Lady Xu to ask for an understanding, Lady Xu did not want him to be affected by these things, did not want to tell him, Sun Baiyang righteously felt that Lady Xu was looking down on his Sun Baiyang, which was unfair to Fuya and Erchun.
If it were not for Sun Baiyang's self-made cleverness, perhaps Fuya and Erchun would not have known in this life that each other was their long-lost sister, and Xu Gonggong would not have had the opportunity to threaten Fuya, and Fuya and Lady Xu would not have died in vain.
Especially Sun Baiyang helped Er Chun there, it seems that he is more naïve, Sun Bai Yang was entrusted by Xu Gonggong, take care of Er Chun in the palace, if Sun Bai Yang is really just in line with the attitude of the doctor's benevolence and pity Er Chun, he only needs to pay more attention to two points in daily life, but he always has to open his mouth and shut up in front of Er Chun and be entrusted by Xu Gonggong, as if he is afraid that others will not know that he is Xu Gonggong's person.
04 Do not know restraint, harm others and harm themselves
We don't know when Sun Baiyang began to like Yuying, but he should know Yuying's identity very well and understand Yuying's nature.
Sun Baiyang pitied her because of Yuying's filial piety, helped her to complete her wishes, and got the emperor's favor, although it was a little silly, but it also seemed that he was kind, originally ended here, and it was very good to return to the bridge road after the bridge, but Sun Baiyang wanted to cross the line.
Yuying deliberately embarrassed Sun Baiyang, asking him to paint a painting in front of himself and the emperor, Sun Baiyang was unwilling, he could find other reasons to refuse, Sun Baiyang said, only painting a beloved person can paint well, it is this sentence that makes Yuying really understand Sun Baiyang's heart for her.
Originally, it was not impossible to turn back here in time, but Sun Baiyang was getting deeper and deeper, Yuying asked him to go at night, he really went, in fact, what could he solve when he went? If Yuying really had a heart for him, wouldn't he have harmed Yuying, and the emperor's women would not be allowed to have other men in their hearts, which Sun Baiyang would not have understood.
In the Fuya Palace, whether Yuying is sincere or false, if Sun Baiyang himself is unwilling, how can the two be secretly knotted, and finally this matter was reported by the empress to the emperor, which caused the disaster in the future.
The role of Sun Baiyang may have his pity, and his feelings with Yuying are also worth sighing, but his irresponsibility to his wife should also be criticized, it is precisely because he is unable to recognize reality, self-righteousness, arrogance, and dissuasion, there will be such an ending, it can be said that Sun Baiyang is completely disappointed in himself, and his disasters are all self-inflicted.