"Sometimes it's just creation that makes people, Lao Ding likes cultured and gentle people, but he got married twice, but he didn't get his wish. ”
In "Parents Love", Lao Ding's love life is hotly discussed, obviously he likes An Jie, but he didn't get married twice.
After his first wife Wang Xiu'e died in childbirth, Lao Ding, who had the right to choose a mate, immediately fell in love twice, but both ended in failure.
Frustrated in love, he turned to look at Jiang Dehua, who had been silently treating him.
So is Lao Ding compromising or loving Jiang Dehua?
Just look at the performance of their daughter Ding Xiaoyan.
Dehua who has been working for others all his life
In "Parents' Love", Jiang Dehua's image is the most emotional, from the annoying at the beginning to the distressing at the end, he simply played this role.
Dehua's brother Jiang Defu has seen children for most of his life, and when he learned that his sister-in-law An Jie was pregnant again, Dehua's sentence "God, you still don't let people live" can be called a classic.
The image of "Aunt Dehua" has also caused a craze on the Internet, and everyone has started to do "Dehua" and help her brother and sister-in-law take care of the children, which is really laughable.
But Dehua's first life did not go well, she had been married once, but it was an arranged marriage in the countryside, and as soon as she got married, her husband did not know where he went, so he was forced to remain a widow.
However, because she didn't know her husband's life or death, she couldn't leave her in-law's house, so she had to work in her mother-in-law's house, and she was constantly suppressed and bullied by her mother-in-law.
Fortunately, her brother Jiang Defu got married and settled in the city, so he asked her to move in with her under the pretext of taking care of the children.
At the beginning, because Dehua from the countryside and An Jie, who grew up in the city, their lifestyles were very different, so they always had conflicts, and Jiang Defu suffered too much as an intermediary.
Later, the arrival of Lao Ding's rural wife Wang Xiu'e added a lot of fun to Dehua's life.
During this time, they have experienced too much, moving from Qingdao to a small island with poor living conditions, and An Jie gave birth to a total of five children in a row.
And Dehua's task is to take care of children, Dehua has never given birth to children, but the experience of raising children is really enough.
It can be said that Dehua spent half of his life watching his children and taking care of his brother's life.
In any case, Dehua has always been giving, once in her mother-in-law's house, and later in her brother's family, she dedicated her life to others, but she did not enjoy any blessings.
Later, when Lao Ding went to the island, Dehua shifted the object of giving, as if she was used to blindly giving, and forgot that she was also a person who could enjoy happiness.
Dehua married Lao Ding as he wished
When Lao Ding went to the island, he only brought his youngest son four things.
At this time, Wang Xiu'e had already passed away, and she left because of four difficult births.
Hearing this news, everyone expressed sympathy and pity, especially Dehua, how good the relationship between her and Xiu'e's sister-in-law was before, but after not seeing her in the past few years, the person is gone.
So since then, Dehua has always gone to Lao Ding's house from time to time, wanting to take care of and help them.
And in this slow relationship, Dehua had other feelings for Lao Ding, and she began to like Lao Ding.
But Dehua is not Lao Ding's dish, Lao Ding likes people like An Jie, when Jiang Defu and An Jie got married, Lao Ding didn't know how much he envied Jiang Defu, this feeling was even more uncomfortable than killing himself.
So at this time, I finally returned to being single, but I can't meet my needs according to such standards.
However, the reality is cruel, and after two relationships, they ended without a problem, because he was too timid and did not have the bearing of Jiang Defu.
After experiencing these two failed marriages, Lao Ding finally stopped pursuing youth, beauty and culture, but was realistic, and turned his head to look at the man who was always paying for himself.
"You marry me, the two of us live together, I marry you. ”
Dehua finally kept the clouds open and saw the moon, and the years of hard work were not in vain, and the two got married immediately and lived together.
It didn't take long for them to give birth to a lovely daughter named Ding Xiaoyan.
So is Jiang Dehua happy when he marries Lao Ding?
Did Lao Ding ever love Dehua?
As soon as Ding Xiaoxiang was born, he directly received the love of everyone from all over the world, in addition to Lao Ding and Dehua, Jiang Defu's family couldn't put down Ding Xiaoxiang.
They knew how much Dehua had paid for them, and the children knew how much their aunt loved them, so they turned all Dehua's efforts into love and repaid Ding Xiaoyan.
Ding Xiaoyan grew up in such a loving environment.
If you want to talk about the most favorite Ding sample, it has to be her father Lao Ding.
In fact, Lao Ding has always wanted a daughter, when he was in the military academy in the past, Lao Ding told Jiang Dehua that he wanted another daughter, because he already had three sons in front of him, so he sent a daughter.
Unexpectedly, Wang Xiu'e's fourth child still gave birth to a son, and Wang Xiu'e also died due to dystocia, so her daughter dream was shattered.
After Dehua married Lao Ding, he gave birth to a daughter in his first child, which directly fulfilled Lao Ding's wish for many years.
Lao Ding only wants one daughter, and after this is realized, because he already has five children, he doesn't need to have another child.
For Lao Ding, there are enough children, but for Dehua, he only gave birth to one child.
Here it seems that Lao Ding is very selfish, thinking only about himself, not considering Dehua's feelings.
Later, after Lao Ding died, he was buried with his first wife Wang Xiu'e, and under the discussion of Lao Ding's sons, they completely ignored the existence of Dehua.
Obviously, Dehua is also Lao Ding's wife, but the children only think about their mother, as if they have long been accustomed to Dehua's blind tolerance and giving, and they don't care about her feelings at all.
If it weren't for Yafei's appearance, Dehua might have spent the rest of his life in such forbearance.
And her daughter Ding Xiaoyan didn't do anything, her mother suffered such a big grievance, but she didn't show a single face, let alone say a word for her mother.
From the children's behavior, it is easy to see how Lao Ding usually treats Dehua.
If the old Ding Edward, then the children will unconsciously care about and care about Edward, but the reality is not.
Ding Xiaoxiang also became weak and incompetent because of Lao Ding's doting, and when his mother was wronged, he didn't know and didn't dare to stand up for his mother.
But in the end, it is up to her to decide whether Dehua is happy or not, no matter what, she married the person she liked, gave birth to her own children, and lived a decent life, which is enough.