In modern society, after many people get married, in the environment where conditions permit, they will choose to move out of their respective families and start their own families.
The most important reason for this should be that the problem of getting along between family members, as the saying goes, "it is easy to love each other, it is difficult to get along", and partners are like this, let alone their own relatives.
Among them, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is recognized as the most difficult relationship to get along with, and many families are separated because the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not handled well.
Our modern mother-in-law relationship is so difficult to engage in, so if the harem mother-in-law of the emperor in the feudal period is not harmonious, what will be the result?
In the history of the harem, the most famous mother-in-law and daughter-in-law discord is cixi and Arut.
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To say that the contradiction between the two is actually very simple, that is, Cixi is unhappy with the Arut clan, of course, there is a reason behind this.
The Tongzhi Emperor Zaichun ascended the throne at a young age, so he always had two empress dowagers to assist him, one was his biological mother Cixi, and the other was the Xianfeng Emperor's empress Dowager Ci'an.
In that era of power supremacy, once she had enjoyed the delicacy of power, it was difficult for people to let go, and Cixi was like this, she used Zaichun's lack of knowledge as an excuse to prolong her time in power.
It was not until Jae-jun was 17 years old that he had to draft a draft, but in terms of the selection of the empress, the empress dowagers of the two palaces had their own ideas.
Cixi took a fancy to Fucha, the daughter of the waiter, and Ci'an took a fancy to the daughter of the waiter, the Alute clan.
Fucha was very beautiful, but her demeanor was very frivolous, and Ci'an felt that she was not suitable to be an empress.
The Aluth clan is different, not only beautiful, but also dignified, generous and decent, and is the best candidate for the queen.
I don't know if it was Ci'an's evaluation that made Cixi think of herself, Cixi had not been able to become empress when The Xianfeng Emperor was alive, naturally she was unwilling, coupled with Ci'an's statement, she was even more angry.
In this way, the two empresses had their own opinions, and in the end it was up to the emperor to decide who would be the empress, thinking that the emperor would choose the Fucha clan favored by his own mother Cixi, but emperor He Nai preferred the Arut clan that Ci'an favored.
Later, the emperor made the 19-year-old Alut clan empress and the Fucha clan a concubine, which although the emperor agreed with his own wishes, he went against Cixi's wishes and laid the foundation for the Arut clan.
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Arut was the daughter of the Mongolian Zhenglan Banner Chongqi, and although she was Mongolian, she was also born in the Shuxiang family, because her father Chongqi was the only bannerman in the Qing Dynasty.
Aluth was also a very talented woman, she knew poetry very well, and she could write very beautiful large characters with her left hand.
The Arut clan is well-known, gentle and virtuous, and very much loved by Zaichun, and after they became intimate, the feelings of the two people were very close, so Zaichun rarely went to live in other concubines' palaces.
The unity of the empress dowager was originally a very beneficial thing for the harem of the former dynasty, but Cixi could not look at it, and she always regarded the Arute clan as a thorn in the eye and a thorn in the flesh.
From time to time, he would find an excuse to scold her, often saying that she was a fox to seduce the lord, and did not allow the emperor to go to her place, so that the emperor could live with Concubine Hui.
The emperor was also an ordinary person, watching Cixi always scold his beloved, his heart was also helpless and helpless, he had no real power, Cixi was his mother, he was also very depressed.
There was no way, Cixi would not let him go to the empress, and he did not want the empress to be scolded all the time, so he did not go to any of the palaces, and lived alone in the Qianqing Palace.
The relationship between Cixi and Zaichun gradually deteriorates, but Cixi thinks that this is caused by the Alut clan saying bad things about her behind her back, and she is even more annoyed with her.
And Zaichun had no right to decide anything in the imperial court, and he could not choose who was close to him in the harem, so living in this way, anyone felt very depressed and depressed.
Such a long day is unbearable for everyone, and in order to help Zaichun relieve his emotions and release his bitterness, the people around him took him out of the palace and went to the famous fireworks place in the capital.
There ZaiChun met all kinds of women with all kinds of styles, he enjoyed everything here, he could decide everything, and all his suppressed emotions were released here.
The imperial court and the harem were controlled by Cixi, and he was useless, so he drank and had fun in the land of fireworks every day, not asking about the world, and this indulgent life made his life eventually perish.
Not long after, Zaichun fell ill, and at this time, the Arut clan did not dare to go to take care of it, for fear of being reprimanded by Cixi, and could only inquire from a distance and silently care.
Even so, Cixi still did not let her go, reprimanding her husband for being sick and unwilling to take care of her, not being a good wife and a good empress.
Later, Zaichun's illness worsened, and the Arut clan went to take care of her without hesitation, but Cixi scolded her for being a fox, and the emperor was sick like this, and came to charm him.
No matter what the Arut clan did, she could not escape the scolding, Cixi was so insulting to her, she once finally couldn't stand it, and replied to Cixi that she was the emperor, the empress of the Middle Palace who was brought in from the Bright and Righteous Gate of the Great Qing Gate.
This sentence completely angered Cixi, which can also be regarded as Cixi's reverse scale, Cixi did not say anything after listening to it, and went up to fight.
At that time, the scene was very brutal, and the Arut clan was torn by Cixi in various ways, and it is said that his hair was torn off even his scalp, and his face was covered in blood.
Zai Chun saw this scene and wanted to prevent the sick from getting out of bed, and he fainted in a hurry. Cixi saw that his son had fainted, so he spared the Arut clan.
Unfortunately, Zaichun was not able to survive in the end, and he died at the age of 19. Originally, Zaichun was the backing of the Aluth clan, and now that he is dead, you can imagine the situation of the Arut clan.
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It is said that not long after Zaichun's death, the Arut clan was very sad, knowing that cixi would not let her go when he was alive, so he wanted to commit suicide by swallowing gold, but he was found and saved.
She even found out that she was pregnant and wanted to keep the imperial heir, but Cixi thought that if she became the empress dowager, she would not have the right, and she was not willing.
So through the Arut clan's father Chongqi hinted that she committed suicide, perhaps not wanting her child to become the next Zaichun! She gladly accepted.
Since then, she has not eaten again and starved herself to death. Only 70 days after her husband's death, she was buried by the scenery after her death, known as Empress Xiaozheyi in history, and zaichun in the same cave.
Another era of people's livelihood, a group of tomb robbers heard that Empress Xiao zheyi died by swallowing gold, so they dug up her coffin and threw away her stomach.
The fact that a generation of empresses died in such a situation is truly lamentable.
In fact, there is no contradiction between Cixi and Aluth's mother-in-law themselves, but only because of their identity, background and Cixi's selfish intentions have led to all this.
As an empress, although Arut was favored by her husband and honored by her mother, it was only because she failed to please her mother-in-law Cixi, she was wronged and sought perfection, and in the end she did not have a good ending, which was really regrettable.