The dowry of the daughter of the beautiful wen 丨 Author: Han Shishan Recitation: Wang Hui

Author: Han Shishan Recitation: Wang Hui

The daughter is 15 years old, a junior high school student, half-hearted, and has first learned about marriage. The relationship between our father and daughter, usually so so-so, to put on a polite sentence, can be said to be between teachers and friends, often make some jokes that are not right, every day she is out of school, I put down the pen, there is a wife cooking, the father and daughter will laugh and frolic in the living room. The living room is close to the kitchen, which is also a comfort to the wife who is "in the line of fire". My son went to school out of town, and this is the most lively time of day for our family of three.

On this day, I said to my daughter that my father has been working hard for most of his life, and he is dying of old age, and when your brothers and sisters become a family, they are afraid that they will not have enough money and materials to cope with. But I have thousands of books, and some household appliances, when the time comes, you can give them all, compared to the two, home appliances are worth more than books, do you want home appliances or books?

This joke has been played before, I remember when she said she wanted books, I wanted to seduce her to ask for home appliances, refrigerators, color TVs, video recorders, these things, there should always be some attraction for a girl, and then taunt her.

She seemed to see my trick, rolled her eyes, and said, "I don't want it." "Then what do you want?" "I want you." "An old father, you don't hate it, your mouth is still disgusted." "That's not going to happen." My daughter said, "When I got to my house, I locked you in a house and asked you to write articles, and the fee was all mine." With you, don't you have everything? "Hahaha, I'm laughing so hard I'm out of breath." Sakura can come up with this ghost idea! The wife listened in the kitchen and pretended to be disgusted. I have to admit that this fight, I was a complete failure.

In the past few years, how much progress she has made in her studies, I don't know, but there has been a lot of progress in the mouth, for example, a few days ago, for something, her mother and daughter "offended" me, and I quoted Confucius's words to ridicule them: "Only women and villains are difficult to raise, far away are resentful, and near is not inferior." Your mother is a woman, you are a villain. ”

But when he saw her wink, he replied in passing:

"Dad, you're right, but you misunderstood Confucius's words. That sentence is: Women and children are difficult for people like you to educate, why? When you are far away, you resent others, and when you are close, you do not respect them."

Wow! I forgot that I was fighting and immediately praised it. However, although that remark is also alert, it is not as cute as asking me to do the dowry today. Interestingly, how could she come up with such a tricky and playful word, there was nothing to be ashamed of, and it was not a great joy in life to be able to make a dowry for her daughter. At least it shows that I, the father, am still a useful thing, and I have not yet fallen to the point of "old and not dead for thieves". But when he thought about the various encounters between his brothers and sisters when they were young, he couldn't help but feel a little sad.

I left home at a young age, studied in a negative way, and worked in other places, and after I became a family, my husband and wife were separated, and both his brothers and sisters were born in the countryside of their hometown. Family reunions have only been a matter of nearly a decade. When the child was born, he did not return home to take care of him because of his busy work and financial difficulties. Slightly older, but also failed to give more caresses, the general children have toys, almost did not buy, only remember to buy a plastic watermelon for my son, eight cents, for my daughter to buy a rag doll, a dollar and four corners. My wife once told me about such a small thing, and when I think about it today, I still can't help but sigh.

When my daughter was 3 years old, once her wife took her to town to play, came to the department store, the child saw a small cart, crying and asking her mother to buy it for her. A car is only about twenty yuan, but it is an unimaginable amount for my family. At that time, I was paid 50 yuan a month to support a family of four. The wife coaxed the child and said, "When Dad earns 80 yuan in January, he will buy it for you." The salesman listened with a look of disdain. At that time, to earn 80 yuan, let alone become the secretary of the county party committee!

My wife, fearing that I was sad, never told me about this, and did not inadvertently mention it until the first two years. I asked my daughter if she remembered it, and she said she didn't remember. The child can forget that the father knows. It was unforgettable. This regret, even to the death, will be engraved in my heart. So far, every time I go to the street, walk through the place where toys are sold, and see a small cart, I can't bear to look at it. Of course, this debt can also be doubled up in other ways, but that is nothing more than self-deception, whatever way you want. Can it make up for the trauma of a child's early childhood? Even though she may not know that her daughter now loves to collect small animals, and also loves to make small crafts such as rag dolls, hanging on the bedside and placing them on the desk, I suspect that this is the compensation for the shortcomings of my childhood. It was too sad and too cruel, and I never broke it.

Don't talk about children, I now love to play and play with children, why not be a kind of spiritual compensation?

Some people say that the Reason why the Southern Tang Dynasty Li Hou Lord was incompetent was because he was "born in the palace and grew up in the hands of women." I really don't dare to argue, but I always feel that being older than a woman's hand really can't be said to be a bad thing. My father worked in the field all his life and rarely came home, and I was raised by my mother. After reuniting with his wife, he dressed and ate, and the wife took care of everything. In the future, when you are old and weak, bedridden, and you can serve soup medicine in front of the bed, I am afraid that only my daughter will be afraid. In a person's life, he has the love of his mother at an early age, the care of his wife in adulthood, and the service of his daughter in his later years, which can also be regarded as a great blessing and a great fortune. Thinking of this, I said to my daughter, "Daddy will do your dowry, just go to your house, don't lock in the house." ”

"That's not okay." The daughter smiled and said, "Don't lock it, in two days you will run to my brother's house again." ”

I think so, a pair of sons and daughters, which can not be put down?

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