【Original】
1. Zigong asked, "Who has a word that can be practiced for life?" Zi Yue: "Forgiveness! Do not do to others what you do not want. ”
2. Zi Yue: "I am to others, who destroys whose reputation?" If there is a reputation, it has been tried. Si Min also, the reason why the three generations are straight and go also. ”
3. Zi Yue: "Wu Yu and Shi No Que Wen Ye." Those who have horses borrow from others to take advantage of them, and now they are dead! ”
【Translation】
1. Zigong asked, "Is there a word that can be practiced for life?" Confucius said, "Probably 'forgiveness'!" What you don't want, don't impose on others. ”
2. Confucius said, "Who have I slandered against others?" Who was praised? If there is any praise, there must be something to look at him. Xia, Shang, and The Three Generations are like this, so they can go straight. ”
3. Confucius said, "I can still see the doubts and gaps in the history books." People with horses (who can't be trained themselves) lend them to others to ride first, and now there is no such thing. ”
【Experience】
Confucius said that do not do to others what you do not want. That is to say, what you don't want, don't impose on others.
As a mother, I understand, "There is a kind of cold, called my mother feels cold", "there is a kind of sleepiness, called my mother feels that I am sleepy", the essence of which is the mandatory love for the child. To tell the truth, the child is not cold, sleepy or not sleepy, such as people drinking water, she herself knows.
So, do we really love children? Actually, not necessarily.
Because, in the eyes of kindergarten children, I am obedient today, my mother loves me - my mother loves my good child; when I went to primary school, I took the first exam, my mother loved me - my mother loved my grades; the world of middle school students, I did not have early love, my mother loved me - my mother loved me - my mother loved me not to fall in love; after college, I could find a good job after graduation, my mother loved me - my mother loved me is my good job; after work, I quickly got married, my mother loved me - my mother loved me - my mother loved me to start a family; after marriage, When I have a child, my mother loves me - my mother loves her children and grandchildren around her knees...
It can be said that the mother's love is always impure and always comes with conditions; and we must give our children unconditional love, unresponsive love.
Because, home, is an eternal haven; because, giving birth to you is my intention, raising you is my responsibility; because, no matter what, you are the child of Mom and Dad.
