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In the deep-rooted concept of the ancient Chinese tradition, the son is always much more important than the daughter, and the dominant factor of this idea is to raise the child to prevent the elderly, and in the heart of the old man, the son is always able to raise the elderly, and the daughter is already the daughter-in-law of someone else's family.
Parents do not force the adoption of children to prevent aging, but sensible children will remember the parenting grace of their parents when they grow up, and send them to the end of their parents' pension, but recently Ren Xianqi's behavior has caused controversy.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="77" > Ren Xianqi has been famous for many years, and his parents still live in the old house</h1>
The grace of parenting is greater than the sky, no matter what the child's living conditions, once the child has a family, he will do his best to help the original family. As a famous singer, Ren Xianqi's classic songs are often looped infinitely, and many people are also his loyal fans.
Recently, in a variety show, the scene of Ren Xianqi returning to his hometown to visit his parents was recorded, and Ren Xianqi's family life was not good when he was a child, and he and his parents and siblings were dependent on each other.
In order to make a living, he has done a number of odd jobs, and people are sad for Ren Xianqi's childhood. Fortunately, the whole family cherishes each other, so that Ren Xianqi can stick to his career and become an excellent singer.
Now Ren Xianqi saw his elderly parents, with white hair on their heads, hunched over, and their eyes were full of tears.
In addition to being moved by ren xianqi's story, people paid special attention to the house where Ren Xianqi's parents lived, which was very shabby and had a sense of age at first glance, and must have not been renovated for a long time. People can't help but wonder, Ren Xianqi is now rich, how can he bear to watch his old parents live in such an environment?
While some people question, some people also feel the same way, sometimes it is not that they do not want to take their parents to their side, but that their parents do not want to leave the old house.
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The children grow up and want to take the old man to their side and talk about filial piety, but the old man is not willing to go to the child's side, mostly because of these important reasons.
1) The place where I originally lived, there were friends and neighbors whose parents had been there for many years
The old man has become accustomed to living for decades, here are good relatives and friends, everyone has known each other for many years, no one is willing to leave anyone.
Coming to a strange place where no one can communicate with themselves, boring life makes people stressful, feel lonely and lonely, no matter how good the environment is not rare, these people who accompany each other are a valuable asset.
2) Have feelings for old houses
Living in an old house for decades, it is natural to have a deep feeling, this house records the youth of the elderly, from the initial marriage to the birth of a child, here has left an indelible footprint.
The old house where Ren Xianqi's parents lived recorded a photo of Ren Xianqi after he became famous, which was a manifestation of parents' love for their children.
These precious things are especially warm in the old house, and the children will return here to find their childhood memories and feel the warmth of home.
3) The elderly do not want to cause trouble for their children
Children to the elderly to the side, will certainly pay extra attention to take care of the elderly, whether it is economic, time or energy to pay, will make the children's pressure increase a lot.
The old man does not want to see his children running for him, he hopes not to cause trouble for his children, as long as he sees his children living well, he is satisfied.
So what should children do if they want to do some filial piety in this situation? Can't you always adopt the online shopping filial piety method completely? Here we have to mention Ren Xianqi's approach.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="103" > the same way of filial piety as Ren Xianqi, which will also be liked by parents</h1>
Ren Xianqi is a person with great character in the eyes of his friends and in the hearts of his family, so he does not have unfilial behavior, he is honoring his parents in his own way, which is worth learning.
First, take the time to walk with your parents
The old man hopes that the busy children will take time to accompany themselves in their leisure time, and Ren Xianqi has fulfilled his obligations very well, taking his parents throughout most of China after work, which is a good companion for his parents and also allows his parents to see the world.
Second, live up to the expectations of parents
Many times parents hate iron and steel, but if the child can be a person that parents expect, it is enough to bring psychological comfort to parents.
Ren Xianqi is loyal and kind, filial piety to his parents is also very good to his aunt, after becoming famous, he does not forget the people in his hometown, invites his old family to dinner, insists on donating money for his hometown, and does not disappoint his parents at all.
Also, do what you can to be nice to your parents
Ordinary people may not have the financial strength to donate to their hometown, but they can be good to the elderly with their own strength and let the elderly experience the care of their children.
Sugar Mother's heart words:
Although parents do not want children, it does not mean that parents do not need children, children should be grateful, remember the kindness of parents, parents if they do not want to leave the old house should not force, as good as possible to them.