#山哥情感观点系列 #
(Shan Ge talks about emotions, picture from the Internet)
| Wen/Pang Fengshan
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Speaking of the great Director of Hong Kong Wu Yusen, I am afraid that no one does not know his name, and there was a movie "The True Colors of Heroes" that was popular throughout China that year, which can be described as well-known and deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
Through the film "The True Colors of Heroes", we are reminded of the image of Wu Yusen must be a tough guy, who advocates the aesthetics of violence.
However, if we get close to each other, we will find that Wu Yusen has a very emotional and affectionate side, he is a man who longs for warmth, fairness and justice in his heart.
Wu Yusen's achievements in the film needless to say, in addition to "The True Colors of Heroes", his director 'Streets of Blood', "Across the Seas", "Hot Hand Detective", as well as a series of films such as "Mission Impossible", "The Wind Whisperer", "Chibi", "Taiping Wheel" and so on are classics and have become the lingering memories of a generation.
Wu Yusen's love for movies is difficult for us to understand, and it is difficult to describe it in words, so that he has devoted too much energy to the film business, and he is deeply sorry that he does not take care of his family enough, and has too little companionship with his wife and family.
About the little stories between him and his wife, in his guest CCTV "Let's Talk" column, he told them affectionately.
It can be seen that Wu Yusen and his wife have a very good relationship, and he loves his wife very much. He even specifically mentioned in the show that the reason why he wanted to love his wife for a lifetime actually started with such a small thing.
Speaking of which, this little thing can't be any smaller, it can't be simpler.
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About this little thing, Wu Yusen and his wife, when they first met, he liked her liveliness, cuteness and innocence. So, the first impression that my wife gave him was good.
On their first date, the two went to coffee together, and in the coffee shop, while the two were chatting, Wu Yusen found that his wife had red nails.
Therefore, Wu Yusen said to his wife: I don't like girls to paint their nails, can you wipe it off?
Perhaps, at that time, Wu Yusen was just a half-joking remark, but Wu Yusen's wife really took it seriously. As a result, on her second date with Wu Yusen, she really wiped off her red nail polish.
It is precisely because of such a small matter and his wife's move that wu Yusen completely touched Wu Yusen, so that Wu Yusen fell deeply in love with his wife, and decided from the bottom of his heart to love his wife for a lifetime.
In fact, wiping off nail polish is indeed a trivial matter. However, in Wu Yusen's view, his wife is not as simple as simply wiping off nail polish, behind this, he sees the "sincerity" of a girl.
Yes, in the relationship, what can most impress people? Undoubtedly, the word sincerity is the so-called sincerity of the heart.
Whether it is doing anything, especially the interaction between people, including love and marriage, it is important that you have an incomparably sincere heart, only in this way can you impress the other party and make the other party willing to come closer to you.
At the scene of the "Let's Talk" program, Wu Yusen's affectionate story about this small matter with his wife not only touched the program host Sabine, but also touched many viewers on the scene.
Even, a young girl said to Wu Yusen that she was full of envy and jealousy for Wu Yusen's feelings for her wife, and said with emotion: If in reality, all the people who meet are men like Wu Yusen who have heavy feelings, then girls will not be so troubled and half-convinced in love.
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At the scene of the show, there were also girls who innocently asked Wu Yusen whether he would be able to find his true love by wiping off his nail polish in the future.
In this regard, Wu Yusen said solemnly: Everyone has their own fate, and it is right to find their own fate.
Another girl asked Wu Yusen, if you want to find a good boyfriend and a good husband, what is the standard?
The answer given by Wu Yusen is: love is born from the heart, in addition to the appearance of the two people, mainly to see if they can feel each other's heart, in the end it is still the sincerity of the heart, including his wife wiped off nail polish for himself, which is to make him feel a sincerity.
To this end, Sabine concluded next to him that there is only one criterion: sincerity!
Yes, in the relationship, every love, every fate, every marriage, I am afraid it is inseparable from these two words, sincerity, is the infectious, is the greatest power, it can open your dusty heart and closed heart door.
In life, there are no pairs of lovers who do not come together because of each other's sincerity, and there is no pair of lovers who do not end up parting ways because of mutual lack of sincerity.
Many times, falling in love with someone may be simple, perhaps the moment when the skirt is flying, a casual look, an action, and the arc of the corner of the mouth.
However, it is probably not so simple for a person to decide to love each other for a lifetime, just like the relationship between Wu Yusen and his wife, on the surface, he decided to love his wife for a lifetime because of a small thing, because of a move, because his wife wiped off nail polish.
In fact, it was Wu Yusen who saw his wife's sincerity and sincerity with his heart, and saw her inner innocence, and it was precisely because of these two words that he was deeply moved from then on, prompting him to make up his mind to love his wife for a lifetime.
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Brother Shan, an emotional columnist with temperature and attitude, hopes to warm and accompany every lonely heart with the words of the heart!