In reality, saving a few useful connections for yourself is a big thing related to your future and the convenience of life.
Don't be stupid enough to just know that you are invited to dinner, that way is too shallow, and it can't get into people's hearts at all.
Adults, what is important is reality, and if you can have someone to help you, you have to hold it well, don't take it seriously.
It's just that some people are very stupid, and when they help, they still pick and choose, thinking that they have taken advantage, but they really suffer a big loss.
Such a good network, if managed properly, can make a big difference when it is critical.
01
When you are in good times, take the initiative to repay others.
In reality, we don't meet many people who really help in difficult situations.
Most of the people who are willing to pull you a hand are good people with excellent character, and you have to cherish them when you meet them.
If you are at a low point, the other party takes the initiative to lend a hand, and when you turn over one day, don't leave this affection behind.
People have to have a little conscience, and when they are going well, they must also think about repaying others, so as to show your affection and righteousness.
I once read a book in which the protagonist was so depressed that he lived by borrowing money, and it was a friend who provided him with a job, so that he had food and clothes to wear, and he could barely get by.
When he is developed, he immediately repays that friend tenfold and thanks the other party for sending charcoal in the snow that year.
You have to understand that such a person is rare, and once you miss it, it will be difficult to find it in the future.
To be a man, you must know how to repay your kindness, so that interpersonal relationships can last for a long time.
02
Keep up with each other.
In reality, nobles are a gold mine that can change the trajectory of your life.
If someone has helped you at a critical moment and made a qualitative leap in your life, then you have to seize this opportunity.
Don't think that you are fighting alone, follow this noble person closely, continue to learn and continue to do things, so that you can consolidate this relationship and even make your life path wider and wider.
Just like with the right boss, he can give you the opportunity to go from being a nobody to having a face.
It is a hundred times more useful to follow the nobles closely than to bury your head and work hard alone.
Those who can pull you when you are at a low point and take you for a ride when you are in good times are the ones who are really worth approaching.
If you want to mix well, it is not only how hard you work, but also whether you have noble people to help.
It is far more effective to grasp this "invisible line" than to go it alone in the quagmire.
So, don't miss out on a noble person who can change your fate because of carelessness.
03
On weekdays, you have to remember the good of others.
In reality, the most important thing to be a person is to remember the goodness of others.
People who have helped you, don't wait for others to take the initiative to contact you, and use more snacks yourself.
During the New Year's holidays, give someone a small gift, it doesn't have to be expensive, the key is that heart.
Usually remember to give a greeting and say happy birthday, these small details can make people's hearts warm, and the relationship will naturally become stronger and stronger.
I have a friend who helped him a lot when he first started his business in the early years, borrowing money and introducing business.
Later, during the New Year's holidays, my friends were worried about sending some gifts to that relative, sometimes they were hometown specialties, and sometimes they were some practical small household appliances.
This goes back and forth, and the relationship gets better and better.
People's hearts are flesh and blood, and if you pay more warmth, the other party will naturally remember it.
Maintaining such relationships is much more effective than if you were going to make new friends everywhere.
Because those who are really willing to help you are there to lend a helping hand when you are at a low point, not to bragging with you when you are eating and drinking.
To be a man, you must remember to send charcoal in the snow. Those who pull you by in your most difficult times are truly friends worth protecting.
Don't wait until the relationship is weak and cold to regret not cherishing it in the first place.
Feelings become firm in taking care of each other again and again.
Let my words come into your heart
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