As China's aging problem becomes more and more serious, the structure of Chinese's population has become a big problem. Many experts believe that the era of China's demographic dividend is over. The aging problem will inevitably bring about many other social problems, so it has become the focus of many departments.
However, although after the opening of the two-child policy, China ushered in a wave of newborns, but the opening of the three-child policy after that was obviously not as effective as before. Nowadays, there are fewer and fewer pregnant women on the streets, and there is no increase in the number of pregnant women waiting for prenatal check-ups in obstetrics and gynaecology departments. To this end, the state is about to launch a survey of 30,000 people calling for perception, wanting to analyze the reasons why young people who do not want to have children and do not dare to give birth.
The main reason why young people are reluctant to have children
For the upcoming launch of the 30,000 people of marriage and childbearing concept survey, there are also a lot of discussions on the Internet, and even many netizens said that this kind of analysis does not need to be done at all, as long as you search for marriage topics on the Internet, which is full of the main reasons why young people are unwilling to have children and get married.
In view of the current view of marriage among many young people, many young people are very honest on the Internet. Many young people are no longer reluctant to have children, but rather unwilling to get married.
Most of today's young people have grown up in a relatively good environment and have received a relatively good education. Their self-awareness and self-worth realization are greater than everything else, so their concept of marriage and love is much more advanced. Many times, some people enjoy being in love, but are reluctant to get married, while some people even think that they are born complete and are not even willing to talk about love.
Some female students believe that the division of labor between men and women is still one of the main reasons why women are reluctant to marry in the current marital work environment. Many men are still trapped in the old concept of marriage, believing that women should take the responsibility of the family for granted, including having children and doing housework.
But obviously, under the current social value system, women can create the same social and economic value as men, and it is obviously difficult for women to go to work and take care of their families. And men want to ask women to be stay-at-home wives, which conflicts with the self-concept of many women.
In this regard, many women said that before getting married and becoming a full-time wife, the boy's statement was that I raised you, and when I really resigned and became a full-time wife, the man's mouth would become that I raised you. Obviously, in terms of your current female ability, they can occupy the same position as men in the workplace, earn their own money and spend it themselves, how can they be willing to stretch out their hands and humbly ask others for money?
In addition, many women find that married women will also face some discrimination in the workplace. When HR asks women questions, they always bring up questions about how you balance family and work, and when you plan to have children. Many women believe that this is a lack of recognition of their ability to work, and it is also an invisible discrimination between men and women in the workplace.
It is natural for women to say that they do not want to have children and do not want to get married, but the problem is that many young men nowadays are also reluctant to get married. They are reluctant to take on too much responsibility from their families. Before, they earned their own money and spent it themselves, could support themselves and do what they wanted.
But after getting married, they have to work extra hard to make ends meet, and even then, they may have to leave behind many of their hobbies and personal time. In this regard, many men are not willing to easily step into the whirlpool of marriage when they lack a certain sense of responsibility, or do not think that they have enough family responsibility.
Perhaps, many people think that young people nowadays are too selfish and only think about themselves and do not want the future. But in fact, this is precisely the performance of young people's responsibility, they are more willing to provide more security for their future married life and children, so they are not willing to commit too much when they have not settled down.
In the past, even though they were very poor, they were very poor. Because he will know how much money he will earn tomorrow and where he will go in the future. But for today's young people, even if they have a small amount of savings, they are still afraid of accidents, as long as the money in their hands is not enough to maintain their sense of security, young people will always be in a kind of confusion.
In such a situation, young people, of course, are reluctant to marry and have children. What's more, there are many hidden fertility costs after having a baby. From prenatal check-ups to children's family education, each of them requires a large amount of expenditure. And in addition to financial expenses, even young people need to pay a lot of time.
For many young people nowadays, it is very difficult to juggle both work and family. Under such prerequisites and circumstances, young men and women have a lower desire to marry, and even after marriage, they are not willing to have children too early, and even if they have children, they are not willing to have more children.